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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:00 PM
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Are certain races/ethnicities easier to hook up with for you?

When I was single, it seemed that white girls were just easier. I'm Cuban so maybe it was the whole hook up with a latin thing. A lot of times I'd go to Daytona at our family time share and just rack up. What do you guys think?
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:02 PM
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Yes, I pull Latinas and mixes with ease. Black girls and White girls are a little harder and Asians unless they know I am half Asian tend to shy away from me.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:07 PM
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No difference, per se...then again, I've only dated two Caucasian girls. Everyone else was Asian.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:24 PM
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I think Asians have to be the hardest...They can't event look up...
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:27 PM
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I'm not sure, but I do know that I'm starting to really want more Asian girls in my life.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 12:43 PM
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I stick with the Latina's.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 06:26 PM
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I try really hard not to look at it that way. Like one ethnic group is tougher. I would say that a person that practices a certain religion or culture is tougher than the group itself. For instance, a Middle Eastern girl that only dates her kind for custom or religious reasons is different than one that has moved here and is Americanized. If they are Americanized, then I feel I can make it happen...after all...why in the hell would somebody NOT want my ass if it weren't for that????
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 08:07 PM
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it's funny, i pretty much exclusively dated white girls from high school until i finished residency. then i dated a vietnamese girl and it was game over. lately i've been really into japanese girls, like from japan, not japanese-american. i guess i speak conversational japanese so it's kinda cool like that conversing in another language. i think once i got to 30 y/o it was more and more obvious that asian women tend to age better than caucasians although there are plenty of exceptions. don't get me wrong, the needfor botox spans all races and ethnicities lol. just seems asians tend to age a little more gracefully that's all.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 08:19 PM
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Nothing like a late 30s early 40s white cougar with minimal work and the need to party. mmmmm.....
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 08:56 PM
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Oooh, cougars ftw! Nothing like an older, mature, "experienced" woman who's down with the brown. It's nice not to worry about drama that sometimes seems ubiquitous amongst women in their early 20s.

You're the man hapa! Don't a lot of girls find you exotic being mixed-bred? Here in h-town, hapa women are at the top of the pyramid as far as hotitude goes.
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Old Apr 24, 2008 | 11:20 PM
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Oh yeah girls dig it once they figure out what I am. Before that I get dismissed for either Italian, Mexican, Hawaiian (and in that order lol).

Confidence goes a long way, especially with the older women. If you can hold a convo and look them in the eye with a smile you're golden.

As far as mixes go, I think all of us half breeds carry this instinct to be able to tell our own kind. I approach them, bring it up, find some common ground and that's your way in. I'll be looking for one to settle down with once I get serious again with a girl, being Jewish and mixed would be on the upper portion of my list.
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Hapa DC5
Confidence goes a long way, especially with the older women. If you can hold a convo and look them in the eye with a smile you're golden.
You hittin' it right on the money Ira...right on the money! Handle your biz playboy!
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 12:58 AM
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I only date black chicks and its pretty easy for me, but there was a veronica mars looking white chick with pink glasses on sitting behind me today, had small talk, wanted to bang her...but I am too racist

I gotta say I can't talk to older white women aka cougars, got nothing to say to them some try to start small talk and I usually ease my way out of the conversation.

This is really hurting my chances of getting a rich white woman
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 07:20 AM
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There are sluts of every race creed and color.
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 08:10 AM
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Cougars FTW. Best part is that it's all business with them. NO BS and they know what they're doing.
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 10:01 AM
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im cuban too and i find it really easy to hook up with black girls...
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 10:02 AM
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i've dated white, filipino, chinese, half-white, and latina. latina's are the easiest!
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 11:00 AM
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Just blond white girls for me.

(Dark-haired, dark-eyed white boy here)
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Hapa DC5
Nothing like a late 30s early 40s white cougar with minimal work and the need to party. mmmmm.....

Where can I find one?!
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 03:43 PM
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I'm Indian. I've dated every race other than Indian. Seemed like white women were easier to hook up with, but that's basically because I was attracted to white women and mostly went after that type.
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Mokos23
i've dated white, filipino, chinese, half-white, and latina. latina's are the easiest!
For me that has held true as well. I've had all colors under the sun except Asian-Indian. Latinas my age were the easiest to reel in from my experience.
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 08:27 PM
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Ive hooked up with basically every type... white girls are the easiest out there. Latinas leave lasting impressions
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I'm Indian. I've dated every race other than Indian. Seemed like white women were easier to hook up with, but that's basically because I was attracted to white women and mostly went after that type.
your kid in your avatar doesn't look half-indian to me man
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Old Apr 25, 2008 | 09:23 PM
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There are sluts of every race creed and color.


