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Old 11-09-2007, 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I just see a lot of blah, blah....Im here for the nudes...
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Drifting Is A Sport!!!!
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Drifting Is A Sport!!!!
yea, and asians have big penises.
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How do you get 5 posts and 5 red bars?
3 posts to be accurate. I didn't even insult anyone in any of them. I guess some titty baby Nancy's take offense to robots with human-like qualities.
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Eighty year olds don't know what drifting is... let alone have an opinion whether or not it's a sport. So...... Your posts are taken with a grain of salt while non-mods try to figure out who/what you are.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I just see a lot of blah, blah....Im here for the nudes...
i dont think i can get any nudes, but i was thinking i may try for some audio. i have a digital recorder i use for lectures, i was thinking of trying to get a nice audio sample.
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Originally Posted by Johnny_5
3 posts to be accurate. I didn't even insult anyone in any of them. I guess some titty baby Nancy's take offense to robots with human-like qualities.
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
So, that's why I'm easily defensive for that reason! I mean even when it comes to subjects that have no sexual connotation, I'm perceived as a huge b*tch! And for what? For having an opinion? Everyone has an opinion be it male or female, black or white! I just get attacked more because I'm a female in a male dominated CAR FORUM!
I "attack" you because I don't think you understand what I'm saying.

It only has so much to do about you being female simply because I don't believe you understand what it's like to be male. When you give "advice" to men about male issues and then don't acknowledge the sources of male issues (their context) I find what you say to be more damaging than helpful.

But I'm a woman-hating caveman, so what do I know.

Carry on.
Old 11-10-2007, 09:11 PM
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TSX[/url] Nightwalker]And as far as my saying that you're not my type it's more like...well, let me ask you this....correct me if I'm wrong, are you a chocolate brutha? haha Not saying that I'm racist or anything of that nature its just that I never really dated african american guys because they were never really attracted to me!

And for the record, I'd have your head spinning and your knees into noodles! I just find it funny having heard two guys that I've dated in the past who jokingly wanted to marry my lips or marry me for my skillz!
Whaddup Nightie! I had to step out for a minute and handle some biz!

LMFAO!! Yes, I'm a chocolate brutha...thus the chocolate dick! And if the brothers weren't feelin' ya, it must be something about you that rubs them the wrong way - unless you are unattractive, and I don't get that vibe from ya. For those skillz alone I'd do the MEET-GREET-FUCK YOU thing, but I know you don't get down like that. Just make sure the record is straight that there is one brother out here that will tear your lil B-cup ass up! Hahahaha! So yeah, some dap to ya! You know what Joy, I always wanted to fuck a nurse. Seriously! I mean, some of them look sexy as hell and they wear the little tight ass uniforms and what not! I may go scout my nearby hospital. Plus, I get the vision of fucking one in the closet like on ER or was it Scrubs? I fucked a semi-nurse before. Real talk - I fucked her one day in the doctor's office on the sofa in the waiting room after everyone had gone. In fact, she was the "dick on the face chick", and by the way - that shit felt good...I'm just doing a shitty job of explaining it. But what I was about to say about dick face was that she got fired the next day after I fucked her. Not because we were fucking with the Doc's stethascope (sp?) while we were fucking (I wanted to hear her heart beat while she rode me). Not because she kept telling me that that was the best dick she ever had just as loud as she did in the condo. Not because she used the towels in the doctor's office to wipe my dick off! Know why she got fired? Because the stupid chick left the fucking rubber on the table by the sofa! Ok, don't get all sensitive on me...that shit is funny in hindsight. I didn't laugh at her to her face tho.

Anyway, stop feeling so uptight about the quickies and the one nighters. It may not be your "norm" Joy, but there ain't no harm in a lil fun either. Fuck what people think! You anonymous on here remember! So turn back into the slut and let's crank this shit back up like you know we can! Save the good girl image for "real life"...or not... oh yeah, just in case I didn't make it clear...I would fuck you, so no more thinking black guys won't fuck you ok...hahahaaha! And if I ever fuck you I promise to talk dirty to you and treat you like a slut! Scouts honor!

Know what I wanna know about Knightwalker? (Imma call you that when I wanna talk to the slutty side of you...Joy can be the good girl) Anal! Where do you "fit in" on that? Basically, do you like getting fucked in the ass?
Break it down...
Old 11-11-2007, 01:06 AM
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Originally Posted by 03SSMTL-S
jezuss woman shut the fuck up
Awwwe...did I ruin your mojo? Did I prevent you from getting off at reading what me and darsom1's commented because that's the only way you can get any relief? It's okay, there is a solution...just google "porn" and you'll have plenty of material to work with!


