so i finally took pics of the ebay foglight harness, was wondering if anyone can help point me in the right direction, i feel like im a pro of taking my bumper off now with the many tries lol

what im trying to do is hook up my lower fogs without the switch and have it so it either turns on with my other fogs or headlights







so tell me what im doing wrong, i got the 2 headlight socket and i have the blues grounded. then moving on to the 2 relays,first the one with the yellow,red, and blue. i ground the blue and wrap the red and yellow to the + side on the car battery. 2nd relay with the red and blue, i ground the blue and i tap the red into the fog 20a fuse, i also tried putting it with the headlight fuse but dont seem to get any power.

im not good with this stuff i just try what i read lol any help would be appericated.