lately iv been meeting alot of different girls.. and the first thing i tell them is i dont want any commitment and im just looking for some fun.. but when i told my guy friends i tell these girls this they are in shock that they just dont run off and dont ever call again ..and call me very lucky they still wanna be with me... cause im basically telling these girls im just lookin for a booty call.. are yall as straight forward as me?

 

Yep, I do that.

Not like when I first meet them though, usually when I see we are getting to the point where feelings start getting developed and I want to make sure I am honest with the chick. I am dating two chicks right now where I have that agreement, we will date, hang out, have sex, and have fun but a relationship is not in the cards because thats not where I am at right now. they are cool with it.

Shit some girls prefer those kinds of relationships, they get a companion and sex without all the drama of a relationship. Either party can walk away without the drama of a official break-up.

 

i don't see how you can be blunt about it, though - you gotta kind of work it in like Waddy said

most girls are conditioned to be against that sort of thing, at least in front of their girlfriends...

 

i donno the last couple girls i met.. i told them the next day im just looking to have fun at my age and stuff.. and they buy it and all say they are looking for the same.. i sometimes ask them straight up if they wanna be friends with benefits

 

are you wearing a shirt that says "i have a 10" penis" ?

 

Nah, I usually don't say that shit to girls. Most females, expect something in return for the niceness. They all are very emotional creatures by nature, henceforth, its hard to come across girls who DO NOT want a relationship.

Its like they expect it.

 

Let me Try That. Friends Wit BeneFits

 

yeah that is one of the first sentances that i tell them i tell em either were fuckin or your buyin me another drink ?


no just kidding , but i am honest with them !

 

I do it too... Girls respect honesty and most are looking for some CACK anyhow...

 

i've used it before, but thats usually a conversation that doesn't happen the same night we meet.

i pull that out if they think they're gonna get a relationship out of me.

 

i do it all the time.

 

i think if that's what you want, be straightforward, like you said you are. there is nothing worse than a guy with an "agenda". if he tells you want he wants, we have the choice to take it or leave it. some girls want no-strings-attached sex. because sometimes, we don't want to deal with the bullshit either. just give me an orgasm and go on your way