Originally Posted by extremetls
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ATTENTION MUDSHARK WHORE!
Hmmmmm...last time I checked, giving out advice and opinions was considered a norm in forums. If you go by your standards, then that just means that you call 99.5% of this forum... ATTENTIONWHORES! Get your story straight homie! I'm nothing of that nature! I just happen to get attention because of my opinions and for being a woman who voices them! If I wanted attention, believe me, you'd know! But sorry, that's not my steez! Don't get it twisted! What I say has purpose and meaning! I'm not hear to bullsh*t!

Originally Posted by Johnny_5
3 posts to be accurate. I didn't even insult anyone in any of them. I guess some titty baby Nancy's take offense to robots with human-like qualities.
Don't worry! I'm the Queen of negative rep points! Believe me, it's not even justifiable the reasoning behind the negative reps on this forum! Just take it with a grain of salt and f*ck whatever everyone thinks! A lot of the people here are what I call E-Gangsters! haha They talk sh*t behind a comp, but most likely won't back it up in person! Everyone here thinks they have bigger balls, but I bet if I got a meet started, I bet I have more balls than most of these guys combined! So, don't sweat it! There's a lot of clowns on this site!


So, who's down for a meet! I live in the Bay Area!
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Originally Posted by amisconception
I "attack" you because I don't think you understand what I'm saying.

It only has so much to do about you being female simply because I don't believe you understand what it's like to be male. When you give "advice" to men about male issues and then don't acknowledge the sources of male issues (their context) I find what you say to be more damaging than helpful.

But I'm a woman-hating caveman, so what do I know.

Carry on.
I think it goes both ways...I think we BOTH aren't understanding eachother!

What I've been trying to point out is that, I'm not saying that I know EXACTLY how a man thinks or feels, but I can relate to what some of you guys have gone through! Like I said before, when you speak of "nice guys" finishing last, I totally feel guys on that level because I have been pegged as a "nice girl" finishing last! IT's not a good feeling to be dropped by guys and have them go for the gold-diggers, sluts, whores, drama queens, etc...But to tell you the truth, I've actually learned that any man who can't see what a REAL woman is especially when it's staring them in the face, is not the kind of guy I want in the first place! That's how I seperate the men from the boys! A true man knows a real woman when he sees one! Then again, sometimes we don't! But we're all human and make mistakes and we learn from them!

And when you talk about the opposite sex on things, I feel that you put every woman in that mold, but you're not aware that I'm not like most women! I've never cheated on a guy, I've never taken advantage of them, or treated them like their a piece of crap! I just want to point out that not all women are the same! The kind of women you speak of do exist, but I just wanted to let you know that there are others out there (me) who don't fit that mold at all! And when you speak of women that way and you're not acknowledging the real ones, then I take offense to that!

That's all, I'm not trying to say anything negative about you or your beliefs! I'm just trying to gain some understanding! And that's all this whole mess stems from, the lack of understanding on both ends! I think once you allow yourself to view my point of view to a certain extent, then we wouldn't have to be so evil towards eachother! haha
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TSX[/url] Nightwalker]So, who's down for a meet! I live in the Bay Area!
Damn that's my kind of woman! Put up or shut up! Let me know when this show comes to the East Coast sugar! Ya'll meet to look at cars over there in Cali...you can meet to compare real talk and sex moves too right? HANDLE IT FELLAS! That's a real woman cumming at cha! She obviously won't just lay down for you - but you never know if you bring your "A" game ...hahahahahaha
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Whaddup Nightie! I had to step out for a minute and handle some biz!

