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Old 05-10-2008, 12:47 PM
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I first heard that line in.... let me think.... 1984.

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Old 05-10-2008, 01:15 PM
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Old 06-01-2008, 10:25 PM
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Lol I just saw this thread now. I do find it painful especially when they say no. I suck too I have the most unconventional approaches. I've managed to go out 2 dates in April by texting the girl and asking her to dinner. And having my friend leave a message on her facebook asking her to come on a double date with my friend. I have no idea how those worked but they did.
Old 06-01-2008, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
I suck too I have the most unconventional approaches.
Hahaha...Were you the drunk church girl's sucker? If so, I remember coaching you. Hell, the whole forum did. Did you ever get laid? I know you didn't that time, but did you ever?Was our hard work in vain? Your public has a right to know!
Old 06-02-2008, 02:43 PM
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i usually make very strong eye contact before i ask a girl out. if shes giving me the look back i go for it, if not i usually pass. you can tell from the way a girl looks at you if shes digging you or not.
Old 06-02-2008, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
i usually make very strong eye contact before i ask a girl out. if shes giving me the look back i go for it, if not i usually pass. you can tell from the way a girl looks at you if shes digging you or not.



The eyes are always a dead give away.
Old 06-02-2008, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Hahaha...Were you the drunk church girl's sucker? If so, I remember coaching you. Hell, the whole forum did. Did you ever get laid? I know you didn't that time, but did you ever?Was our hard work in vain? Your public has a right to know!
I went through so much drama and bullshit to finally take her out on dates. But she told me back in March shes a virgin and doesn't believe in pre-martial sex . I then told her she was too prude and no guy would like her. But needless to say if anyone wants to have sex with that girl they need to at least go out with her for 6months before they can convince her to do it. So it was doomed from the start.
Old 06-02-2008, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
I went through so much drama and bullshit to finally take her out on dates. But she told me back in March shes a virgin and doesn't believe in pre-martial sex . I then told her she was too prude and no guy would like her. But needless to say if anyone wants to have sex with that girl they need to at least go out with her for 6months before they can convince her to do it. So it was doomed from the start.
Nah...I think it's based on the mental and your skill set playboy! Judging by the play by play before that you gave me, I got me smashing her before her hand tightens up on the 'Goose (alcohol for the people in the back)!!
Old 06-02-2008, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Nah...I think it's based on the mental and your skill set playboy! Judging by the play by play before that you gave me, I got me smashing her before her hand tightens up on the 'Goose (alcohol for the people in the back)!!
Yea well shes crazy and she wears a purity ring so who knows. Anyways I'm trying to figure out how to approach this girl in my summer class without looking like a total jackass.
Old 06-02-2008, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
Yea well shes crazy and she wears a purity ring so who knows. Anyways I'm trying to figure out how to approach this girl in my summer class without looking like a total jackass.
Give us the 411!

First thing first, get rid of that "I might fuck it up" attitude. Sure, you might, but let it happen and don't dwell on it. Nothing wrong with fucking up anyway. Seriously.
Old 06-03-2008, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
Yea well shes crazy and she wears a purity ring so who knows. Anyways I'm trying to figure out how to approach this girl in my summer class without looking like a total jackass.
How many approaches, with the intent of getting a number or date, have you done in your dating career so far? Give me a range. 5-10? 10-20? 20-30? 30-50? any? I remember your last thread.
Old 06-03-2008, 02:43 AM
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Old 06-03-2008, 04:01 PM
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Old 06-03-2008, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How many approaches, with the intent of getting a number or date, have you done in your dating career so far? Give me a range. 5-10? 10-20? 20-30? 30-50? any? I remember your last thread.
Without totally saying anything to girl before hand none. I feel like a creeper when I approach totally random women and ask them out. So far it doesnt work for me. Now girls in my class who I vaguely know I've taken them out about 5 times.
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Originally Posted by SRK85
Without totally saying anything to girl before hand none. I feel like a creeper when I approach totally random women and ask them out. So far it doesnt work for me. Now girls in my class who I vaguely know I've taken them out about 5 times.
You know what would be very instrumental in helping you overcome your fear of the female species? Just going up to them and talking to them. They are people, too. Women love that shit. It's all in the way you come off and how you present yourself.

For starters in this, just go up to at least two women daily that are totally out of your circle, and engage in conversation with them. Just do it. Don't make it too deep. Just do it. They are just people, too. Get your confidence level up and then start trying to go out with them. Allow yourself to get to know women first. This is very important because you don't. You bullshitted Amis, me and yourself the last time. So do it this time. Have fun and let me know how it goes.

Note: I did not say hit on them. Just talk to them.
Old 06-07-2008, 01:45 AM
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I Tried asking somebody out for the first time in my life, turns out she already had a boyfriend. I could not get the Words out properly anyway.
I still dont know what posessed me to ask that girl out, i normally dont let Women into my Childish world of Milk, Petrol and Burning Rubber.
Old 06-07-2008, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by blue.fired
I Tried asking somebody out for the first time in my life, turns out she already had a boyfriend. I could not get the Words out properly anyway.
I still dont know what posessed me to ask that girl out, i normally dont let Women into my Childish world of Milk, Petrol and Burning Rubber.
That's probably the biggest thing I notice, when they start talking and they stutter or talk with a slur because they are nervous...

You just have to reellllaaaxxxxx, I know, easier said than done, but chicks dig confidence
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