Here is a tale, be the jury, is this a bitch move? (If too long, go to bottom bolded question).

So you know a friend (a), pretty good friend, who's clowned on mutual aquaintances (sp?) (b and c) alongside you about their being bitch whipped.

Essentially, these are the guys (b and c) that are in their college years (2 separate old roomates) who basically spent every waking day with their girlfriend (more often than not in the dorm rooms); meaning seeing them 7 days a week, going home w/ them on weekends, joining the same clubs, basically having no life outside of their girlfriends. I'm sure you know what I'm talking about, when it no longer is possible to talk to your friend "John", but instead, are only able to refer to your friends "John and Jane."

So friend A, who has always shared my thoughts on when too much is just too much, has essentially become exactly the same as described above. I'm happy an' all for him, as his girl is very very nice and is also my friend.

So what would you think about this situation; when you see friend A invite his hometown boys up to chill for a Saturday. Presumably, they are there to chill, blaze, drink some brews, play poker, or whatever; but instead, friend A sits there and holds his girlfriend (who he's literally spent the last 30 days non-stop with) while watching a scary movie; while his boys blaze and throw back some heinekens by themselves out on the balcony. Bitch move?

 

definately a bitch move.

 

the bitch move of all bitch moves, someone talk to him before its too late

 

I did when the 2nd to 3rd week rolled around. I said to him: "3 weeks straight. Too much is too much mang." To me, he said: "Yeah, she's ridiculously attached ridiculously quick, but I don't want to hurt her feelings."

It was left @ that. Roughly 2 weeks later (present), recent development of an incident takes place.

 

bitch move. why invite friends from back home if you won't even chill with em? spin kick your friend

 

That is pretty weak to invite friends over and not chill with them. Definately a bioootch move.

 

Bitch move.

that sucks, i say kidnap him for a night; and you, him, and all the guys go out to a strip club/bar/club, whatever. Or just pimp smack him.

 

Bitch move. Friend A needs to reclaim his nuts and man up.

 

Maybe she has cancer and her last wish is to spend the last few weeks of her life with the only guy she's ever loved? Ya, right. Total bitch move.

 

Beotch

 

:clearthroatwhileyellingbullshit:

He'll end up being heartbroken any day now... that stuff doesn't last.

 

yeah, but i think everyone has lost a friend or two to that clinger syndrome

 

Straight up bitch move....

You should print this thread off and hand it to his bitch ass.

 

Bitch move....did his hometown boys notice or say anything?

 

He's already gone. He's now dead to you.

 

friend A, we hardly knew ye

 

Bitch move. On the other hand, you cant always blame your boy....weak-minded...doesnt think he can get another gf....you know...all the symptoms of being BITCH MADE.

 

I hate people that get a new girl and blow off all old friends to be with girl...

 

Me too.....but in the end they're your boys, sometimes they just bitch made....you can teach 'the game' but you cant make them learn it.....

 

this has happened to me more than once, i barely talked to a good friend of mine for almost a year because he was pretty much married to this girl!!! another one of my friends got his first girlfriend, who was a pretty big slut before she started going out with my old friend and she had sex with another friend of ours like a day before they started going out, i told him and i havent talked to him since.. in some cases you just gotta let it happen and they will figure it out on their own, sometimes

 

"Who you callin a bitch? U.N.I.T.Y.!"

Um, but yeah it is a bitch move, therefore give Friend A...

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Is your friend a member of AZ and is he the poster formerly known as Amoeba?

 

Its a bitch move, but it happens all the time. Girls come and go, friends are forever.

 

I can't believe we haven't seen this yet.......



of the girl,


but still his buds should have come first no matter what she looks like...

 

Well, my roomate (friend A) will probably come out of this relationship just fine if they split up.

Old roomates b and c however, it was their first 2 years in college, and essentially had absolutely no friends left over when all was said and done, and they decided to split up with their girlfriends.

 

It's sad, I've lost friends like this. May his soul be forgiven.
I actually got a recent scare with one of our exboard members I am good friends with. He had told me he has a gf, but then I we later spoke and he's still dating 20 yr old chicks on the side. Almost lost another. These close calls freak me out.

 

weak sauce... maybe he needs attention all the time...

 

Naw, I went to sleep @ 2am. Apparently they stayed up til' 5:30am playing poker and such. I still think that's kind of jacked up, as they got there @ 11pm, and he was hanging out with his girl til' I'm presuming about 3-4am.

 

d bitch move, tell him to get his balls back out of the purse he probably bought her

 

Definitely a bitch move. There's no reason to invite the gf to a guy outing.

He's bitch whipped because he doesnt want to deal with her bitching...in turn...turns into a bitch

 

major bitch move. I hope she's at least hot.

But say goodbye now. It will all go downhill from here. In 2 months she'll have the balls.

 

Just wait until you are in friend A's shoes man. It happens to all of us, cut him some slack while he's with this chick, you will do the same thing with some girl in the next few years I promise.

 

I'm already sick of most girls after about 2 weeks. Like someone said I hope she's hot

Oh btw, your friends a bitch. Sorry about your luck


Is this his first serious gf? That's the only way this can be understandable. (to an extent)

 

Well, he's my roomate, I mean, essentially, she's in the same club as us, so I'm a really good friend of hers too, but like I said, too much is just too much sometimes.

This isn't his first girlfriend. His last girlfriend was a Korean girl. If you know anything about Koreans hooking up with Koreans, 3 words seem to describe most relationships pretty well: neglect, fight, tears. He would see her once every week or so, when they were happy, they were happy, when they weren't (which was more often, they weren't).

So he went from that kind of relationship, and making fun of the bitchwhipped people around us to well, ya'll know the rest. I guess it's one or the other; no happy medium for him