I like em both, neither is serious yet - and I don't think I want anything serious right now. I'm just looking to enjoy myself, but i'm enough of a nice guy to not want to hurt anyone.

At this point they do not know about each other.

How do I play this?

 

Two huh.....

To prove your heterosexuality, I would go with 4.....

 

This is a touchy topic. Some would say that if there's no exclusivity and you'r ejust going on casually, that it is fine. I'm one that can't exactly go out on dates with numerous women. That's just me though. If you're going to be going out with more than 1, you may want to be up front and state that you are dating/seeing others. You never know what her thoughts may be on this unless you are up front. She may be ok with it (and she may also be seeing others) or she could be seriously against it. If she is against it, you don't want ot find out the hard way.

 

@ title change

 

You live on campus, rite? Do they also? Im sure someday one will see you with the other guy and you could lose both.

Pick one or play the game but be ready to lose them both if you mess it up.

 

 

Other GIRL. Her name is Matt.

 

hahah

 

:pwnd:

 

Invite them over for beer pong

 

YoungTL is in Canadia, he wont find out about the other guy.

 

Oh fuck you mods

 

 

Damn smartrfilter......

 

Hmmm does this consider him as a player? i dont think so. I agree with KB that you can go out with as many women as you want, and they have no right to be mad. If you are not being exclusive then it shouldnt matter. Even if you are banging them it shouldnt matter (your just a whore then). Aslong as you dont have to lie, you dont say I love you, your not decieving them in any way, I dont consider you a player. Heck I do the same thing and I hate when ppl call me a player, cuz technically im not.

 

at title change

 

One guy would make my ass sore enough

 

 

But am I morally in the right if I knowingly keep the fact that i'm seeing other people from them because i think it would end things between us?

 

 

at this thread

I did this in college, only with women. Girl A knew about Girl B, but not the other way around (there was also a Girl C for one night that neither of them knew about, but those were my glory days ). I did it that way because Girl A went to school with me and Girl B was out of state at another school so it became a neccesity for some weekends. Surprisingly enough, neither one turned into a long-term relationship, though I'm still good friends with both

 

this is hysterical. i should be doing work but i cant stop laughing.

 

 

Hahaha! Funny sh!t.

I dated 3 women at a time. I was not committed with anyone of them at the beginning and we all knew it. The women knew that I was dating other people. Once I knew I wanted to be manogamous with one of the women, I ended my relationships with the other two. In the end, I picked the one I could see myself with 6 months down the road and it's been over 5 crazy years with the one I picked.

A man has got to have his options. If you are comfortable with your dating situation and the other women are cool with it, I don't see any harm. But you also must be cool with the women dating other guys too. You can't have your cake and eat it too, unless you're a beefcake like me.

 

Dp?

 

First head, now dating?!?!?

What next, a baby?

 

 

This thread is too funny.

IMO if you just started seeing them, then there's no harm done. At this point you're just going out with friends. If you find there's chemistry between you and one of them and become 'involved', then tell the other one you're not sure it's gonna work out and want to see other ppl. The trick is not to fall for and get involved with both

I've done the two-dates-on-the-same-day thing, and that's o and fun if you're just starting to see them. IMO, once you get involved enough to be having sex with one, stop dating the other person. Otherwise you're asking for trouble.

 

They dont have to know about eachother, nor should it matter. Only way it matters is if your deceiving them and lying and saying your not seeing anyone else. There should be nothing wrong with dating multiple women. It would be MORALLY right to notify them of the other girls if your sleeping with them all. But even I have withheld that information before.

 

Multiple girls is fun, but damn it hurts on the wallet

 

If youre asking how to play it, you probably shouldnt be doing it.

And when you say "enjoy yourself" you mean youre having sex with both?

 

Baahaahhahaahaahah

 

I'm not asking for advice on how to be a player. I've done plenty of lying in my 20 years on this planet to have that fully under control. I'm just looking for a moral check here because i'm a little conflicted with myself. Simply choosing to not do it with "i'm not sure what to do" as my reason won't work.

"Enjoying myself" entails everything from hanging out to full on wild, furniture-destroying sex. At this point neither of these girls has ridden the balogna pony.

So lying by omission is okay

Seems like sex is crossing the line for most of you here. Makes sense.

 

 

if you wanna do the right thing, tell them about the situation. don't leave out the part about letting a stranger suck you off in a kmart parking and that you are gay. they will hop on you after that

 

Chicks do seem to like gay guys...

 

Well you never have to worry about having to lie if it never comes up. You dont have to be obligated to tell a girl. But if one of the girls asks if you are seeing anyone else, morally you should be honest.

 

 

Bi-sexuality admission????

 

You're young, girls screw guys over, not saying you are trying to screw them over, but you are allowed to have fun. As long as either is "aware" that you're keeping your options open, it is all good.