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Old Jun 6, 2007 | 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by jlukja
Go. Even if she changes, it sounds like you would still be bothered because you know about the past.
but every girl is gonna have baggage, so you either need to learn to deal with it, or like eezeekial said you're gonna be lookin for a LONG time, there are plenty of other girls out there though
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Old Jun 6, 2007 | 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by crazymjb
But boosted, now say you dated that same girl 6+ years later, and she had been a little whore in high school and her freshmen year of college, but didn't go around like that anymore. She had a boyfriend, and they broke up, so you started seeing each other. I can understand if she was like, "two months ago I was sleeping all over the place, but now I want to settle down with you," but the OP makes it sound like it was more than a couple years ago.

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Mike, this is where you're confused. In your example, the girl I dated 6+ years later would obviously be faithful and wouldn't have a crazy life. She would have been with me for the entire 6 years monogamously and wouldn't have any ex. in the last 6 years.
But I think you're referring to dating a girl briefly 6 years ago then we broke up, now 6 years later I met up with her again and she's telling me about her recent past life. First off, I wouldn't have dated a girl who's been a little whore in HS, but if I did, it would be because I was young and wanted to have fun. Now 6 years later, she's telling me about her life story, I wouldn't give a damn. How's a woman who 2 months ago was sleeping all over the place all of a sudden becomes goody good? I'm sorry, we live in the real world Mike. In the real world, people don't change that drastically unless something major happens.
This goes back to my quote earlier
Originally Posted by BoostedJack

2. Things can be different but I'll tell ya, people don't change that quick.
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Old Jun 6, 2007 | 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
Mike, this is where you're confused. In your example, the girl I dated 6+ years later would obviously be faithful and wouldn't have a crazy life. She would have been with me for the entire 6 years monogamously and wouldn't have any ex. in the last 6 years.
But I think you're referring to dating a girl briefly 6 years ago then we broke up, now 6 years later I met up with her again and she's telling me about her recent past life. First off, I wouldn't have dated a girl who's been a little whore in HS, but if I did, it would be because I was young and wanted to have fun. Now 6 years later, she's telling me about her life story, I wouldn't give a damn. How's a woman who 2 months ago was sleeping all over the place all of a sudden becomes goody good? I'm sorry, we live in the real world Mike. In the real world, people don't change that drastically unless something major happens.
This goes back to my quote earlier
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Old Jun 7, 2007 | 12:27 PM
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I say give her a chance, but dang a month after eh..
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