Before my break from college started, I had 5 girls that I had my eye on, and somehow the list has dwindled down to two. For the record, I'm 18 and I go to NYU so when I mention certain places and ages you could pretty much relate. I have no clue what to do here. Just please help me out with these two situations and let me know what I should do:

1) There's this girl from work that I really like. She's a senior in high school but she is blond and beautiful and I've liked her for a while. She knows I really like her and she has feelings for me too but she has had this boyfriend for like 2 months that she wants to get rid of because she really doesn't like him anymore. She wants to give me a chance but there's also an ex-boyfriend in the fold that she still loves (7 month relationship) and she doesn't know if there's anything still there. I actually know the ex-boyfriend, I went to high school with him. At the moment she knows I want to take her out and she knows I'll treat her right but she's confused as to what she should do.

2) I started talking to this girl that goes to Emory a while ago that lives in my neighborhood, and we have a pretty close (AIM) relationship going. We talk every night and she gets into really deep conversations with me about her past and the type of person she is. I thought I was building a foundation with her until she mentioned a kid that she really likes back at school that she hasn't really kissed or been in a relationship with already but she knows that when she gets back something will happen. She actually asked me for advice and I was pretty negative about the situation because she has the potential of getting hurt but I dunno if that worked. I'm starting to really like her because I can't talk to many girls in the same way I do with her but now that she mentioned this other kid (who she would only see at school) I'm getting pretty discouraged.


I'm thinking both of these girls have the potential to be absolute psychos and/or cheats and they could have a change of heart but maybe others see it differently. My friends tell me I should just go for it but I feel like there's too much to lose with both. Please help me A-TL, I'm pretty much confused at the moment.

 

My advice: track down the other 3 girls you had your eye on. Both of these seem like they have too many issues to deal with.

 

, what school are you in from NYU?

 

'zactly...At 18y/o, you oughtta worry about having a good time rather than looking for something serious--especially with girls who are already predisposed to being very serious and flighty at the same time. No win situation, bro...

Of course I'm a lot older, what the h=ll do I know...

 

, track down the other three or better yet find some new ones....
@ 18 you have the entire ocean at your call, these two (nice and great as they maybe) have issues (in the pond). Neither good or bad, but is it something you really need? The first one, if you are into her go for it, if it doesn't look like it's going to work go your separate ways...

Life is about challanges and opportunty, you make you choices and do something about them. Waiting in the wings? You'll always be waiting.... my two cents.