ok so i bought a motor mount kit a few months ago on ebay from Zamo-Zuan(seller) and never got a chance to put it on... well i noticed on my 2003 tl the front mount looks a little different. my question is would a 1999 front motor mount be fine to use on a 2003 model tl?
the mounting points look the same but the 2003 mount has the two bolts on each side half way down the mount.

It should mount the same, However 99 front mount is a weaker design in my opinion.

That's good to hear, I contacted seller and they said they would ship a new one that is for my car but I'm honestly debating on throwing on the 99 style mount and hoping it last for awhile

Rather go with the right stuff, exchange it if you have a chance.