LMFAO!! Yes, I'm a chocolate brutha...thus the chocolate dick! And if the brothers weren't feelin' ya, it must be something about you that rubs them the wrong way - unless you are unattractive, and I don't get that vibe from ya. For those skillz alone I'd do the MEET-GREET-FUCK YOU thing, but I know you don't get down like that. Just make sure the record is straight that there is one brother out here that will tear your lil B-cup ass up! Hahahaha! So yeah, some dap to ya! You know what Joy, I always wanted to fuck a nurse. Seriously! I mean, some of them look sexy as hell and they wear the little tight ass uniforms and what not! I may go scout my nearby hospital. Plus, I get the vision of fucking one in the closet like on ER or was it Scrubs? I fucked a semi-nurse before. Real talk - I fucked her one day in the doctor's office on the sofa in the waiting room after everyone had gone. In fact, she was the "dick on the face chick", and by the way - that shit felt good...I'm just doing a shitty job of explaining it. But what I was about to say about dick face was that she got fired the next day after I fucked her. Not because we were fucking with the Doc's stethascope (sp?) while we were fucking (I wanted to hear her heart beat while she rode me). Not because she kept telling me that that was the best dick she ever had just as loud as she did in the condo. Not because she used the towels in the doctor's office to wipe my dick off! Know why she got fired? Because the stupid chick left the fucking rubber on the table by the sofa! Ok, don't get all sensitive on me...that shit is funny in hindsight. I didn't laugh at her to her face tho.

Anyway, stop feeling so uptight about the quickies and the one nighters. It may not be your "norm" Joy, but there ain't no harm in a lil fun either. Fuck what people think! You anonymous on here remember! So turn back into the slut and let's crank this shit back up like you know we can! Save the good girl image for "real life"...or not... oh yeah, just in case I didn't make it clear...I would fuck you, so no more thinking black guys won't fuck you ok...hahahaaha! And if I ever fuck you I promise to talk dirty to you and treat you like a slut! Scouts honor!

Know what I wanna know about Knightwalker? (Imma call you that when I wanna talk to the slutty side of you...Joy can be the good girl) Anal! Where do you "fit in" on that? Basically, do you like getting fucked in the ass?
Break it down...

See? And some people thought I didn't know men! Psssshhhh! Believe me, I know people! haha I can see through people and know people to a certain extent just by being an observer! hehe

As far as not getting love from "bruthas", what I meant was, yes, I do get "hollered" by them, but I never had a brutha like me to a point where he wanted to date me is what I'm saying. Like, it never got to a point where we talked long enough to establish a relationship! Most I get from the bruthas are one liners and cat calls! That doesn't impress me much! So, if anything it's usually on them I guess! They're approach is a bit WEAK! Sorry, it's true! haha Not all bruthas, MOST! From my experience of course! I don't give another guy the time of day unless the approach is reasonable! Come up to me like a man and maybe we'll get somewhere! But the kind of "game" some guys spit is a bit sad! I once had a guy FLEX at me thinking that I would be impressed by his bulging biceps, but it turned me off if anything! I was literally biting my lip not to go all out and laugh at the dude right in front of him! haha And it was pretty sad because that guy who flexed at me was pretty cute! Too bad he was an idiot! haha What can I say, it takes a lot to impress me! I'm not picky for no reason! hehe I make my men go through a screening process! haha

I'm not uptight about quickies, believe me, I think that's an added spice to any relationship! haha But I'm not about one-nighters! Sorry! Not my steez! I'm just not here to entertain people, I was merely trying to be bust some knowledge! Maybe if men on here weren't so retarded and so overly judgemental then they can learn a thing or two about women! I'm trying to help you guys out! But unfortunately, whatever I say that has an educational purpose is dragged down to a lesser level and thought of as a sleazy comment! So, I'm not gonna entertain everyone at my expense!

And I can't believe you segued into the topic of anal...haha You're trying to be SLICK rick ain't ya! Not smooth enough! :p Sorry, but there's a huge sign that says "DO NO ENTER" and "EXIT"! You'd have to be my husband to even come close to that, but even that is not gauranteed! I just can't fathom the thought or idea of having something go down there! Unless it's for health reasons and I needed a colonoscopy then I may consider! hahaha
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Damn that's my kind of woman! Put up or shut up! Let me know when this show comes to the East Coast sugar! Ya'll meet to look at cars over there in Cali...you can meet to compare real talk and sex moves too right? HANDLE IT FELLAS! That's a real woman cumming at cha! She obviously won't just lay down for you - but you never know if you bring your "A" game ...hahahahahaha
hahaha I said that sarcastically, but if there are those people who talked madd sh*t to me and wants to back their sh*t up, I'm down to meet just to prove a point!
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For a second, the thread got really long....The Bay Area Meet thread is planning a BBQ somewhat. We just dont have a date yet.
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
And I can't believe you segued into the topic of anal...haha You're trying to be SLICK rick ain't ya! Not smooth enough! :p Sorry, but there's a huge sign that says "DO NO ENTER" and "EXIT"! You'd have to be my husband to even come close to that, but even that is not gauranteed! I just can't fathom the thought or idea of having something go down there! Unless it's for health reasons and I needed a colonoscopy then I may consider! hahaha
I can't believe so many people are uptight about the topic of anal. It's just another hole to be explored IMO.
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I think it goes both ways...I think we BOTH aren't understanding eachother!

