Dem1K

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So...I've been w/ my lady for almost 2 1/2 years now, and for the past 1.5 years, we have been having sex with her on BC and using NO condoms. Of course we started off using condoms. However, as time went on, we decided to go w/ BC and the people at Planned Parenthood never said anything about having to use condoms w/ BC, so we never do. Everytime we have sex, I bust inside. For the past 1.5 years, everything seems to be cool, but of course I'll get nervous when it comes to that last week . After reading rezurex's thread, I got nervous all of a sudden. Now, are you SUPPOSED to have sex w/ a condom if your lady is on BC? Because, my girl won't have sex w/ a condom any more. She says it hurts. Plus, we're spoiled now . For reals though, can people give me input here. Is it not safe what we're doing? I appreciate it everybody!

`John

liloj

if its the bc pill..then there a 1% chance of getting her pregnant..my girl is on it...and we still use them and dont use them every now and then.....i use it as a double protection.....either way..dont want kids..use a condom....

Red-CL

The chance of getting her pregnant is always there no matter what you use. Birth control is only 95-99% effective depending on what she kind she uses.

Just to put it in perspective, in those 2-1/2 years I'm pretty sure you've more than 100 times.

rezurex

dude i know it feels 10000000x better without the rubber but... when u get into my situation, that shit just doesn't matter at all.

but then again you might be a lucky guy and wont ever get her accidentally pregnant... as for me im definitely not risking it again. BC+condom+spermicide+lysol+diaphragm has to be more than 99% right?

Always Dirty

My buddy's wife was on the pill and they used to do it all the time with no rubs. His son is 3 now.

2003type-s6

Yup, happened to my boss too. His boy is almost 5 now.

supermegaglossy

i always use one. ALWAYS. but then again, i'm not in a "monogamous" relationship, so i have to protect from potential std's too.

it's better safe than sorry. there are so many factors with birth control, and it ISN'T 100% effective 100% of the time. just use a condom...

UNCTYPE-S

i know a few people who got pregnant from BC. watch out "soon to be father"

Slimey

I've been with my wife for 16 years (dating + marriage) and The Pill was the sole source of birth control for about 15 of them. No children until she came off The Pill last year when we intended to have one.

The Pill is the best form of birth control shorth of surgical sterilzation. Yes, it's not 100% effective over population studies, but used correctly it is nearly 100% effective for individuals. Failures (ie: pregnancies) typically have occured after improper use.

What does used correctly mean?:

A person needs to take The Pill about the same time every 24 hours to maintain effective hormonal levels.

If you're sick and barf up a Pill, or if you miss a pill you can double up on the next one. If you miss two then you need another form of birth control for that month or no sex. Frankly, I don't trust things after missing one.

You as the partner/husband/spouse need to bug your partner/wife EVERY night and ask if they took their pill. A nice reminder goes a long way. We agreed long ago that she wouldn't get annoyed if I ask if she took her pill.

jimcol711

i banged my ex for 5 years, constantly, and never wore a rubber, she never got knocked up.

NSXNEXT

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And every day we are thankful.

Could you imagine little Jim's roaming the Earth?

jimcol711

hahahaha, the funny thing is you guys still dont have any idea what i look like!

SooDARK

I've banged alot of girls that are on BC, and never use rubbers. I try not to bust inside them tho...... Just pull out dude and you should be fine. Talk to her tho and make sure she's ok with an abortion in worst case senario.

98CLChick

I'm on the pill, and don't use condoms. I don't like how they feel.

UNCTYPE-S

^most girls dont, but sometimes its either deal with the way it feels, or deal with going to k-mart to buy a baby book thinking of your new son or daughters name.

Scrib

It's not the looks as much as the moral impressions you'd influence on your child. God forbid we'd have to deal with two of the same of you in this world.

j/k

[<3 my CL-S]

My ex of 2-3 years used the pill and i busted in her everytime and thankfully no kid(s). But i did get nervous when her cycle was up....

