Have had a 2008 MDX for about a year now. I have key #1 and my wife has key #2. I really enjoy the memory settings but don't like the fact everything changes (seats, mirrors, radio stations, XM stations) every time my wife uses the vehicle. Unless I lock and unlock the car using my clicker before getting in and driving off after my wife has used the vehicle, all of the settings are wrong and can't be changed until I stop. Is there a way to disconnect the key/clickers from the memory settings? The radio settings are the most frustrating. If noting else, I guess I could set the stations the same for both keys.

 

I think if you hold unlock and lock on the remote together for a bit the light should blink and it unlinks it from the car... try it out

 

Make sure to have your wife lock the car upon exit.
Yesterday my wife unlocked the car but I was going to drive and the memory on the door was on 2 so I pressed 1 and it re-aligned to my settings.

 

rather than unlink the remote why not simply push button one before shifting into a gear? I don't see the problem. She will mess with the mirror and seat if it is not right and you still will have to get back to where you want everything to be...