It's been 5 months since I moved out (well, my wife threw me out).

So, I've had no real interest in dating (don't want all of the bullshit that goes with a relationship), and haven't really been looking.

HOWEVER, I got word from a trusted co-worker, that a rather YOUNG female at one of my satellite offices has a "crush" on me and had so for some time.

I have definitely been attracted to this young lady for some time, but being married, I certainly didn't pursue her.

I'm 37, turning 38 on 9/22. She is 21.

I know for a fact that age isn't an issue for her, and I must say that's it's really not an issue for me. However, I'm fully aware of what other's may think/say about the age difference, and I'm willing to deal with it.

I found out that she's currently dating a guy, and don't know how serious it is.

I want to ask her out, but also don't want to create an awkward situation for her. I would be violating the trust that she confided in this "trusted co-worker".

This young lady is beautiful and VERY sexy. I don't want to pass up this opportunity.

Any suggestions?

 

im 20 so hope i can help i would just start slow NOT TO SLOW THOUGH AND MAKE SURE U ARE READY TO DEAL WITH SOMEONE ELSE talk to her when u see her act like she is important enough find out how long she has been dating theis other dude u know that u can tell or at least i can if she is interested

 

umm yeah...ask the "trusted-coworker" if her relationship is serious...even if it is, ask her out anyways...drinks or something...not dinner on the first date...to much commitment money and time wise.

and fuck what everyone thinks about age difference, it's your life not theirs...they are just jealous women w/ nothing else to occupy their time.

and if she's at a different office...you wont have to see her all the time, if things go bad.


good luck!!!

 

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She said "NO".

Not because the attraction wasn't there, but she feels that she's involved enough with her current boyfriend.

FUCK! :'(

 

how old is her current boyfriend?

 

did you make the mistake of calling her a "young lady"? heh

 

You can doo it alll night loong!!http://www.g20.net/forum/images/smil...do_it_wild.gif

 

I don't even know. My guess is somwhere around her age.

This is the first time I've asked someone out in over 8 years. I'm really amazed at how hard this has hit me.

 

Don't sweat it. Just try and hit it for us. I don't think age would be a problem. I wouldn't have a problem hooking up with a woman 20 years older than me.

 

Don't worry, man. You'll have yours one day...soon. Keep your head up.

 

 

 

 

What the hell!?!

 

Thanks!

 

dude thats her loss dont let that bother u READ THIS AND TAKE IT TO HEART

"IF YOU SPEND ALL OF YOUR TIME IN THE PAST YOU WILL HAVE NO ROOM FOR THE FUTURE!"

FORGET ABOUT IT

 

Damn!

Everytime I see this woman, I wonder: "What if . . . . "


Thank God I don't see her too much!

 

Go find some strange and PIITB

 

 

Dust maybe u can try match.com. my friend tried it, he got some dates from it after some coresponding. It might be better for the slightly older crowd because u probably not in an enviroment full of single peeps. (25+, alas I one of the few left not close to being married)

 

don't sweat it rick. just one fishy in the sea. we've all been shot down before, but now she knows you're interested. if it doesn't work out for the other guy, you might have a chance, but i'd move on and keep fishing