i think i am really falling for this chick i am talking to.

last night i had this realization while i was trying to take care of her because she was so drunk lol.. I had to carry her out of the club... and help her out while she threw up... and normally all this would have disgusted me (who wouldnt it disgust) but i realized as i was laying her in bed that i care about her, she had me very worried.

now i'm trying to decide what to do, i wouldnt mind having her as my girl... and from all the things she says i'm her perfect mate, i definitely treat her better then anyone ever has... but shes been hurt in the past (who hasnt) and it seems shes afraid of being in a relationship (and maybe i am too), even though our actions/the amount of time we spend together is very similar to that of a boyfriend and girlfriend. I am happy how things are, with us just caring about eachother and being around eachother and having some of the best sex i've ever had in my life amongst other things. I'm thinking i will just go with the flow, and if someday we become a couple thats cool... but is that the wrong thing to do? should i not invest more time and feelings into this girl if theres the posibility it will come to end for petty reasons. should i go back to playin the field since i'm young

 

I say just go with it. If you two really want to be together in the end you will be. I don't think you should turn your back on the possibility of a good relationship just because you're young.

 

naw, don't go for the relationship, let me hit it


jk, the only real reason to not be in a relationship (that i can gather) when young, is being unable to realize your dreams (because often women drain the life out of young guys)... if she's cool, and allows you to be you... and you care for each other the way you do... go for it IMO

are you in college? are you working full-time?

some careers, (entry-level positions even) may require frequent travel, long hours, etc. and that can be a burden on a relationship... just curious

 

nah i work full time, and so does she.... but we have plenty of time in the evenings to chill....

she definitely lets me be me, shes down with da ganja :blaze: and thats a plus cuz alotta chicks arent...

 

if you really think you're falling for her, go for it.. it doesn't happen too often in life. people always are afraid they'll miss something else if they settle down, but if you don't have a solid relationship at some point, you'll miss that connection with someone.

just go with the flow, ask her what she wants too.

 

follow your heart...

 

 

good luck!!

 

hey is this the same girl u went out w/ to avalon w/ me?

 

whatever you do, think with the top head.

 

wow, i'm in the same situation right now with a girl i've know for a while. Lately we've been spending a lot of time together. i stay at her place between 2-4 nights/week and we go to different schools. one thing is my boy is dating her older sister and the 4 of us get along well and i feel like if it doesn't work out between us, it could change some things



i'm just going to take it easy and go w/ the flow. Labels can change things......sometimes

and she's pretty cool with the :blaze:

 

yupp

 

i feel you brother im the very same boat

 

young grasshopper...enjoy it until it ends, IF it ends

 

if u lived here i would ask you what her name was cause that is just to funny every thing u said is what im going threw. i meet this girl like lil over 2 months ago and we hung out a few times. then we hooked up on night and from there on she is at my house every night and preety much lives here when she is not at school or work. its like we are together we do everything like we are b/f g/f but at the same time she has said befor that she isnt sure if she wants a relationship or not so after the first couple of weeks i never talked about it again. just kinda going with the flow but i really like we get a long really well never fight really and she :blaze: to which is a plus for me just like you. the only thing is she just went home for a week on turkeyday break and that means no sex for a week uggggggggghhhhhh thaqt sucks..

 

last night she said those three words

 

"give me money"

 

And what did you say?

 

i repeated them...because i felt it

 

congrats Clean B

It happened to me when I was 21ish too.
Now I am happily married with the same person.

 

Good Man!!!

 

"suck my dick" - Tomcats

 

its "cock", not "dick", but a good quote.

 

def not sure bout the marriage thing yet, but thanks

 

haha, well it took 6 years for me to get engaged tho, and 1 more to get married.

 

which would be....that your in ? If so, congrats, I dont think I'll be worried about saying that for a while....

 

Well then, that's great! and congrats

 

congrats B.

 

Wait, don't make a joke - some lamo may give you neg. rep points and be a pu$$y about it

 

Congrats though.... good stuff!

 

:ghey:





thats the best thing to do

 

Congratulations, sounds like a good relationship. Do yourselves a BIG favor though, do not rush into anything! Don't even consider marriage until you've been TOGTHER for quite some time, believe me, this is not something to hurry. Be as honest as possible with each other, never hide anything about yourselves.
Of the utmost importance in a relationship is communication, if one of you doesn't talk, it won't work, talk talk talk, and talk some more! I was married for 22 years and it ended for two reasons, we weren't honest about our feelings, they DO change over time, and we didn't talk enough about things.

oh and by the way, if you feel comfortable togther just being quiet (different than not talking) then you have a good one, being comfortable together quietly is a sure sign of a comfortable relationship.


Love is awesome when it is real, and no it is NOT :ghey: