Ok you are friends with 2 people who are dating for about 3 years and they break up and the female in the relationship finds out that you know shit that the guy did would you tell her? I say no but she really wants to know. Now she is annoying as hell in her relationship and my buddy would tell me all the stupid shit she would do and I understand why he would leave her, hell I couldn't deal with half the shit she did, but now she is bugging you to know what he did since he was a dumbass and told someone else that I know shit so that person told her that I know shit and now she wants to know.

She is a good friend to chill with but not exactly sane and I am good friends with her but I am good friends with him as well so how do I get her to leave me alone? Should I just tell her, let her cry and get over him, or should I just keep my mouth shut like I have for 3 years. I doubt she would do anything to him or tell him I told her but I am just concerned about hurting her feelings.

 

Keep your mouth shut.

 

Stick with your boys and never the girls. If you tell her anything, your boy will want to kill you and so will every straight man in America. Now be a man and stick to the code.

 

Exactly...good so I am not wrong not to tell her.

My boys ex who is my friend (a)
My boy (b)
our mutual male friend (c)
mutual male friends girlfriend (d)

Ok now should I tell B that C told D the dirty shit he did and since D is close to A told her the dirty shit and that I would know more then C does since C is not as close as I am. Basically our mutual friend ratted him out now should I tell him or leave it alone. I want to leave this one alone but the code of Bro's before Ho's and since C is a Ho (Ho's rat on their friends) I don't want my friend to end up telling him some real shit and then C snitching to someone else.

 

Nah, leave it be. Your friend has to figure out that c is a snitch and he probably knows anyway. Keep yourself in the clear and that means no telling a or b anything. If c told her, then the onus is on him, but since you're blame free, don't get involved at all because telling b that c is a snitch makes you another c, but not as big a bitch because you still didn't tell a anything so don't tell b anything either.

 

Unwritten codes are so hard to live by especially when you dislike C
I swear I need to sit my buddy down because I tend to only be friends to people I can trust, him he is friends with any and everybody and never learns till they stab him in the back. Even the chick he is dating now...I mean she is nice...but she has been dumped by 3 of his friends all in one year and now he is trying to date her seriously. BOO dumbass

 

Tell her the reason you remain friends with both of them is because you don't have conversations like this with either of them. That worked for me in the past

 

You're an idiot for even considering telling her.

 

 

Sounds like me.

Just let it go. Keep your mouth shut, and stay out of it. Perfect advice from another thread. "Deny till you die!"

 

I know but I felt guilty even when they were dating because even though she is annoying and gets mad at my friend every other day I felt it was still dirty some of the things he did. So she is my friend so part of me wants to tell her but he is my friend so I dont. I have kept my mouth shut for 3 years I am sure I can keep it shut for another

 

Is it you? Nope, shut your trap and forget about it. Deny til you die.

 

Women snitch on each other, but men don't ... ??

 

So, in other words, you want to fuck her?

 

Tha Winna!

Naw I couldn't do that it would be seriously wrong wrong wrong wrong so I decided to take your guys advice and not tell her shit.

 

Good choice, we would have cut off your balls and popped them into your eye sockets for being a sell out.

Stick by your boy.

 

Wait. First things first, are any of these people black? I am going to need this information before I form an opinion.

 

I cant belive a guy actually feels bad for keeping secrets from a chic . Regardless if she is your friend, your boy should come first. If you rat him out you'll look like a bitch that cant be trusted. No offense

 

geez, us men do have feelings you know.


no snitching, just shut up like you have been.

 

no...

no good can come of you telling her anything....just say you've heard the same rumours as "d"....(that "c" told her)...but you don't anything...always play dumb..

 

that's exactly what he is contemplating