Hey all - I'm trying to replace my door actuators and I'm stuck at the part where I have to remove the D switch (the switch that controls the power windows, etc)

There's 2 connectors that plug in - a smaller plug and a larger plug. The small one unplugs fine, but the larger one is being a real pain in my butt.

Here's some pictures of what I mean:

The entire D switch with the one I still can't get out:




Close up of one side of the problem plug:



Close up of the other side:



I'm already pressing the tab in and pulling as hard as I can but it refuses to come out. Has anyone who has seen this have any "tricks" to try? I'm trying to pull as hard as I can but it refuses to budge. I'm guessing I'm just doing it wrong so was looking for advice.