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Old 06-17-2006, 01:13 AM
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how bad did i just screw up

one of my best friends is getting married on saturday and i'm in the wedding party. rehearsal dinner was tonight. his brother is in jail or a while. anyway they give out gifts at the rehearsal dinner and my buddy gives me a flask/shotglass set and this card that says how great a friend i am etc. so his brother's gf show up at the rehearsal dinner and starts flirting with me. long story short i got fucked up and she offered me a ride home. took her up on it and we ended up hooking up (just kissing).

i feel like a total sack of shit right now. she seems to want to continue this shit tomorrow at the wedding but i can't do it to my friend..he's really close to his lil brother. i wish i could take back what happened tonight but i cant.

fuck fuck fuck

fuck.

suggestions for fixing the situation would be appreciated. this is one of my best friends.
Old 06-17-2006, 01:19 AM
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Old 06-17-2006, 01:23 AM
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I vote for the Dont Kiss and Tell Policy. Its NOT like you fucked the broad, think of it as a being friendly...You shouldn't have anything to worry about. You could tell your friend that his brother's g\f is a fucking whore because she put the moves on you...remember, you refused sex with her, I think so you should be all good
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^^ going with that. i just called her and told her it was a mistake and can't happen again so we are going to act like it never happened. she was cool with that.

sometimes i wonder how i can be so retarded. women are evil.
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no pics?
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
no pics?
Dont you sleep?
Old 06-17-2006, 01:38 AM
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no pics.
Old 06-17-2006, 01:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Big Duhty
Dont you sleep?
bots don't sleep...

actually i'm on call...
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Originally Posted by zeroday
no pics.
next time
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Originally Posted by zeroday
no pics.
But you will have some eventually....Yes?

I mean, it is a wedding, there has to be pictures.
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im going to bed. thanks.

im not saying shit to anyone about this. maybe ill post pics...not sure if i feel like hauling my d70 to a wedding.
Old 06-17-2006, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted by zeroday
im going to bed. thanks.

im not saying shit to anyone about this. so dont go telling anyone k thanks.

pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics pics




ok i'm just kidding lol
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damn jatt you got me before the edit.

who the fuck would you people tell
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is she hot?


we all know you want to hit it and you will hit it....
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Originally Posted by zeroday
Maybe ill post pics...not sure if i feel like hauling my d70 to a wedding.
So you're saying theres a chance.......SCORE!

See this is why you need to have 2 cameras....the sleek, and sexy mediocre camera for a situation like this, and an SLR like your D70 for other types of shit.
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Originally Posted by zeroday
who the fuck would you people tell
I know some people, who know some people, who know some other people that might know your people.
Old 06-17-2006, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by Big Duhty
So you're saying theres a chance.......SCORE!

See this is why you need to have 2 cameras....the sleek, and sexy mediocre camera for a situation like this, and an SLR like your D70 for other types of shit.
yeah i have a sleek and sexy canon s200 2 megapixel

but and point taken.

jatt she was good looking but not hot..it doesn't matter it isnt happening again. if i posted the note my buddy wrote me you guys would think i'm the fucking antichrist. fuck im drunk...going to bed...things will be hunky dory in the morning. k thnx bye.
Old 06-17-2006, 04:22 AM
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Man you are basically fucked in the ass! As long as this broad isn't crazy you should be ok but that ain't happening. Any chick willing to mess with her man's brothers friend is all about drama. Probably gonna break down and admit kissing you, crazy brother who is fresh out of jail comes and gets you. Nice knowing you Zero
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Old 06-17-2006, 09:56 AM
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Deny til you die.
Old 06-17-2006, 10:17 AM
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beat the bitch to the punch - fess up
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Old 06-17-2006, 10:37 AM
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if her boyfriend just got out of jail, we all know what fudge-packers they are in there, voluntarily or not, so maybe she is coming to you because she wants something other than anal. stupid girl.
Old 06-17-2006, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by phipark
Deny til you die.
=permanent memory loss.
Old 06-17-2006, 01:05 PM
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=permanent memory loss.
from probably my all time favorite song "alcohol" by Brad Paisley
You had some of the best times you won't even remember with me ALLLLLLLLLCOHOL.
Old 06-18-2006, 06:15 PM
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1. It wasn't with the wife.
2. You didn't bang her.

Hopefully everyone can sweep it under the rug.
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Originally Posted by Water-S
from probably my all time favorite song "alcohol" by Brad Paisley
You had some of the best times you won't even remember with me ALLLLLLLLLCOHOL.
Is somebody becoming an alcoholic after a nasty divorce?

This more than the first time you've mentioned that song and how it's your favourite.


Oh, and Zero, you aren't THAT screwed. At least you ONLY kissed her. If your best friend's brother somehow finds out about it, you're going to have to apologize however you can and insist that it's 50% her fault as well and that he's with the wrong girl if she's going to be chasing after other men.
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Oh, and Zero, you aren't THAT screwed. At least you ONLY kissed her.


that was friday after the rehearsal dinner. saturday night...err...
Old 06-19-2006, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by zeroday


that was friday after the rehearsal dinner. saturday night...err...


So you're saying this didn't hold up?
Originally Posted by zeroday
jatt she was good looking but not hot..it doesn't matter it isnt happening again.
Old 06-19-2006, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
So you're saying this didn't hold up?
ehh

alcohol is a hell of a drug.

we didn't have sex though...at least not according to Bill Clinton's definition of sex.
Old 06-19-2006, 08:20 AM
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My guess is she will probably not want to tell hey boy friend that she hooked up with someone. I would talk to her, and tell her that you were drunk and out of line. I'm pretty sure she will agree to keep quiet about it as well.
Old 06-19-2006, 09:18 AM
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All you can hope is she won't get too drunk and tell someone about what happened. Even if she initiated the kiss, the fact is, you kissed her back. She cheated and you were a part of it. If your best friend finds out, he will naturally feel protective of his brother and will probably get upset. Just be prepared of a possible confrontation. Good luck!
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Originally Posted by zeroday
we didn't have sex though...at least not according to Bill Clinton's definition of sex.
well you probably won't have to see her again (unless you want to) so that's probably a good thing.
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we didn't have sex though...at least not according to Bill Clinton's definition of sex.
So you're saying you got head? Was there a cigar involved?
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sooo this dude's brother is a close friend of yours and you make out with her on friday and then again on saturday. >you

Thought you would have learned your lesson the first time. I guess he not that good of a friend.

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Old 06-19-2006, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by btsilver
sooo this dude's brother is a close friend of yours and you make out with her on friday and then again on saturday. >you

Thought you would have learned your lesson the first time. I guess he not that good of a friend.
thanks for analysis. this is certainly valuable information for me to know.
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I hope you guys werent too flirty around others. You dont want rumors to start flying

Im guessing the makeout session was at your place.
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I have no advice.

You are scum Good luck though!
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Meh, he did the buddy a favor.

He now knows his brothers girl is a cheating whore.
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So whats the brother in jail for?


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