I just bought an 04 Tl and i needed help on finding the basics like a front bumper with fog lights, lip kits, tail lights,rims , the basics, please help!!

 

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I just got an 06 in Desert Mist Metallic w/ 100k miles on it.

Before you begin mods, I would probably do some preventative maintenance on the car. Do the 3rd and 4th gear pressure switches and the 3x3 flush to keep the transmission happy.
I deleted my Hands Free Link because I know it can cause issues if it fails. My battery died on my in the first 10 days of ownership and while I think the HFL was working fine, I just removed it to avoid headache in the future.

As far as the fog lights, you can find a DIY of it here: https://acurazine.com/forums/third-g...lights-930705/

As far as I know, the fog lights were only offered on the 07 and 08 TL's.

For body kits, I am assuming you mean the A-Spec kit. They are rather hard to find now, especially in the right color for your car. I really want the A-Spec front lip for my car, but I can't find one in my paint color, so I may order one and get it painted.
The kit isn't cheap, about $300 each for the front and rear lips. You can find the kits at https://store.excelerateperformance....e/b-10668.aspx and https://www.heeltoeauto.com/. I'm sure you can get them elsewhere as well, like some of the OEM Acura parts websites.

Hope this helps.