my backup lights are staying on once i turn on the car...WHY A NEED HELP BIG TYME ASAP

 

what did you do last to the car to cause a short?
possible reverse light switch at gear shifter loose or failed?

for now disconnect the bulbs!

 

They are turning on as in the actual lights itself or the sensor telling you that its out?

If its the actual lights, I can't help you but you should take the bulbs out or disconnect the connectors so at least you can drive without freaking everyone out. Or at least put some red tape over it.