Being forced to deal w/ my girlfriends Ex boyfriend this weekend
10-07-2004, 11:21 AM
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Being forced to deal w/ my girlfriends Ex boyfriend this weekend
I'm headed down to North Carolina for a homecoming reuninion at my girlfriends school...Apparantly her ex boyfriend of 5 years will be there and I don't know how Im gonna take it...I'm either going to play it off and not let the fucker bother me, or Im gonna beat him down the second he looks at me funny....From what my girlfriend said (and I trust her by the way), he will try to intimidate me and shoot me dirty looks...
Now, Im not short tempered, but when it comes to my girls and my pride - mixed with a weekend of drinking, I don't see this coming out to good...In fact, I know its going to be ugly - Im already getting fired up writing about it. How can I avoid the enevitable here?
Now, Im not short tempered, but when it comes to my girls and my pride - mixed with a weekend of drinking, I don't see this coming out to good...In fact, I know its going to be ugly - Im already getting fired up writing about it. How can I avoid the enevitable here?
10-07-2004, 11:28 AM
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Be the bigger man. Don't let him get to you. Don't give him the satisfaction of getting pissed. Be polite, shake his hand when you meet him, then just keep your distance.
If he goes out of his way to be a dick, beat him senseless.
If he goes out of his way to be a dick, beat him senseless.
10-07-2004, 12:38 PM
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Relax and have a good time.....
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
10-07-2004, 12:41 PM
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don't make a scene. be the man. he apparently has a chip on his shoulder, but you have the girl on your arm. you have nothing to worry about. just keep it civil.
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Relax and have a good time.....
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
great game plan. Dont forget to, make him wash your car, lend a helping hand, rack up those leaves for fall, clean the garage. nothing too hard. 
10-07-2004, 02:44 PM
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I like the way you think Nicky....
Of course Ill try to be the bigger man..."Try" being the operative word....Between Red Necks and douche bags - It should be interesting....
Of course Ill try to be the bigger man..."Try" being the operative word....Between Red Necks and douche bags - It should be interesting....
10-07-2004, 08:25 PM
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I agree TRY and be the mature one, but if he acts like a fool.............put him in his place.
if he needs a good slap, give him one.
Soon as you meet him you should get a vibe and you'll know what he's about.
But whatever you do, don't let this start shit between you and your girl.
if he needs a good slap, give him one.
Soon as you meet him you should get a vibe and you'll know what he's about.
But whatever you do, don't let this start shit between you and your girl.
10-08-2004, 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Relax and have a good time.....
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
for $250 I'll wait until he goes to the bathroom and hit him with a caddle prod....then when he is out, we'll have a bunch of gay guys rape him....then we take pics....and hold them over his head for the rest of his life.....make him pay $$$$ to get the pics back....
you know...make his life a living hell!
Wow...I'm sick in the head...a little!
10-08-2004, 07:50 AM
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mc222, be a true philly fan and take him out upon meeting him! when your girl introduces him be like, "hey I'm (WHAP)" then do some situps!
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
10-08-2004, 08:15 AM
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get a video!
unless he starts it, id just play it off...it will bother him more if you dont let it bother you...+ your out of your element, he has all his buddies, and they might jump you...
remember, ur the one banging the girl, not him...
unless he starts it, id just play it off...it will bother him more if you dont let it bother you...+ your out of your element, he has all his buddies, and they might jump you...
remember, ur the one banging the girl, not him...
10-08-2004, 10:36 AM
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mc222, be a true philly fan and take him out upon meeting him! when your girl introduces him be like, "hey I'm (WHAP)" then do some situps!
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
10-08-2004, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
Good Idea, or just invite him up to an eagles game, and have him wear the opposing teams jersey. the fans will take him out for you. philly fans are
10-08-2004, 04:59 PM
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So did you guys graduate from HS when you were 11 or something? If not, then be a man and just ignore the fucker. He'll get his blook pressure way up from the lack of attention. The best defense is to live well. Make sure you grab her ass a lot where he can see you.
10-08-2004, 08:58 PM
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play it off like you dont care. thats the way to be. act like its no big deal. if u put on a show being all up on your girl, he'll say something smart. no need to get him started in the first place... that was in the past anyway, you're there now, thats all that should matter... granted, i wouldn't want my girl all reminiscent with him or anything, so be weary...
10-09-2004, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted by BEETROOT
Be the bigger man. Don't let him get to you. Don't give him the satisfaction of getting pissed. Be polite, shake his hand when you meet him, then just keep your distance.
If he goes out of his way to be a dick, beat him senseless.
If he goes out of his way to be a dick, beat him senseless.
10-09-2004, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
mc222, be a true philly fan and take him out upon meeting him! when your girl introduces him be like, "hey I'm (WHAP)" then do some situps!
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
all joking aside Beetroot gives some good advice. If you trust your girl then there is nothing for you to fear. Just remember, even if he is a dick its because you have something he wants so just smile and don't say anything.
10-11-2004, 02:29 PM
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I met the dude...Complete douche bag...
I was going to be really nice,cordial and just be done with the meeting...But I ended up laughing in his face , I mean the dude was just a slob - he was completely out of shape, sloppy, and looked like a loser...He was pissed at my sarcastic smile when I shook his hand,but all-in-all, he was harmless. My girl was great and her and I bounced shortly after the confrontation...We went back to the hotel and continued our party....
I was going to be really nice,cordial and just be done with the meeting...But I ended up laughing in his face , I mean the dude was just a slob - he was completely out of shape, sloppy, and looked like a loser...He was pissed at my sarcastic smile when I shook his hand,but all-in-all, he was harmless. My girl was great and her and I bounced shortly after the confrontation...We went back to the hotel and continued our party....
10-11-2004, 03:46 PM
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im not trying to stir the pot, im just saying...one of lifes most uncomfortable moments is having to meet people who have previously ravaged your girls naked body.....
10-12-2004, 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted by jimcol711
im not trying to stir the pot, im just saying...one of lifes most uncomfortable moments is having to meet people who have previously ravaged your girls naked body.....
thats the worst. i get pissed just thinking about it.
10-12-2004, 06:58 PM
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Well atleast you did not crack his skull open...
... you are a gentleman... and I am sure the girlfriend was very pleased with the outcome...
points 4U...
And when I give points, they kick ass...
... you are a gentleman... and I am sure the girlfriend was very pleased with the outcome...points 4U...
And when I give points, they kick ass...
10-21-2004, 12:00 PM
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Be the bigger man - unless he starts something then don't back down. But go off of your girls reation to the situation so you don't end up looking like either a sissy for letting the other guy make a monkey of you or a prick for attacking the guy when it wasn't warranted. Let us know how it went!
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