BEETROOT

I have had 3 girlfriends for 2 years each and all were on bc and there were never any problems

and we screwed like rabbits

DamirsGirl

I hate condoms. I dont let him wear one. Used to be on BC... then I started having problems with it. We use nothing now... terrible idea. But, I never got pregnant on BC, and I was on that for quite awhile. No condoms... ever. Geez, we are such idiots.

acura1983

double protection is just peace of mind...it mite feel alot better for while but consequences outwiegh em

ghost_masterCL

YEah, well I did that with the first person I had sex with.. only came twice and pulled out both times... she got pregnant.. lucky me huh?

rezurex

man gettin a girl pregnant.. didnt know how stressful it actually is.

Dem1K

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yeah...it seems it's all luck of the draw, eh?

My girl and I have discussed the whole pregnancy thing many times, and she for one HATES kids. I love em, but I'd NEVER, and I repeat, NEVER, would want any at this point in my life. We have agreed that we'd get an abortion and we'd split the costs if it ever occured It's just I would never want her to go through that, you know? It's such a horrible situation to be in, even if you're dead set on getting an abortion. Either way, it sucks. But yeah, I don't like nuttin outside either. It takes away from the orgasm I guess we're just gonna continue what we do best!

Chinisimo

i need to remind my girl everyday. i just wish that she'll remember sometimes though.

here's a couple of questions.

how big of a window is there for taking the pill? does it have to be up to the minute? or w/i the hour, etc...?

also, what if she's traveling like to europe or somewhere far? will the time difference make a difference and she'll have to change the time when she takes the pill?

Slimey

I think within a few hours work out OK. Just don't switch from morning to evening every other day. As long as she takes it before bed, or in the morning when she wakes, it'll work fine.

My wife takes her pill at night -- when we travel to Europe she keeps with our local time and takes her pill in the morning. YMMV...

Chinisimo

i told mine to take it at 5pm. since she doesn't go to bed or wake up at a set time. is that ok?

Slimey

No problem, just be consistent.

I think it's easier to remember to take a pill with either the morning or evening routine (wash, brush teeth, take pill...) then just at a set time. My wife has her pills on the bedside table and swallows one before bed.

The other critical thing is to remember to pack the pills when going on vacation. It sucks to arrive somewhere across the country and be without your pills and then have to resort to other methods. Traveling without pills has only happened once to us -- good thing it's easy for me to get another Rx...

Infamous425

why dont she get the shots instead. once every 3 months

Mike 350Z

You know u can still get STD's even with a properly used rubber...so watch out.

btw, my girl just says using a condom feels different, not neccessarily uncomfortable. She's on the pill and she says 'either pull out before busting or use a rubber.' So since i don't want a kid any more than she does, i agreed that's a good idea. sometimes i wrap it and bust inside, sometimes i pull and bust outside and i must say the first feels better for me.

acura1983

i frend told me wen she took the shots it made em fat, real fat

acura1983

oh well the more to love..

Dem1K

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i have my lady take em at lunch..because we go to bed and wake up at different times every day. So at my lunch break, around 1, I call her and remind her. It's quite simple. Plus, when you guys fuck w/ no condom and bust outside, where do you guys bust? I just don't see that being enjoyable because orgasming while still inside is like a continuation and it feels AWESOME!

J.T.'s 3.2CL

Pull out.

ghost_masterCL

dude.. you actually come when you use a condom? Luck you. I can't feel shit with a condom, so I never come from sex anymore .

1SICKLEX

It all depends on if you want to take a chance. As stated there is a 99% chance of no pregnancy and even so, make her take the "morning after" pill.
Otherwise, keep boning raw dog and enjoy the feeling!

GeishaGirl

Reminding everyday is better than finding yourself in a shitty situation

SilviaGTO

wow... just.. wow. idiots is an understatement.

Slimey

using no birth control = desires to get pregnant

sounds like a great idea for this dysfunctional couple as described in this other thread.

Always Dirty

As a wise man once said, you can't get pregnant in the butt.

CLeanATL

i have been w/my gf, for 3 1/2 years and for the past three years i havnt used a condom. she takes a DEPO shot every three months.