Just need to look.
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Old Apr 26, 2008 | 08:02 PM
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ive only stuck with my kind... i tend to be more attracted to white girls... ...thats so racist of me...


though latina chicks can be haha .....
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Old Apr 26, 2008 | 08:52 PM
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White girls or Filipinas are pretty easy for me (Im mexi-pino) .
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Old Apr 26, 2008 | 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Mokos23
your kid in your avatar doesn't look half-indian to me man
Thanks. Not all indians are dark skinned. And my mail man was black.

He actually looks a lot more like I did when I was a kid. The only thing he has off his mom is eye color. Face shape, eyes, everything else is all me.
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Old Apr 26, 2008 | 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Thanks. Not all indians are dark skinned. And my mail man was black.

He actually looks a lot more like I did when I was a kid. The only thing he has off his mom is eye color. Face shape, eyes, everything else is all me.
Funny, but when you say something in a post, I think of the kid's face as your's...so I'm right! Thanks my dude!
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Old Apr 26, 2008 | 10:28 PM
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Funny, but when you say something in a post, I think of the kid's face as your's...so I'm right! Thanks my dude!
The difference is that now I'm more out of shape and missing hair. So I have to have the talk with him to work out and by then they will have a good pill for regrowing hair.
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Old Apr 28, 2008 | 03:13 PM
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I've had a string of jewish girls lately. It's pissed off one of my roommates because he's convinced it's impossible for him to get with one.
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Old Apr 28, 2008 | 08:42 PM
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I'm Asian and I've always had a thing for white women. Even back in 1st grade, I kick start my interest by holding hands with a blonde hair, blue eyed girl until we were both sweaty in the palms.

Besides, some Asian women are more white than the tannest white girls.

Growing up and raised in the South, I get a lot of interests from Black women but never pursued it. I have yet to date a Latin woman though.
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 02:44 AM
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I've had a string of jewish girls lately. It's pissed off one of my roommates because he's convinced it's impossible for him to get with one.
Okay time to go to UMD. I need to find a Jewish girl to settle down with and marry (so that's a few years away), right now I'm having my fun with the shiksas. Hit it, quit it no love involved just a clinger so far.

When I get back from Israel if I don't bring one home I'll have to pay for Jdate ugh I'm Jewish I don't want to pay for that shit.....
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 03:29 AM
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I'm Chinese and have never been with an Asian girl... lost my V-card to a Puerto Rican (she was a freak... and I mean that in a good way!!!), Dutch, Sicilian, Latina, Puerto Rican/Polish mix, a 100% Polish, a fling with a cougar but never found out what her heritage was, and the last girl was jewish... and a bit of a freak in bed as well... On pretty much every occasion, they made the initiation... maybe Asian girls are tougher to hookup which is why I haven't (yet)
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 06:53 AM
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White girls are pretty easy. Hispanic chicks too. Asian girls are usually prudes (in this area at least) unless you know them for a long time which i'm not going to waste my time doing. ive had two asian chicks tho. and at one point i was very into white girls. also had a jewish chick.
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 08:30 AM
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Spanish/Mixes/Greek pretty easily, must be my complexion.
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
I'm not sure, but I do know that I'm starting to really want more Asian girls in my life.
I got my wish. I'm going out with an Asian girl this Friday haha.

I'm not really into white girls...
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Old Apr 29, 2008 | 05:36 PM
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I've only got with a couple of Asian women, but the majority of my past girlfriends were white. Most of the Asian women around here date mostly white guys any way. And I can never get with a Korean girl because they'll only date their own. Because of that, I pick the other white meat.
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Old Apr 30, 2008 | 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by mn2trance
I've only got with a couple of Asian women, but the majority of my past girlfriends were white. Most of the Asian women around here date mostly white guys any way. And I can never get with a Korean girl because they'll only date their own. Because of that, I pick the other white meat.
Yeah dude, I was the same way until a few years ago. Trust me though, once you hit 30 you'll see that asian girls age a hell of a lot better than white girls. I've tried to circumvent this issue by going out with 22 y/o girls but dealing with stupid ass drama grows tiring. Last time I dated a girl in her early 20s (half japanese/half white btw) she unloaded a chilled patron shot down the back of my favorite boss shirt while reaching her arm around my neck to kiss me. That was pretty much the last straw lol. I'll put up with a lot of shit but you f-ck over my hugo boss and it's game over.

Now it's asian or bust. Like they say "once you go asian you never go caucasian."
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Old Apr 30, 2008 | 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Thanks. Not all indians are dark skinned. And my mail man was black.

He actually looks a lot more like I did when I was a kid. The only thing he has off his mom is eye color. Face shape, eyes, everything else is all me.
what is his mom's ethnicity?
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Old May 1, 2008 | 07:28 PM
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It's easier for me to hook up with blacks and latina's but i prefer whites
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