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Old 11-03-2004, 02:41 PM
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she don't wanna be with that chode...she actually had a suicide scare last night and told me she was gonna kill herself if i didn't come see her. i had to call 911 and they broke the gooddamn door to the house and i bet it scared the shit out of her. but i'm glad she's okay. this is a complete soap opera!
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
she's on paxil...the car is in my name...i'm at my mom's new crib. lovin' it
dude I went out with a girl on paxil ... she was a complete psycho. You would never know it when you first met her but after a while you could see what mental case she was. Drop her like a bad habit, take the car, and don't even talk to her. You'll thank yourself in the morning
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
she don't wanna be with that chode...she actually had a suicide scare last night and told me she was gonna kill herself if i didn't come see her. i had to call 911 and they broke the gooddamn door to the house and i bet it scared the shit out of her. but i'm glad she's okay. this is a complete soap opera!
dont fall for that shit.
girls pull that shit all the time to make the guy stay.
remember she said you werent there for her? and she was sleeping with your friend???? hello??

shes just doing this because shes realizing how screwed she is right now. dont fall for it.
Old 11-04-2004, 11:23 AM
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holy shit you're a fucking dumbass if you still drove her to work and picked her up AFTER you find out she cheated.
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Originally Posted by Infamous425
holy shit you're a fucking dumbass if you still drove her to work and picked her up AFTER you find out she cheated.
Old 11-04-2004, 01:35 PM
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Funkeetown, Are you going to the DFW meet? If I make it out there, I'll buy you a drink cause after all this $hit, you need it.
Old 11-04-2004, 02:25 PM
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well, yeah, i found out after i drove her to work for so long that she cheated on me. i would not have done that if i knew what happened. anyway, we talked a bit last night and i told her that i was disappointed and angry and fed up with her behavior and she was all like...i guess we just want different things out of life and whenever i'd bring up casey she'd bring up the hoe that i slept with behind her back. i will try to make it to the meet. but i don't get off work until 3:45 or so. i will drive as fast as i can for the free beer from gixxster.
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well she has a point.. you shrug off cheating on her like, oh well it was early in the relationship, but youre highly angry with her about cheating.

now me, if i were to find out that the guy cheated early in the relationship, i would feel like the whole relationship was based on a lie.. and that he wasnt trust worthy.

for all you know she may have been doing this in retaliation, but two wrongs dont make a right, and she has way more problems than just this.
Old 11-05-2004, 12:17 AM
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you should write this into a movie, because that's what it sounds like!
Old 11-05-2004, 12:24 PM
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1/3 of the way into your post and i already decided you should dump her.

DO IT
and you wont regret it.
Old 11-05-2004, 01:47 PM
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No girl is worth more than two chances. To me, you fuck up twice, you fucked up forever in my book! At least I'll give her that much.
Old 11-11-2004, 11:25 AM
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hello boys and girls, i'm back from the dead. i was moving all week and dealing with a lot of yelling, screaming, attorneys, and police escorts. last night i packed a uhaul full of my shit and left her with her old mattress and a 20" tv. she has no dining room, no living room, and no office left. when i asked her for the title she was sticking to her guns and when my mother and i tried to pressure her to give us the keys to the jetta, she called the police and told them that we're trying to beat her up. in any case, the cops came and told us to settle this in court and so now i gotta clock 200 bucks an hour to get this shit back. but that's ok. i didn't think she was capable of doing such things... i looked at her driving away in a car that i bought her and i thought to myself..."wow, what a thief" i hired an attorney last night and we're gonna send her a letter of demand and she will have a week to give the car back or she's gonna get served. i called her mother also (who's a very strict christian woman) and told her what a wonderful daughter she raised. i told her all i ever did is treat her right and gave her everything but i can't take the drinking, yelling, cheating anymore and to please persuade her into giving the car and the money back because neither is hers. her mom was so upset she cried on the phone so maybe i don't have to do much in the lawyer department. but all is well that ends well...this whole car fiasco just made me not miss her at all and made the break up that much simpler. she still owes me 500 bucks and we drew up a contract that she signed and she's gonna have to honor it and pay up until the 1st of december. thanks for all you guys support. i even forgot about buying headers from type s boi. i just now got my internet hooked up again. i guess i'll get back to the subject to tell you guys how the legal shit is going. peace. mike
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^^
Good thing man, kicked her to the curb. Now get the car back so you will never have to see this broad again.
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wow.. and women wonder why guys are always harsh towards them.
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Glad to know you dropped her like a hot rock. Now go find someone who respects you.
Old 11-12-2004, 11:08 AM
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glad to see things are taking a change for the better!
Old 11-12-2004, 12:32 PM
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good shit funky!!!! glad to here ur doing well. but like siliva said for your future relationships dont CHEAT!!! cause after all what is the point of beeing with some one if all u want to do is fuck other peoples!!!!! if ur with some one be with just them other wise the best advice i can give you is if you wanna fuck around dont be commited to some one. its not fair to you or them for that matter if you or they are sleeping around. you def didnt like the fact that ur ex cheated on you and just remember how that feels and try to do that to some one else....... good luck brother and i hope it all works out for you
Old 11-16-2004, 09:41 PM
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yeah i've grown up from the cheating thing. i cheated cuz i was 21 and stupid but things are getting better. i got my money back from the original car so we're all good. thanks for all the support people. now i need a girl that has her head on straight...are there any left out there?
Old 11-17-2004, 01:29 AM
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so you are the one who stole my headers... damn you man. :P