What I've been trying to point out is that, I'm not saying that I know EXACTLY how a man thinks or feels, but I can relate to what some of you guys have gone through! Like I said before, when you speak of "nice guys" finishing last, I totally feel guys on that level because I have been pegged as a "nice girl" finishing last! IT's not a good feeling to be dropped by guys and have them go for the gold-diggers, sluts, whores, drama queens, etc...But to tell you the truth, I've actually learned that any man who can't see what a REAL woman is especially when it's staring them in the face, is not the kind of guy I want in the first place! That's how I seperate the men from the boys! A true man knows a real woman when he sees one! Then again, sometimes we don't! But we're all human and make mistakes and we learn from them!

And when you talk about the opposite sex on things, I feel that you put every woman in that mold, but you're not aware that I'm not like most women! I've never cheated on a guy, I've never taken advantage of them, or treated them like their a piece of crap! I just want to point out that not all women are the same! The kind of women you speak of do exist, but I just wanted to let you know that there are others out there (me) who don't fit that mold at all! And when you speak of women that way and you're not acknowledging the real ones, then I take offense to that!

That's all, I'm not trying to say anything negative about you or your beliefs! I'm just trying to gain some understanding! And that's all this whole mess stems from, the lack of understanding on both ends! I think once you allow yourself to view my point of view to a certain extent, then we wouldn't have to be so evil towards eachother! haha
Well, unfortunately it seems as if you continually misunderstand the fact that I am not bashing women AT ALL. I may bash an individual woman, on an individual basis, but in NO WAY am I bitter towards women in general.

Do I feel that there is a social imbalance that favors women and devalues men in Western societies? Yes. Very much so. And I can provide countless examples of that. That does not mean that I hate women. I take offense to that, and is one reason why I get short. But it's a consequence of standing up for what I believe in. I'm learning to accept that fact with a sense of humility.

My objections to these imbalances come from a lot of different places, but generally, it has been because of the lack of MEN standing up for themselves. Hence, why so many men seem so incapable of taking care of themselves and actually BEING men.

I don't really want to get much into it this second. But I sincerely do not believe you have bad intentions. I'll apologize for any of my abrasive comments in the past. I don't dislike you, I just feel that you haven't given my opinions and arguments a chance (by the way, I'm not alone, trust me).

It'd be cool to meet up with you and have a drink one day. I live in the LA area so, if you're ever around, don't hesitate to PM me.

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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
Sorry, but there's a huge sign that says "DO NO ENTER" and "EXIT"! You'd have to be my husband to even come close to that, but even that is not gauranteed! I just can't fathom the thought or idea of having something go down there! Unless it's for health reasons and I needed a colonoscopy then I may consider! hahaha
hehe.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Well, unfortunately it seems as if you continually misunderstand the fact that I am not bashing women AT ALL. I may bash an individual woman, on an individual basis, but in NO WAY am I bitter towards women in general.

Do I feel that there is a social imbalance that favors women and devalues men in Western societies? Yes. Very much so. And I can provide countless examples of that. That does not mean that I hate women. I take offense to that, and is one reason why I get short. But it's a consequence of standing up for what I believe in. I'm learning to accept that fact with a sense of humility.

My objections to these imbalances come from a lot of different places, but generally, it has been because of the lack of MEN standing up for themselves. Hence, why so many men seem so incapable of taking care of themselves and actually BEING men.

I don't really want to get much into it this second. But I sincerely do not believe you have bad intentions. I'll apologize for any of my abrasive comments in the past. I don't dislike you, I just feel that you haven't given my opinions and arguments a chance (by the way, I'm not alone, trust me).

It'd be cool to meet up with you and have a drink one day. I live in the LA area so, if you're ever around, don't hesitate to PM me.

