me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year. its a great relationship we are so cool with eachother, however we both have issues with the other going out and partying, etc. she gets mad at me everytime i go out and have a few drinks with the boys, and i get mad everytime she goes clubbing or something. so the future college year worried so we decided to break it off on good terms.

but now im thinkin i made a mistake. i really dont know what to do. ive been talking to her and shes hinting at hooking up again, and i honestly think it will probably happen. on one side i have freedom, i can go out with the boys and roadtrip etc without worrying her, but ive also felt really lonely and depressed the past few days. i want her love and care cus she really spoils me and i love it.

so far we've been really cool, talk almost everyday. should i try and get back with her? i want my freedom but i also love this girl....i think i should have both.

 

sorry dude, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you guys get back together its going to be going down the same road of drama, guaranteed. You're young, enjoy it. Sometimes not having the companionship sucks, but that's what friends are for to help get you through the rough spots. You're in college, that's the prime time to meet some new and cool people, there are plenty of other girls out there.

 

yea but none of them give me the satisfaction she does....arrghhhh

 

i know i'm young, because after posting this i know what is going to be said.

but anyways i know how u feel. u think she is the perfect one for you, she may be she may not be. the only way to get over her is to find someone else, hey it works for me. but having that person around that cares for you and loves you and now u don't have that anymore u want it back. you can either take it back or move on and find someone else that will give you the same satisfaction or more that she does.

if she loves you and you love her, you two should be able to compromise and work things out and be on common ground. i saw give it another shot, try to come up with a compromise on even grounds with the two of you and stick true to it. if the same thing ends up happening, let her go again, and move on.

 

yea i was talking to her today....i think im just gonna try and get back with her.....im willing to tone down my college activities like partying and shit....and with the high STD rate at college these days, id rather fuck my GF than some dumb party slut anyday


sluts are overated

 

i understand where you're coming from....you're just going ot have to let her do her thing and you just go about doing yours....set time aside for the both of you and also allow one another to have time to youself (as in alone time or time with friends)...ask yourself if you like being all smothered and not allowed doing your own thing? she feels the same way doode....you need balance and room to breathe...you spend time with your friends she spends time with hers and when you two come together, you will both maximize the time yall have....and you have to trust each other.....main point is just relax and not be so uptight

 

Cut all ties.

Seriously, you guys don't have a relationship nor do you trust each other.

Her going pscyho on you should be a clear indication to end it. A woman who guilt trips you should be a clear sign that there is much better out there.

Love isn't controlling dude. Love is trusting.

 

Wow....talk about two insecure people.

Seriously though...

1. You DONT love her
2. Once an ex...always an ex. She should be dead to you.
3. If you still end up going back to her...you're gonna be her bitch.
4. You're young...theres more than just one woman in the world...try to experience them all.

 

Whats the point there plenty of women in college.

 

Number 2 needs to be said to a whole bunch of people here!

 

sounds like there is no Trust, no trust = no relationship ...move on

 

Seems like 2 insecure people.

Plus- for healthy relationship you each need to have your own individual lives outside of each other. I had a relationship similar to this around the same age and it didn't work. Just too much smothering of each other and too intense. We both wanted to be around each other all the time and spent 24/7 together. NOT HEALTHY. That kind of stuff is expected in the early stages of a relationship, ie. honeymoon stage, but after a couple months can be too much pressure on both of you.

Don't do it!!

 

Seriously, I think I've read more threads about pussies confused about his/her ex and getting back together. Move on please, for your own sake.

OR....you can keep hitting it on the side and just have a good story to tell her whenever you are somewhere else. Most ex's become your personal whore after you break up if you do it right. I mean pussy comes and goes.

 

Thank god someone said it! If I wasnt on the verge of being banned...I would have said it a long time ago.

 

sorry guys im gonna do it....i cant really picture myself with any other girl right now, and she gets me horny as fuuuckk, its not that i dont trust her, i know she will never hook up with another guy....its that she goes out and sleazy guys hit on her, and disrespect her, her friends, etc.

tommorow she invited my over....yay

 

If you "say" so....

Well...I think you're making the wrong move...as in you're her bitch now...but whatever...you're young and entitled to make your own mistakes...just dont cry when you two break up because she cheated on you with the better guy.

 

I feel sorry for you.

Best of luck though.

If you can't accept the fact that other men will hit on your woman then please hurry up and get some respect for yourself. Because until you do you'll never have any respect/trust for your partner.

Not trying to bash, just hoping you'll realize what a healthy relationship is.

 

Well best of luck, although we all know you had your mind made up before even starting this thread.

Just remember, she's still a girl and as much as you think you can trust her you know you can't. Girls=ho's= she could be sucking some random dudes cock right now and come over and give you a big kiss on the lips.

Word of advice: DON'T GET GOT!!!!

 

my girls a hardcore religious person so i doubt shes sucking some dudes dick....another reason we broke up is because she viewed our sex as a sin.....but something happened a few a days ago which made her question her religiousness, her mom developed a chronic illness

 

See now thats just fucking stupid...then WHY would you be so insecure when she goes out?

 

because theres been a few incidents where she goes out with girls, and some drunk idiots talk shit and fights braek out etc. i had to bust some big ass basketball player in the face for calling her an anorexic whore at a party once, and just last week she was a club and some guy socked her friend in the face and a fight broke uot


guys are fucking stupid

 

Or I'll propose the more logical scenario. She loves the attention/drama and feeds off it.

 

I'm gonna assume that her friend was a guy that got socked? Who give a fuck if someone called her anorexic, is she a little kid. Tell her to grow up be mature and walk away. If your girl is not getting her ass beat (not literally) you have no worries.

Religious girls can suck dick. Girls will be girls.

 

if your going to 2 diffrent schools it wont work i promise you this. to much temptation

 

Very true. I think he is going to learn this the hard way...

 

haha im in no way her bitch now....btw we go to the same schools...but yeah im not her bitch if i feel shes getting a little out of control i let her know...besides i really like the everyday pussy....i cant do it any other way....all these stuck up self centered rich white girls dont do it for me, i like my exotic little asian girl

 

Meh...Sounds like you're happy...Though you CAN get everyday pussy from more than one girl...and rotate them on a schedule so they never know about each other.



Good Luck

 

just went through something like this, heres my thread..
https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/advice-needed-311124/

 

Yeah but you did the right thing IMO.

 

oh dude she's a little asian girl. That explains her mentality. Just keep hitting it and leave when you get tired.

 

Since this has been said...its absolutely neccessary that this be done.

 

does she shave her bush?