glad you got this figured out. good luck in the future.
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this whole shit is OUTRAGEOUS!
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That story was funny. But yea, good thing you left that mark ass trick when you did.
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damnit, i hit 9k posts and didnt even realize it.
Old 11-21-2004, 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
yeah i've grown up from the cheating thing. i cheated cuz i was 21 and stupid but things are getting better. i got my money back from the original car so we're all good. thanks for all the support people. now i need a girl that has her head on straight...are there any left out there?
of course there are!
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I think it is time for revenge now. Post those nude pics you have of her.
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killer can u change ur avi back to your daughter please
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killer can u change ur avi back to your daughter please
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it was worth a shot
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holy shit im copy and pasting this and saving it to my iPAQ so i can read it when im in class or on a plane ride to germany or something.
right

dump her man
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
yeah i've grown up from the cheating thing. i cheated cuz i was 21 and stupid but things are getting better. i got my money back from the original car so we're all good. thanks for all the support people. now i need a girl that has her head on straight...are there any left out there?


Good for you! I'm sure there's a nice girl out there who will appreciate you.
Old 11-23-2004, 05:07 PM
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today kinda sucked. i thought i would be happy getting the whole court/car thing out of the way but in a way i'm really sad because i know i will never see her again...i really really cared about that girl and loved her and now it's hard to see her go even after all that shit she caused. last thing i wanted to do is take everything away from her after i worked so hard to give her everything. life is ironic isn't it? how do you guys deal with it when you get a case of the blues all of the sudden? i hate being lonely. my ex bitches are crazy and/or married/ or about to be married. there is no one in this world i care about, it's so fucking sad. i guess i'm like jerry mcguire..."Jerry, cannot be alone"
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
today kinda sucked. i thought i would be happy getting the whole court/car thing out of the way but in a way i'm really sad because i know i will never see her again...i really really cared about that girl and loved her and now it's hard to see her go even after all that shit she caused. last thing i wanted to do is take everything away from her after i worked so hard to give her everything. life is ironic isn't it? how do you guys deal with it when you get a case of the blues all of the sudden? i hate being lonely. my ex bitches are crazy and/or married/ or about to be married. there is no one in this world i care about, it's so fucking sad. i guess i'm like jerry mcguire..."Jerry, cannot be alone"


It's only natural for you to feel that way. Of course you'll miss her, but it is best for you to be apart than to be together. Allow yourself to grieve for a short period of time, then move on. Focus on building your career and have fun with your friends!

You are still young. You still have a lot of years ahead of you! Look at this day as the first day of the rest of your life.