I'm glad that you and TSX Nightwalker can stand for your views, argue, and remain cool! to you both!
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I'm glad that you and TSX Nightwalker can stand for your views, argue, and remain cool! to you both!
Lol...I always wondered if you saw this thread...
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I can't believe so many people are uptight about the topic of anal. It's just another hole to be explored IMO.
In that case, why don't I stick a dildo up your a$$ and see how you feel?!
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Well, unfortunately it seems as if you continually misunderstand the fact that I am not bashing women AT ALL. I may bash an individual woman, on an individual basis, but in NO WAY am I bitter towards women in general.

Do I feel that there is a social imbalance that favors women and devalues men in Western societies? Yes. Very much so. And I can provide countless examples of that. That does not mean that I hate women. I take offense to that, and is one reason why I get short. But it's a consequence of standing up for what I believe in. I'm learning to accept that fact with a sense of humility.

My objections to these imbalances come from a lot of different places, but generally, it has been because of the lack of MEN standing up for themselves. Hence, why so many men seem so incapable of taking care of themselves and actually BEING men.

I don't really want to get much into it this second. But I sincerely do not believe you have bad intentions. I'll apologize for any of my abrasive comments in the past. I don't dislike you, I just feel that you haven't given my opinions and arguments a chance (by the way, I'm not alone, trust me).

It'd be cool to meet up with you and have a drink one day. I live in the LA area so, if you're ever around, don't hesitate to PM me.

Well to be honest, it goes BOTH ways! Women are also devalued in more ways than guys! Our society has allowed men to treat women as objects, having a man walk out on a woman during their pregnancy, domestic violence, women are still paid less than men regardless of experience and credentials....it's a dog eat dog world out there and not a lot of women are getting the proper credit that they deserve. And I do understand that everyone falls a victim to these societal imbalances! I just think that we need to view things on both ends instead of just favoring one or the other!

The same way you don't like seeing a lot of men get trampled on by women is the same way I feel when women get trampled by men! It's always going to be an opposite and adverse effect no matter how you look at it from a male or female perspective! Instead of having it as a male or female issue, I just consider it an ISSUE! That's only because I feel that for every weak man out there is another weak woman! I feel bad for women who have no voice and are willing to compromise their self-worth for self-loathing men! I admit, I've experienced that in the past and to be honest, it took me a while, but I finally learned from my mistakes! Like I always say, " Life will keep handing you the same LESSONS, until you LEARN from them." And those words resonated with me for a good portion of my life and I barely let it SINK IN 'til now! Now I know better and know my worth and am more willing to wait for a guy to treat me the way I deserve to be treated rather than getting myself involved into something that is not worth my time!

And you're right, there are a lot of weak men out there who are just as vulnerable as women! I just think that men AND women should be able to learn and grow from their experiences and if they don't, I suggest getting professional help....SERIOUSLY! That's all you can do if you keep dealing with the same issues! hehe

And I appreciate you in stepping up like a REAL man and apologizing! I return the sentiments because I can be a bit "womenly" and feel defensive sometimes! haha I guess that's how society shaped me through my experiences! haha I've always been vocal about my opinions and I admit, I sometimes don't think before I speak! But that's neither here nor there, that's on a whole other thing and I don't want to get into that either!

I just think we should just LISTEN to each other because I HAVE listened to your opinions! Unfortunately, your overbearing tone on the female species was much greater than your actual thoughts and opinions! haha That's what I took notice, but like I said before, you have said some pretty good and sound advice! I just thought that you were a bit in "attack" mode when a female voice chimed in!

Either way, I hope you can view my points as well! Sometimes the best way to understand people and their views is to LISTEN!


And ummm...thanks for the offer, but I don't normally "meet up" with people ...haha The only way I would ever really meet people from online communities is if I "run into" them somewhere whether at the gas station, grocery store, clube, etc and they happend to recognize me! haha That's happened a few times and I find it funny when people actually recognize me on the street! hahahaha
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Originally Posted by sasha
I'm glad that you and TSX Nightwalker can stand for your views, argue, and remain cool! to you both!
haha Thanks, Sasha! I'm usually a goofball, but I don't take things lying down! Sometimes we have to stand up for what we believe in no matter how bad it gets! hehe
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
gimme my thread back
Come on everyone, let his poor guy have his thread back! haha


You can have it!

And I still don't think that's ever happened to me! So, sorry I can't help you there!
Old 11-15-2007, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
Well to be honest, it goes BOTH ways! Women are also devalued in more ways than guys! Our society has allowed men to treat women as objects, having a man walk out on a woman during their pregnancy, domestic violence, women are still paid less than men regardless of experience and credentials....it's a dog eat dog world out there and not a lot of women are getting the proper credit that they deserve. And I do understand that everyone falls a victim to these societal imbalances! I just think that we need to view things on both ends instead of just favoring one or the other!
The major difference is... Women's issues have already been addressed by academia and the mainstream media. They have been, literally, for decades.

