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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 03:47 AM
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Cold Sores!!!!



So I have been booted back into the dating scene and met what I thought was a nice girl. So I go to wal mart with her just now. She had a cold sore so I was thinking...EW! I ask her how she got it she said she made out with a guy at the club the other night...UGH! See why I hate dating?

SO we have a date scheduled tomorrow...I am thinking about skipping out because I don't want to spend money on this chick. Am I being mean?

She is saying she gets it when she gets stressed but her first response was the whole making out with guys at the club so I dont believe her.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 03:55 AM
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Where is the option for a face condom?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 04:03 AM
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Ever try eating meat with the plastic still on it?
I wouldn't get all the pleasure out of the soar.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 05:22 AM
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Cold sore = no bj from girl.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 05:24 AM
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Screw that. lose her, you don't want to wind up with that shit on your face.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 07:31 AM
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Skip it. Why subject yourself to an infectious disease?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 08:09 AM
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what's the big deal? It's probably not the herpes you're thinking of. Different strain. However, I would definitely wait until it's subsided for contact.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 08:36 AM
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are you willing to 'catch something' from this chick? is she so incredible it's worth it? if not, cancel...when she asks why tell her she's a dirty slut with herpes.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:16 AM
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Was she joking about the "making out" part? If not, skip it. Think about all the other "sores" she might have gotten that you don't know about...
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:23 AM
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Run like the wind! Where there's smoke, there's fire - she be skanky.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:27 AM
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Differnt strain yes, easily cross infected YES. GET THE FUCK OUT.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted by AdamNJ
...when she asks why tell her she's a dirty slut with herpes.
my friend told me to say the exact thing.

the question was should i be nice and take her on the date. either way i am not kissing her just felt bad about breaking the date at last minute. then again if she boldly tells me she makes out at clubs i am wondering how slutrageous she is. i mean damn it lie like other girls, not to smart.

sidenote: on the way home i was laughing and she was calling me mean. so she calls her mom and says she has a sore her mom says its not herpes but stress. she gets off the phone i call her mom a liar then laugh more.

my thing is this and this is what i have been taught. all cold sores are herpes. even when i typed cold sore into wiki to see if they were diff it redirected me to herpes simplex. its true that all cold sores are herpes though right.

ps i told this girl i know about it, we laughed it up. then i confessed i wanted to tap that. she said she doesnt like direct "hey come over and tap it" but if i come over and "what ever happens happens" lmao felt like minch. might need to buy her a purse.

btw sorry for no capitalization, on my smartphone at work.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:41 AM
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Uhhh.. folks I hate to break it to you, but it is widely believed that 90% of the adult population carries the Herpes Simplex Type I virus, which is what causes cold sores. So chances are each of you are already carrying it. Just because you don't have cold sores means very little. When you see someone with a sore it generally means their immune system is at a low point, this could be due to stress, exhaustion or some other illness (like a cold.)

How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:

EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.

It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.

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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:45 AM
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you went to walmart with a disease ridden tramp



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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by "JJ4Short
sidenote: on the way home i was laughing and she was calling me mean. so she calls her mom and says she has a sore her mom says its not herpes but stress. she gets off the phone i call her mom a liar then laugh more.

my thing is this and this is what i have been taught. all cold sores are herpes. even when i typed cold sore into wiki to see if they were diff it redirected me to herpes simplex. its true that all cold sores are herpes though right.
Correct, for as far as you have gone.

All cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus, that is correct, however there are two types.

Simplex Type 1 causes cold sores and is minor, virtually all of us adults carry it.

Simplex 2 is the sexually transmitted disease and is quite a bit more of a concern. Unchecked it can lead to sterility and a few other nasty things. However with education and precaution someone with Simplex 2 can have a healthy sex life and their partner will have a very low chance of catching it.

