no. for me, i don't think it would work.

if she had such strong beliefs against sex before marriage, she shouldn't have done it in the first place. it's just not right to give a taste and then lock it up. as others mentioned, there is something else going on here. does your friend refuse to wear a condom or something else that might have turned her off from the idea? anyone have an std? maybe she fucked someone else on the side and caught herpes and doesn't want to give him it unless he really wants to be with her.

:ibhefucksahookerduringthebachelorparty:

 

No way i would get married to someone like that.....sex is something men really NEED in a relationship. Once women realize that most men wont stray....

I bet your friend strays ...or ends the relationship if she continues in her ways

 

glad to see i was right.....but i think he should back off a little and see what happens.....if hes non-stop asking her about sex and/or mentioning it she just gonna keep saying no.....wait for her to make a move tell your friend to put themselves in the same/more romatic situations that lead to them having sex before but don't jump first let it be her decision.....and i think mypoorTSX maybe right about this girl being a bit insecure and wanting to make sure before they get married but a year is a long time to wait for closure.....she should have found it by now.....

 

female from socal?! wow! lol

 

good advise from u guys!

we'll see what happens.

pray for me that he doesnt hump my leg!

 

Good luck...On the bright side, your friends problems are nowhere near as bad as this poor guys.....

https://acurazine.com/forums/ramblings-12/dried-out-sharpie-364749/

 

Damn, and I thought I had problems that time I left the cap off the toothpaste.

 

If she cant be mature and communicate on why she doesnt want sex then he should just move on.

Then again indian chicks are weird that way when it comes to sex.

 

Good thing you went white....

 

I always date white chicks, they put out without much money.

 

Especially when you consider the foreign exchange rate....It just makes sense....

 

 

Fixed.

 

Fixed

 

I believe the indian culture is stricter about these kinds of things. Probably shouldnt have had sex to begin with. Perhaps getting caught in the act shamed/embarrassed her into going cold turkey, so tell him its your fault.

 

My uncle was married for 15 years. At year 12 because of some woman sex drive problem his wife lost all her sex drive. He made it 3 years without then looked elsewhere & was caught by his wife. She divorced him & took half his money. Almost bankrupting him.

 

I know I'm late, but no it's called marriage

 

LOL!... im not naming names and i wont put pics.... cant put em on blast like that. i can foresee chops being made of the pics of him in the 40 year old virgin asking "is it true that if u dont use it... u lose it?"

 

well i didnt see anything.... i opened the door and heard a lil moaning and then he said "huh!"
i backed out slowly.. didnt see a thing... didnt want to...

LOL!

 

weird.... i heard (cant remember where tho) that males are at their peak of their sex drive in the mid 20's... and that women experience it a lil later at around the late 30s for some reason.

 

They both were in their 40's. It was some medical condition she had.

 

oh well see... if its a medical condition.. i would understand... but this girl dont have one!

 

if you didnt even feel like getting a small glimpse of her bare tatas or other such things then either something is wrong with you or she is not worthy... I will assume the latter.

 

Yes. She cannot lead someone on and decide no more sex. That is manipulation and entrapment

 

yeah...thats a

 

why does something have to be wrong with him maybe hes not a piece of shit and sees it as disrespect.....

 

nah man... shes cute... i didnt look out of respect. i would hate to have my friends staring at my gurls stuff!.... matter of fact id kick their ass for trying!

plus.... i didnt kno who was on top... sooo... i really didnt wanna see my friend's wang or anything

 

Pussy power FTL..... makes men sad LOL!

 

I knew they were Indian by the title of the thread. So obvious growing up with a lot of them.

I'm not sure how the brown guys can put up wtih it.

A relationship can work if sex stops or has never begun. For me personally it really means nothing to a relationship. As long as I'm getting my nut off somewhere with some decent hole rated 6 or above. It's easier like that because from my experiences, women seem to think I am only using them for sex, which is Not always the cases, but sometimes is.

In your friends cases, he can either fuck other hoes, and when he gets married he can start to bang her and eventually fuck other hoes, just masturbate until his hand falls off.

Is your friend dumb enough to make such an investment as to marry a broad before seeing it's previous performance or without getting a sample of the merchandise?

Why doesn't he just flush his money down the toilet. Cause that's what it sounds like he's doing right now.

 

I relationship can work without sex, its just hard! my gf and I stopped in July because we are "religious" quote unquote. He will find out if he reallt loves her or not. and it is hard to give up after you got it even with Jesus, but if I can do it he can do it. GODSPEED

 

because god considers sex and reproduction evil

 

yes LOL, I agree with that. I experienced that 1st hand. From observation, most long relationships (whether married or not), dwindle down to be friends livng together. That is no fun. Totally suck to go to bed at night, kiss each other good night and that is that.

Now, when I am with someone, when we turn in, there is no question about playing "hide the salami". The older I get, the more fun sex seems to be since both parties get so uninhibited...

 

the only way a relationship can work w/o sex is if both parties are fine with this. since your friend obviously isn't, the relationship will eventually fail, even though he's trying his hardest for it to work (waiting a year already! dang, props. he's a better man than most).

 

...no.... because have sex w/o marriage isn't right.

 

well it seems like ur in the same position as my friend....

u guys already did the deed so arent u "FUCKED" in the eyes of god anyway??
im not very religous or anything.... but doesnt most religon teach forgiveness? soooo... even if u did do it... and continue to do it, shouldnt u be forgivin in the end?

i say get ur nut on with the one u love!

 

if your truly sorry, yes. and as for the last comment

 

Maybe...it just depend on how long the sex stop. 1 yr is long and he has to wait for 2 yrs...that's 3 yrs. It doesnt matter how much you love the girl, if you aint having sex.....the more you couldnt have something you want, the more you will do what it takes to get it. He's going to be cheating soon...

 

She seems like she's hiding something if her initial reaction to him asking is so aggressive. She's saying that this is how she feels, and he needs to accept it, end of discussion. (selfishness - the exact opposite of what marriage stands for) If this is how she really feels and its for the right reason, she should be able to have a civil conversation about it.

How does your friend feel about games? Marrying this girl guarantees a lifetime of them. This is a sneak preview of what his marriage will be like.... the signs are all around him, he should stop and look at one every once in a while.