I've searched countless times and all the threads i've come across have pictures that no longer work.

I've tried using the pictures off of DDM tuning and it still hasnt worked.

I recently purchased HID foglights with a relay kit and i wired it up like the picture below



I'm assuming that the red arrows connect to the original plug where the old bulbs came from.

But the fog lights still wont light up.. Help???

 

Chances are that relay harness is just a universal product that isn't necessarily matched to the ballasts that you have.

With everything connected the way you had it, take the connector that supplies power to the ballasts, and reverse that plug. I'll be willing to bet that the polarity is reversed, and that's why they don't light.

 

Also try reversing the plug to one of the bulbs at a time. I have a DDM harness for my DRL lights and one of the plugs has go on backwards (where the plug doesn't click in) because the polarity is reversed.