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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 09:49 AM
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Its a different strain of herpes, but my understanding is that if you get blown while she got the sores, you would get herpes of the cock.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 10:05 AM
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
you went to walmart with a disease ridden tramp








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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
you went to walmart with a disease ridden tramp



where else does one take a skank? she is in college so standard 3 in the morning spot is wally world. the lighting is great for spotting cold sores

i am trying to figure out what to say to cancel our date.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short


So I have been booted back into the dating scene and met what I thought was a nice girl. So I go to wal mart with her just now. She had a cold sore so I was thinking...EW! I ask her how she got it she said she made out with a guy at the club the other night...UGH! See why I hate dating?

SO we have a date scheduled tomorrow...I am thinking about skipping out because I don't want to spend money on this chick. Am I being mean?

She is saying she gets it when she gets stressed but her first response was the whole making out with guys at the club so I dont believe her.
She definitely lied about that "got it the other day" vs "gets it when stressed out" thing, but it's probably because she's embarassed.

My gf gets cold sores every once in awhile, so when she does, we don't kiss. If she feels that "tingle" of it coming on, that means no facial contact. Four years later, and I still don't get cold sores. So this method works for us.

In your case though, I'm not so sure. If she lied about how she got cold sores in the first place, it's also possible that she'll lie and says she doesn't feel that "tingle" when she does, just so she can make out.

It's your call ultimately. Think she'd lie again?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by CanopyFlyer
Uhhh.. folks I hate to break it to you, but it is widely believed that 90% of the adult population carries the Herpes Simplex Type I virus, which is what causes cold sores. So chances are each of you are already carrying it. Just because you don't have cold sores means very little. When you see someone with a sore it generally means their immune system is at a low point, this could be due to stress, exhaustion or some other illness (like a cold.)

How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:

EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.

It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.

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man whatever. if she was a nice girl and got them then maybe but fucccccck that. i dunno i have never gotten a cold sore ever so i cant relate.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:01 AM
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Kinda like when I got crabs back in college and I kept telling myself it was razor burn.........hoes got the herp
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
where else does one take a skank? she is in college so standard 3 in the morning spot is wally world. the lighting is great for spotting cold sores

class it up for date #2. maybe you could go make out in the storage solutions aisle at Target
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:10 AM
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Is she white? If so, don't be so picky.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:12 AM
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She definitely lied about that "got it the other day" vs "gets it when stressed out" thing, but it's probably because she's embarassed.

My gf gets cold sores every once in awhile, so when she does, we don't kiss. If she feels that "tingle" of it coming on, that means no facial contact. Four years later, and I still don't get cold sores. So this method works for us.

In your case though, I'm not so sure. If she lied about how she got cold sores in the first place, it's also possible that she'll lie and says she doesn't feel that "tingle" when she does, just so she can make out.

It's your call ultimately. Think she'd lie again?

what about oral sex?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:20 AM
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Is she white? If so, don't be so picky.
You know this thread would be titled differently. "Getting engaged guys"
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:25 AM
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class it up for date #2. maybe you could go make out in the storage solutions aisle at Target
come on beety you never took a girl to walmart, picked up some groceries for her kids, then took her home for some thank you anal?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:25 AM
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totally gross. move on, hun... and stop shopping at walmart
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:34 AM
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She probably fit right in at Wal-Mart.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 11:43 AM
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Originally Posted by fdl
what about oral sex?
That's off-limits during "cold sore time" too.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:02 PM
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Cold Sore* = Whore

*: If said sore came from some one else.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:05 PM
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I just realized that this thread was a little lacking in the pics department










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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:23 PM
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:27 PM
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fdl...that was horrible...and did that second to last picture have a sore on their nose...lol

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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:27 PM
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this thread...no one wants to see those nasty pics
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:32 PM
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@ fdl. got any more?
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:35 PM
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@ fdl. got any more?
Your a sick sick person
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:38 PM
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:40 PM
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You know this thread would be titled differently. "Getting engaged guys"
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:40 PM
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Negrep to FDL! j/k

Nasty stuff though. My gf has light ones -- about the size of a very small pimple. Some of those look like people bitten by radioactive pus mosquitos or something.
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Old Jun 22, 2007 | 12:52 PM
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