Birth Control and No Condoms?
08-24-2004, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
i have been w/my gf, for 3 1/2 years and for the past three years i havnt used a condom. she takes a DEPO shot every three months.
08-24-2004, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Slimey
using no birth control = desires to get pregnant
sounds like a great idea for this dysfunctional couple as described in this other thread.
sounds like a great idea for this dysfunctional couple as described in this other thread.
First, learn how to spell disfunctional
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
08-24-2004, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by AmooManiaK
First, learn how to spell disfunctional
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
Owned by a dictionary. You might want to invest in one. 
dysfunctional
adj 1: impaired in function; especially of a bodily system or organ 2: (of a trait or condition) failing to serve an adjustive purpose; "dysfunctional behavior"
adj 1: impaired in function; especially of a bodily system or organ 2: (of a trait or condition) failing to serve an adjustive purpose; "dysfunctional behavior"
08-24-2004, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by AmooManiaK
First, learn how to spell disfunctional
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
08-24-2004, 04:08 PM
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I dated a girl who was born on BC.
My current gf's sister was also born on BC.
A friend of mine got his girl pregnant when she was on BC.
That's why I don't fuck around and use a rubber even when my girl is on BC.
My current gf's sister was also born on BC.
A friend of mine got his girl pregnant when she was on BC.
That's why I don't fuck around and use a rubber even when my girl is on BC.
08-24-2004, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by ghost_masterCL
lucky you. thats' what my ex was on when I got her pregnant. Probably all those drugs she did.
***side note***
i am the only son to carry on the family name (alot of pressure) i was wondering is it possible for the shot to cause problems in the future?
08-24-2004, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by mc_yanzo
I dated a girl who was born on BC.
My current gf's sister was also born on BC.
A friend of mine got his girl pregnant when she was on BC.
That's why I don't fuck around and use a rubber even when my girl is on BC.
My current gf's sister was also born on BC.
A friend of mine got his girl pregnant when she was on BC.
That's why I don't fuck around and use a rubber even when my girl is on BC.
08-25-2004, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Dem1K
So...I've been w/ my lady for almost 2 1/2 years now, and for the past 1.5 years, we have been having sex with her on BC and using NO condoms. Of course we started off using condoms. However, as time went on, we decided to go w/ BC and the people at Planned Parenthood never said anything about having to use condoms w/ BC, so we never do. Everytime we have sex, I bust inside. For the past 1.5 years, everything seems to be cool, but of course I'll get nervous when it comes to that last week 
. After reading rezurex's thread, I got nervous all of a sudden. Now, are you SUPPOSED to have sex w/ a condom if your lady is on BC? Because, my girl won't have sex w/ a condom any more. She says it hurts. Plus, we're spoiled now . For reals though, can people give me input here. Is it not safe what we're doing? I appreciate it everybody!
`John
. After reading rezurex's thread, I got nervous all of a sudden. Now, are you SUPPOSED to have sex w/ a condom if your lady is on BC? Because, my girl won't have sex w/ a condom any more. She says it hurts. Plus, we're spoiled now . For reals though, can people give me input here. Is it not safe what we're doing? I appreciate it everybody!`John
I just wanted to say watch out for the "oh, I didn't tell you I stopped taking the pill I'm pregnant" whammy. That's what happened to my husband with his ex-wife. He didn't love her and she was trying to "hook" him. So he did the thing he thought he was supposed to do and married her. They only lasted a year...
08-25-2004, 02:25 PM
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My fiance's 4 months pregnant belly would tell you to USE A FUCKING CONDOM!!!!! She was on BC and now we have a kid on the way, go figure!
08-25-2004, 10:47 PM
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if she takes the pill accurately...same time everyday and not skipping and then playing catch up, you guys should be ok...just remember for pill baby, there are 10 couples out there without kids due to the pill...don't get spooked, just pay attention to what you are doing with the pill...it has to be the same time of the day everyday to keep the hormone levels up....any dip in them can lead to a pregnancy....
08-25-2004, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
DAMN! are you serious?
***side note***
i am the only son to carry on the family name (alot of pressure) i was wondering is it possible for the shot to cause problems in the future?
***side note***
i am the only son to carry on the family name (alot of pressure) i was wondering is it possible for the shot to cause problems in the future?
08-25-2004, 11:27 PM
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Nearly 2 years of no condom sex with my gf (~4x a week on average) and no problems. She wants kids even less than I do so she's really good about taking it everyday at the same time. I have used a condom only twice my entire life and never will again if possible. They seemed like they were choking my junk and I couldnt feel a thing. She didnt like it either. The only time I dont bust it inside is when it was in her mouth.
God I hope she doesnt read this
God I hope she doesnt read this
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
won't cause problems in the future, however, alot of females go to the extreme with their cycles...either they bleed all the time and it's painful...or they never have a period...or they can have breakthrough bleeding at any time..which as a woman, sucks big time!!! Also alot of females gain about ten pound a year for every year they are on the shot...
08-26-2004, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
...my only concern is my need to bare a male child in the future.
Why does it matter if any family surname progresses? Are you going to divorce or behead her if she bears no male offspring? What if your male offspring turns out gay and/or doesn't want children himself? Are you going to think your female offspring are second rate and treat them that way?
