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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 09:20 AM
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Appreciate your significant other thread

Tired of hearing people complain. Where are all the people that are in a healthy relationship?

I have a wonderful gf, here is what happened yesterday.

I came home, and she prepared delicious dinner for me, later, gave me a hj, then gave me a very long massage.

I can’t ask for anything more.
Life is great when you are in a great relationship.

Post your positive relationship experiences.

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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 09:48 AM
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heh, I expect that everyday.

That kinda stuff should be a given.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 09:53 AM
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My girlfriend is the reason i wake up happy everyday.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:01 AM
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's gf is the reason I wake up happy everyday
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
My girlfriend is the reason i wake up happy everyday.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
's gf is the reason I wake up happy everyday
Along with the rest of AZ.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:23 AM
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Im either a stalker or im whipped. I can never win here!
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
's gf is the reason I wake up happy everyday

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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Im either a stalker or im whipped. I can never win here!
Nope, just give up.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:26 AM
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Im not that easy

I cant even say somthing nice without you fawktards ruining it!
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:31 AM
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Yeah no one posts about anything if there's nothing wrong. No news is good news I gess.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:40 AM
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I too am in a good relationship, I feel very lucky to have found someone who really appreciates me. Let's hope it stays that way
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:40 AM
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 10:41 AM
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 01:10 PM
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My SO is so great, he's flying all the way from California tonight to take care of me some more. He just spent a whole week waiting on me hand and foot, uncomplaining, and he didn't even hound me for sex until a couple of days after the surgery.

In thanks, I am crocheting a blanket for him. It should be done in about a year. Hold on baby, I'm working as fast as I can!

No, but all kidding aside, I am really really really grateful for all of the support and help he has given me over the years. I'm not really all that great of a wife sometimes (if you think I bitch and moan on the board, imagine what I'm like IRL), and he has stuck it out for four long years now. I sure am lucky.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 01:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
My SO is so great, he's flying all the way from California tonight to take care of me some more. He just spent a whole week waiting on me hand and foot, uncomplaining, and he didn't even hound me for sex until a couple of days after the surgery.

In thanks, I am crocheting a blanket for him. It should be done in about a year. Hold on baby, I'm working as fast as I can!

No, but all kidding aside, I am really really really grateful for all of the support and help he has given me over the years. I'm not really all that great of a wife sometimes (if you think I bitch and moan on the board, imagine what I'm like IRL), and he has stuck it out for four long years now. I sure am lucky.
The rest of u should learn from this post...

More responses like this...
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 01:23 PM
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Well, no complaints here! I've been with my fiancée for over two and a half years and look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. We can share anything, and whenever we have problems we come to each other first. When life seems to be going completely crazy, we seem to provide the sanity that is lacking. It's even starting to get hard to remember what it's like to not be with her.

Many times I forget what a blessing it is to have someone like that, so thanks for the thread! It's forcing me to remember the many reasons why I love her.

EDIT: Also, notice how few posts there actually are in this thread... Could it be indicative?

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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 01:31 PM
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married 19 years, her second, my first. She is my best friend, my soulmate..... So many folks feel they "give up" something to be married , but I feel that my wife has enhanced who I am, encouraged me, supported me and - I've become more, not less, independent. Hope I've done the same for her. Best day of my life - our wedding day. Worst - the day she collapsed with a massive ruptured brain aneurysm, spent three weeks in a coma, three months in rehab programs...... learned exactly how much she meant to me.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 01:49 PM
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You guys are going to make me cry.

I'm single; I've had no luck lately. I have been seeing someone wonderful, someone who made me laugh, treated me like a lady, someone I could trust and have a great time with but... we didn't see a future together. We decided to stay friends. He's a great friend now, someone I can always count on.

I'm still looking for my other half.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 02:02 PM
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My g\f took me back after I cheated on her...gotta appreciate that
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 02:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
My g\f took me back after I cheated on her...gotta appreciate that
REALLY!
When did this happen?





PS: not making fun of you Xeno, I've been in your shoes before too...
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by bgsm1th
REALLY!
When did this happen?





PS: not making fun of you Xeno, I've been in your shoes before too...
Uh maybe like 3-4 weeks ago....I just didnt say anything because my threads about the situation were construed as attention whoring.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 03:48 PM
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My girlfriend is my best friend, we never fight or are mean to each other. We share every last thought with each other.

Nothing too complicated really.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 03:54 PM
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we have been married 3 years (well 3 years sept. 21) i could not imagine life without her, she deals with all my crap, the NFL, NASCAR, my imaturity, and my fuck ups. im damn lucky to have someone so good.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 06:48 PM
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Oh... earlier I caught my girlfriend playing video games for a few minutes wearing nothing but a towel (she just got out of the shower)

I'm truly the luckiest man on earth.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Oh... earlier I caught my girlfriend playing video games for a few minutes wearing nothing but a towel (she just got out of the shower)

I'm truly the luckiest man on earth.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 07:07 PM
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You guys are going to make me cry.

I'm single; I've had no luck lately. I have been seeing someone wonderful, someone who made me laugh, treated me like a lady, someone I could trust and have a great time with but... we didn't see a future together. We decided to stay friends. He's a great friend now, someone I can always count on.

I'm still looking for my other half.
PM me your picture and I'll look around for a matching piece.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 07:36 PM
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I appreciate the fact that most of my former significant other's have had the decency to move out of the state I live in so I never have to see them again.
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 07:36 PM
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I appreciate the fact that most of my former significant other's have had the decency to move out of the state I live in so I never have to see them again.
Your that bad huh?
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by mclarenf3387
Your that bad huh?
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 08:03 PM
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Your that bad huh?

I don't think so, but who really thinks they are bad??
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Old Jul 21, 2005 | 08:13 PM
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Well, I was in NY city for a training for the past 3 days and I was staying at a hotel there. I missed my wife and son a lot.....

Now for the shocker - I joke a lot here about my wife and family.

Now, I was never here and the normal jokes will continue
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 12:06 PM
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You know a guy really loves you when he gives you his last bite of steak. Or last bite of any food for that matter! :wink: Or he makes the bed after he leaves for work in the morning and tries to arrange all those silly decorative pillows on the bed the way that I had them the day before. OR especially when I try to cook and sometimes it turns out horrible, but he still eats it and says "Baby this is SO good!"

True love is found in the little things I think. There are bumps in the road sometimes but if your special someone is still around after all the bumps I think that says alot. You get to that point where you don't even have to talk...you can anticipate the others needs and feelings and just "be" together. Good stuff!
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 01:15 PM
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I hate those fawkin decorative pillows
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 01:18 PM
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Why are they called throw pillows when they aren't meant to be thrown?
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 02:32 PM
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Why are they called throw pillows when they aren't meant to be thrown?
... brain malfunction. Warning. Brain malfunction.
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by badboy
Why are they called throw pillows when they aren't meant to be thrown?
Oh they get thrown....first thing John does when he gets ready for bed is throw them on the floor! Then they get thrown at me for telling him not to throw them!
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 06:19 PM
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Oh they get thrown....first thing John does when he gets ready for bed is throw them on the floor! Then they get thrown at me for telling him not to throw them!
Does he then throw you?
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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Does he then throw you?
With comments like that its no wonder Jen hasn't posted in here yet :shakehead







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Old Jul 22, 2005 | 07:30 PM
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My g\f took me back after I cheated on her...gotta appreciate that
Time and time again. Lol
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