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Cold Sores!!!!
Cold Sores!!!!
So I have been booted back into the dating scene and met what I thought was a nice girl. So I go to wal mart with her just now. She had a cold sore so I was thinking...EW! I ask her how she got it she said she made out with a guy at the club the other night...UGH! See why I hate dating?
SO we have a date scheduled tomorrow...I am thinking about skipping out because I don't want to spend money on this chick. Am I being mean?
She is saying she gets it when she gets stressed but her first response was the whole making out with guys at the club so I dont believe her.
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Originally Posted by AdamNJ
...when she asks why tell her she's a dirty slut with herpes.
my friend told me to say the exact thing.the question was should i be nice and take her on the date. either way i am not kissing her just felt bad about breaking the date at last minute. then again if she boldly tells me she makes out at clubs i am wondering how slutrageous she is. i mean damn it lie like other girls, not to smart.
sidenote: on the way home i was laughing and she was calling me mean. so she calls her mom and says she has a sore her mom says its not herpes but stress. she gets off the phone i call her mom a liar then laugh more.
my thing is this and this is what i have been taught. all cold sores are herpes. even when i typed cold sore into wiki to see if they were diff it redirected me to herpes simplex. its true that all cold sores are herpes though right.
ps i told this girl i know about it, we laughed it up. then i confessed i wanted to tap that. she said she doesnt like direct "hey come over and tap it" but if i come over and "what ever happens happens" lmao felt like minch. might need to buy her a purse.
btw sorry for no capitalization, on my smartphone at work.
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From: At your right shoulder, no your left!
Uhhh.. folks I hate to break it to you, but it is widely believed that 90% of the adult population carries the Herpes Simplex Type I virus, which is what causes cold sores. So chances are each of you are already carrying it. Just because you don't have cold sores means very little. When you see someone with a sore it generally means their immune system is at a low point, this could be due to stress, exhaustion or some other illness (like a cold.)
How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:
EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.
It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.
CanopyFlyer
How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:
EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.
It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.
CanopyFlyer
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Originally Posted by "JJ4Short
sidenote: on the way home i was laughing and she was calling me mean. so she calls her mom and says she has a sore her mom says its not herpes but stress. she gets off the phone i call her mom a liar then laugh more.
my thing is this and this is what i have been taught. all cold sores are herpes. even when i typed cold sore into wiki to see if they were diff it redirected me to herpes simplex. its true that all cold sores are herpes though right.
my thing is this and this is what i have been taught. all cold sores are herpes. even when i typed cold sore into wiki to see if they were diff it redirected me to herpes simplex. its true that all cold sores are herpes though right.
All cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus, that is correct, however there are two types.
Simplex Type 1 causes cold sores and is minor, virtually all of us adults carry it.
Simplex 2 is the sexually transmitted disease and is quite a bit more of a concern. Unchecked it can lead to sterility and a few other nasty things. However with education and precaution someone with Simplex 2 can have a healthy sex life and their partner will have a very low chance of catching it.
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
you went to walmart with a disease ridden tramp 




i am trying to figure out what to say to cancel our date.
Originally Posted by JJ4Short
So I have been booted back into the dating scene and met what I thought was a nice girl. So I go to wal mart with her just now. She had a cold sore so I was thinking...EW! I ask her how she got it she said she made out with a guy at the club the other night...UGH! See why I hate dating?
SO we have a date scheduled tomorrow...I am thinking about skipping out because I don't want to spend money on this chick. Am I being mean?
She is saying she gets it when she gets stressed but her first response was the whole making out with guys at the club so I dont believe her.
My gf gets cold sores every once in awhile, so when she does, we don't kiss. If she feels that "tingle" of it coming on, that means no facial contact. Four years later, and I still don't get cold sores. So this method works for us.
In your case though, I'm not so sure. If she lied about how she got cold sores in the first place, it's also possible that she'll lie and says she doesn't feel that "tingle" when she does, just so she can make out.
It's your call ultimately. Think she'd lie again?
Originally Posted by CanopyFlyer
Uhhh.. folks I hate to break it to you, but it is widely believed that 90% of the adult population carries the Herpes Simplex Type I virus, which is what causes cold sores. So chances are each of you are already carrying it. Just because you don't have cold sores means very little. When you see someone with a sore it generally means their immune system is at a low point, this could be due to stress, exhaustion or some other illness (like a cold.)
How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:
EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.
It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.
CanopyFlyer
How about instead of flying off wildly into speculation you actually educate yourselves:
EVERY THING YOU WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT COLD SORES BUT WERE AFRAID TO ASK.
It would be a bad idea to kiss that girl while she has the sore (her lip could get infected from your bacteria ridden mouth), but once it is healed she is as healthy as you are.
CanopyFlyer
Originally Posted by JJ4Short
where else does one take a skank? she is in college so standard 3 in the morning spot is wally world. the lighting is great for spotting cold sores 

class it up for date #2. maybe you could go make out in the storage solutions aisle at Target
Originally Posted by NumberFive
She definitely lied about that "got it the other day" vs "gets it when stressed out" thing, but it's probably because she's embarassed.
My gf gets cold sores every once in awhile, so when she does, we don't kiss. If she feels that "tingle" of it coming on, that means no facial contact. Four years later, and I still don't get cold sores. So this method works for us.
In your case though, I'm not so sure. If she lied about how she got cold sores in the first place, it's also possible that she'll lie and says she doesn't feel that "tingle" when she does, just so she can make out.
It's your call ultimately. Think she'd lie again?
My gf gets cold sores every once in awhile, so when she does, we don't kiss. If she feels that "tingle" of it coming on, that means no facial contact. Four years later, and I still don't get cold sores. So this method works for us.
In your case though, I'm not so sure. If she lied about how she got cold sores in the first place, it's also possible that she'll lie and says she doesn't feel that "tingle" when she does, just so she can make out.
It's your call ultimately. Think she'd lie again?
what about oral sex?
Originally Posted by BEETROOT
class it up for date #2. maybe you could go make out in the storage solutions aisle at Target










this thread...no one wants to see those nasty pics