Men's issues have not been addressed and are largely ignored or deemed contemptible.

I hope that doesn't go over your head. Please understand that that has nothing to do with women-bashing.

The same way you don't like seeing a lot of men get trampled on by women is the same way I feel when women get trampled by men! It's always going to be an opposite and adverse effect no matter how you look at it from a male or female perspective! Instead of having it as a male or female issue, I just consider it an ISSUE!
Well, I disagree. There are issues that affect each gender in seperate ways.

Just one example is rape. Men largely do not have to worry about being raped. Women do. Rape is an issue that is DIFFERENT for men then it is for women. The potential for being raped is DIFFERENT for men then it is for women.

That's only because I feel that for every weak man out there is another weak woman! I feel bad for women who have no voice and are willing to compromise their self-worth for self-loathing men!
Fair enough.

I admit, I've experienced that in the past and to be honest, it took me a while, but I finally learned from my mistakes! Like I always say, " Life will keep handing you the same LESSONS, until you LEARN from them." And those words resonated with me for a good portion of my life and I barely let it SINK IN 'til now! Now I know better and know my worth and am more willing to wait for a guy to treat me the way I deserve to be treated rather than getting myself involved into something that is not worth my time!
Good for you.

And you're right, there are a lot of weak men out there who are just as vulnerable as women! I just think that men AND women should be able to learn and grow from their experiences and if they don't, I suggest getting professional help....SERIOUSLY! That's all you can do if you keep dealing with the same issues! hehe
You can't easily "learn from experience" issues that are all-encompassing, at least not without a lot of heartache. The very fact that social interaction is in part largely influenced by social contrivances is testament to that.

And yes professional help does make a difference, but it doesn't strike to the core of men's issues. It doesn't help reduce or destroy issues that are specific to men. I care about these things because I am a young man. If I was a woman I'd probably be more hip to women's issues. Regardless, it has nothing to do with a specific problem I may be having.

And I appreciate you in stepping up like a REAL man and apologizing! I return the sentiments because I can be a bit "womenly" and feel defensive sometimes! haha I guess that's how society shaped me through my experiences! haha I've always been vocal about my opinions and I admit, I sometimes don't think before I speak! But that's neither here nor there, that's on a whole other thing and I don't want to get into that either!
I'm not going to nit pick everything you say but I could.

I just think we should just LISTEN to each other because I HAVE listened to your opinions! Unfortunately, your overbearing tone on the female species was much greater than your actual thoughts and opinions! haha That's what I took notice, but like I said before, you have said some pretty good and sound advice! I just thought that you were a bit in "attack" mode when a female voice chimed in!

Either way, I hope you can view my points as well! Sometimes the best way to understand people and their views is to LISTEN!
Well, thank you for the compliments. However I am still in disagreement with many of your points.

And ummm...thanks for the offer, but I don't normally "meet up" with people ...haha The only way I would ever really meet people from online communities is if I "run into" them somewhere whether at the gas station, grocery store, clube, etc and they happend to recognize me! haha That's happened a few times and I find it funny when people actually recognize me on the street! hahahaha
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Originally Posted by TSX Nightwalker
In that case, why don't I stick a dildo up your a$$ and see how you feel?!
Guys do the giving, gals do the receiving.
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
gimme my thread back
Haven't checked this thread is a while...

Ok... I'll bring it back on topic...

Some girls Cry when given anal sex...

I hear a lot of woman don't like it... Saying its uncomfortable... or it hurts them... Then again, there are woman that can't come until they have it... depends on the girl...
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Originally Posted by spooky3ce
Haven't checked this thread is a while...

Ok... I'll bring it back on topic...

Some girls Cry when given anal sex...

I hear a lot of woman don't like it... Saying its uncomfortable... or it hurts them... Then again, there are woman that can't come until they have it... depends on the girl...
Well...check out this brunette, then tell me what you think! Saw this when I checked out the orgasm101 thing.
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Originally Posted by darksom1
Well...check out this brunette, then tell me what you think! Saw this when I checked out the orgasm101 thing.
Pretty good. pretty, pretty, pretty, pretty good. Especially the ATM part
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