Old 11-23-2004, 07:05 PM
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thanks sasha. yeah i talked to some friends of mine and already felt better. i hate the ups and lows though.
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Hang in there, Funkee, you'll find someone better.
Old 11-24-2004, 01:07 AM
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i found out something today too...i used to know this girl named dainya, we used to "get into trouble together" and she's just a great all around 21 year old hooters employee. she and i talked on the im today and she told me that casey (the guy that my gf cheated on me with) wanted to ask her (dainya) out to a movie. i swear this guy wants to get with everyone of my girls. what the hell is his deal? is he gonna start calling himself mike soon too? anyway, dainya was like...your "best friend" tried to ask me out the other night? i thought he was with your bitch...haha. i'm like, i gotta find some new hoes to fuck so that casey can date them too... ;-) i think i just need to get with his ex girlfriend who he is still not over (they dated for like 5 years) i should just fuck her and take pics and say...wow, casey, she's really a dead fish in bed, how could you date her for so long???? now, i'm just being mean...but really what's up with that
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a few things A-hide the title keys etc. B-beat the piss out of casey...as in make him bloody(and yes violence will solve this situation) and C-fuck your girls best friend then dump her...


thats just my opinion
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Originally Posted by FunkeeTown
i found out something today too...i used to know this girl named dainya, we used to "get into trouble together" and she's just a great all around 21 year old hooters employee. she and i talked on the im today and she told me that casey (the guy that my gf cheated on me with) wanted to ask her (dainya) out to a movie. i swear this guy wants to get with everyone of my girls. what the hell is his deal? is he gonna start calling himself mike soon too? anyway, dainya was like...your "best friend" tried to ask me out the other night? i thought he was with your bitch...haha. i'm like, i gotta find some new hoes to fuck so that casey can date them too... ;-) i think i just need to get with his ex girlfriend who he is still not over (they dated for like 5 years) i should just fuck her and take pics and say...wow, casey, she's really a dead fish in bed, how could you date her for so long???? now, i'm just being mean...but really what's up with that
My advice. Stay FAR AWAY from anyone you know already and who knows that circle of people. It will just give Casey (and others like your ex) chances to fuck up your relationship with someone new. Just go find someone completely new. I'm thinking like a strong-willed young woman.
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dude u need to leave her, find someone else. your too good of a person for someone like that...trust me. i know it will be hard, but it's the best thing to do.
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well, today the girl that casey tried to get with, dainya, left town. she's gone out of state for good to make something of herself. while I admire her courage and drive...i will miss the hell out of this girl. she was the one i used to get in all the trouble with and i was kinda hoping a little more would've happened between us. sigh. oh well, i agree, i need to find a strong willed girl that has nothing to do with the people that i know. i don't even want to ever visit the places my ex or her stupid friends frequent. i'm starting to get a little lonely here because i lost a bunch of people that i used to talk to a lot and now it's all quiet...but at least you find out who your true buddies are when shit goes down. anyway...i guess i need to focus focus focus, go to school, the gym and someone will take notice. as far as fucking one of my ex girlfriend's best friends, i wouldn't touch them cuz i might get chalmydia or something. anyway, thanks for the support...let's push this thread so it looks like the dallas/fort worth meet and greet thread. JK.
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well, today the girl that casey tried to get with, dainya, left town. she's gone out of state for good to make something of herself. while I admire her courage and drive...i will miss the hell out of this girl. she was the one i used to get in all the trouble with and i was kinda hoping a little more would've happened between us. sigh. oh well, i agree, i need to find a strong willed girl that has nothing to do with the people that i know. i don't even want to ever visit the places my ex or her stupid friends frequent. i'm starting to get a little lonely here because i lost a bunch of people that i used to talk to a lot and now it's all quiet...but at least you find out who your true buddies are when shit goes down. anyway...i guess i need to focus focus focus, go to school, the gym and someone will take notice. as far as fucking one of my ex girlfriend's best friends, i wouldn't touch them cuz i might get chalmydia or something. anyway, thanks for the support...let's push this thread so it looks like the dallas/fort worth meet and greet thread. JK.
Exactly. You're too young to waste your life on some stupid girl who isn't worth it. When you find a girl that you can be friends with (hold off the sex for a little while, but not toooo long), then you should go out with her.


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