You're creating a lot of artificial pressure towards your spouse and child/children, and I'd guess that your father or parents did the same to you. That's sad. That's
My surname is quite uncommon, but its the least of my concerns to have a child only to progress the family name. :whocares:
08-26-2004, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
if she takes the pill accurately...same time everyday and not skipping and then playing catch up, you guys should be ok...just remember for pill baby, there are 10 couples out there without kids due to the pill...don't get spooked, just pay attention to what you are doing with the pill...it has to be the same time of the day everyday to keep the hormone levels up....any dip in them can lead to a pregnancy....
08-27-2004, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by AmooManiaK
First, learn how to spell disfunctional
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
Second of all, "disfunctional" is an understatement.
I cum inside her when she has her period, all bloody, oh yeahh baby!
08-27-2004, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
Fucking retard, he did spell it right.
08-27-2004, 03:28 PM
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well my girl just informed me that she forgets to take her pill a couple days on end every once in a while. Usually I pull out and bust on her body, but i will be wrapping it up from now on haha.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
08-27-2004, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
well my girl just informed me that she forgets to take her pill a couple days on end every once in a while. Usually I pull out and bust on her body, but i will be wrapping it up from now on haha.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
If that's her attitude, IMHO, she's not to be trusted -- and without trust, there's no relationship. You have to assume every time that she's NOT on the pill or that she's taking it in an ineffective way. This, IMHO, is tacit to WANTING to become pregnant.
Yes it's her body and she's entitled to privacy, but when making babies, it takes two, and by providing a gentle daily reminder, you're taking a healthy active role in pregnancy prevention.
From your other thread about her, there's other issues here too.
I'd say walk away, or wrap it up twice. I don't want to see a thread next week about how she wants to keep the baby...
08-27-2004, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
well my girl just informed me that she forgets to take her pill a couple days on end every once in a while. Usually I pull out and bust on her body, but i will be wrapping it up from now on haha.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
BTW, i asked her if she would be offended if i casually asked/reminded her if she's taken her pill today every once in a while. And she said something like "it's my body, my privacy, my issue, you're not my father." And i was like "um hello, if you forget all the time and there's a slip up i'll be SOMEONE'S father so it kinda is my business. That was it, it didn't really lead to anything else but i don't think ill be able to change her.
08-28-2004, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Dem1K
So...I've been w/ my lady for almost 2 1/2 years now, and for the past 1.5 years, we have been having sex with her on BC and using NO condoms. Of course we started off using condoms. However, as time went on, we decided to go w/ BC and the people at Planned Parenthood never said anything about having to use condoms w/ BC, so we never do. Everytime we have sex, I bust inside. For the past 1.5 years, everything seems to be cool, but of course I'll get nervous when it comes to that last week . After reading rezurex's thread, I got nervous all of a sudden. Now, are you SUPPOSED to have sex w/ a condom if your lady is on BC? Because, my girl won't have sex w/ a condom any more. She says it hurts. Plus, we're spoiled now . For reals though, can people give me input here. Is it not safe what we're doing? I appreciate it everybody!
`John
. After reading rezurex's thread, I got nervous all of a sudden. Now, are you SUPPOSED to have sex w/ a condom if your lady is on BC? Because, my girl won't have sex w/ a condom any more. She says it hurts. Plus, we're spoiled now . For reals though, can people give me input here. Is it not safe what we're doing? I appreciate it everybody!`John
08-28-2004, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by I am RobG
8 months no condom no BC i just pulled out and man you wannat alk about scared, she was a week late the last time and it hought i was done. just pull out to reduce your chances by that much more
09-07-2004, 10:44 PM
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WOW... i never knew there were so many ignorant people when it comes to sex until i started reading the dating and relationships forum on A-cl....
USE BIRTH CONTROL, whether it be condoms, the pill, sponge, shot, spermicide, you name it, USE THEM!
anyway, yes, you should use condoms while on the pill. it's not 100% effective. you could be that .1%, and i don't think you WANT to be, so cover the error w/ a secondary method... ie. condoms.
USE BIRTH CONTROL, whether it be condoms, the pill, sponge, shot, spermicide, you name it, USE THEM!
anyway, yes, you should use condoms while on the pill. it's not 100% effective. you could be that .1%, and i don't think you WANT to be, so cover the error w/ a secondary method... ie. condoms.
09-08-2004, 02:17 PM
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I agree with what was said earlier about the pill and girls "forgetting" to take the pill. Sometimes they do this purposely, and other times they just dont' remember and BOOM! You get that phone call with her crying on the other end talking about she's knocked up.
On the other hand, condoms aren't 100% either. I'm living proof that condoms do break. Bottom line is that NOTHING is 100%, and if you do the deed then you better be prepared to handle any potential consequences of your actions.
Having said this, that doesn't mean you should throw caution to the wind and do it all balls to the wall with no raincoat and shoot for the bullseye every time! Try to have SOME sense....guys cover it up! Girls get on some kind of BC......if you're not grown up enough to be responsible for your actions then keep your shit on ice!
On the other hand, condoms aren't 100% either. I'm living proof that condoms do break. Bottom line is that NOTHING is 100%, and if you do the deed then you better be prepared to handle any potential consequences of your actions.
Having said this, that doesn't mean you should throw caution to the wind and do it all balls to the wall with no raincoat and shoot for the bullseye every time! Try to have SOME sense....guys cover it up! Girls get on some kind of BC......if you're not grown up enough to be responsible for your actions then keep your shit on ice!
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Originally Posted by CLeanATL
thanx. she has been on the shot for a long time. (to regulate her period?) so she already gained the pounds. my only concern is my need to bare a male child in the future.