Does anyone get annoyed when the person you're banging talks to you? Not like talking talk but more like dirty talk. I think I'm messed up in the head because 95% of the time...I just wanna yell "shut the fuck up !" at her. I might have some anger issues...

 

I wouldn't know

 

My gf never talks dirty.

There are usually two sounds during and just after sex for us:
1) Her moaning
2) Me snoring

 

My gf talks, but it's always the same few phrases so its pretty much ineffective at this point. She needs to watch porn and learn some new stuff

 

Great....So its like Im an idiot that I want her to shut the fuck up.

 

why don't you like dirty talks?

 

I dont know...maybe because I feel that its not necessary, but most of the girls I use to bang did the dirty talk thing too.

 

Fuck me geek?

 

so you prefer them to talk to you about the gocery list? :troutslap

 

I prefer them to just shut the fuck up...plus...it feels weird when I hear it. I dunno, she only really dirty talks in the begining and the end of fucking.

 

I can see how it would piss someone off in no time... but from time to time, it would be nice!

 

I like moaning. Louder the better. Good amount of thrashing and head movement is good too, although not that cool when they move their pelvis all over the place when you are going down on them. It's work enough being down there and it's more of a pain when they are thrusting all over and shit.

 

from time to time yeah, but hearing it all the time is like

 

Hmmm, I thought every guy liked their woman to talk dirty.

 

Not when she makes you blush...

 

I kinda like it when my girl talks dirty in bed, but sometimes the screaming can get a little annoying specially if the neighbors come smashing on your front door telling you to keep it down.

 

No, this is just you, and it is an indication of a deep psychosocial malformation that will take years of therapy to overcome. ....

Actually, some guys are shocked when a woman can reveal the vocabulary of a longshoreman, particularly if she's still wearing her pearls in bed (and nothing else). But - when I was "in circulation" I found it both a bit startling and a bit refreshing. but if you prefer intimate cooings vs a longshorewoman, you can temper her down a bit by your response...... or just make love to Beethoven's ninth, played at top volume, which will drown everything out.

 

Dirty talk =

If you have a problem with that, just tell her to be more like your girlfriend is.

 

Most gals think guys like dirty talk ... that's why they do it. She thinks she's doing you a favor.

 

Maybe she watches too much porn?

 

I always feel like dirty talk is fake, almost scripted... especially when you can recognize a line from some movie. "oh baby I want you to _________________" just doesn't work for me.

For the longest time I required absolute silence in bed (haha), but I'm slowly coming out of my shell. Sometimes I'll say some stuff, but again, it just sounds fake. I'd rather be quiet than trite.

A little bit of irony for ya... when we first got together, S was real talkative and loud and all that and I continually shushed him, to the point that now he's usually quiet and I'm the one trying to make HIM talk. Talk about role reversal. :shakehead

 

I've never been into the dirty talk, or really any talking at all. One time when i was maybe 20 a girl screamed out "yeah, f@&K me (my name)!" and i just started laughing because it sounded way too much like a pron. Just the right amount of panting and moaning is best. I'm not a fan of really loud moaning or screaming at all.

That's when the pillow comes down over the face.

 

*(Jodeci song playing in the background, sound of head board banging
against the wall, and Biggie grunting)

*oman moaning*uh, yeah, uh, oooh, oh yeah, mmm, yeah
Oh fuck me you black mothafucka, oooohh yeah!!! MMMMMM, Aaahhh
Oh fuck me you black Kentucky Fried Chicken eatin'
Ohhh, ooohhh, yeah
You mothafuckin' gangsta killin', mutha fuckin black mafia ass
Muthafuckin, you, ohhhhh my god
You chronic smokin', Oreo cookie eatin', pickle juice drinkin'
Chicken gristle eatin', biscuit suckin', MUTHAfucka
V8 juice drinkin', slim fast, black greasy muthafucka
OOOHHHHH
Biggie: Whats my name?
Woman: Biggie!
Biggie: Whats my name?
Woman: Biggie!*

 

Your current talk dirty to you now?

Try hitting it harder, usually the talk turns into moans and squeals. If she has enough concentration to talk, I'm not balls deep yet.

 

just smack her in the face. she will shut up quick

 

Tell her to get back to moaning. Stuff the pillow in her hole if she starts screaming, or talking again.

 

Like I said...she always talks dirty in the begining and the end...I would tell her to shut the fuck up or something...but Im still her bitch and I dont have any say in when we have sex.

 

oh i don't like dirty talk either. compliments are nice, but dirty talk.. :ghey:

spanking is stupid too. i got spanked for the first time the other night (hard too). i was like wtf is that? not cute.

 

a bit of pain can be erotic for some people

 

spanking during the act is all about the right ammount of pain, just enough pain to make the pleasure stand out. KInda like pulling on a girls hair, biting or scratching. If you go over board it's not going to be pleasurable and most likely your partner will not play along again. I've been with girls who were completely turned off by spanking at first and after a couple of times would beg to be spanked just as they felt an orgasm aproaching. give me a call next time you are in LA

 

Rough Sex > Regular Sex

I like it rough and so does the g\f... I like twisting her arm behind her back and fucking her against the wall...

 

Triple to that!

 

The pain and pleasure centers in the brain are relatively close, and some folks don't much discriminate between the two. Thus, SM practices, which many truly delight in. Combine that with dominance/submissiveness and control issues, and you have a winner. Afraid I worked through that phase of my life in my twenties......