Installed Latitude on gf's phone
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From: Los Angeles / Highland Park
doesnt it only work when the GPS is on???
install LOOKOUT phone security. u can access it from the web and the gps doesnt have to be on. it can pretty much pinpoint the location to a few meters. just set up the LOOKOUT with your email
install LOOKOUT phone security. u can access it from the web and the gps doesnt have to be on. it can pretty much pinpoint the location to a few meters. just set up the LOOKOUT with your email
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if you are using it incase she looses her phone or because she is fond of loosing it often, then that's nice of you.
If you are using it to track her, I say that's not really cool since it's not like you have any reason to, and if you did you wouldn't be posting here.
IMO if you feel that she is hiding something from you, talk about it. If you still feel distrust, them I'm sorry but you need to take care of your relationship. Relationships are founded on trust!
If you are using it to track her, I say that's not really cool since it's not like you have any reason to, and if you did you wouldn't be posting here.
IMO if you feel that she is hiding something from you, talk about it. If you still feel distrust, them I'm sorry but you need to take care of your relationship. Relationships are founded on trust!
@ thread backfire. I kinda agree, that is a pretty dick move.
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From: Waffles, BU
I think tracking a loved one is not an issue, especially if you have kids. But it sounds more like a trust issue since you did it behind her back.
I'm on the backfire bandwagon..
I'm on the backfire bandwagon..
yeah, OP's post indicates that he installed it onto her phone w/out her knowledge.
let's put it this way...would i notice it if you installed it on my phone?
yes, i would be able to tell/find out easily. and if i can, then she probably can to.
let's put it this way...would i notice it if you installed it on my phone?
yes, i would be able to tell/find out easily. and if i can, then she probably can to.
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From: ShitsBurgh
haha oh this has potential to be a GREAT thread.
If you think she is cheating or something and you see she is at some motel or a house that she has no business of being there in the first place, call her. If she lies about where she is at, tell her you are watching her and hang up haha
If you think she is cheating or something and you see she is at some motel or a house that she has no business of being there in the first place, call her. If she lies about where she is at, tell her you are watching her and hang up haha
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I don't see anything wrong with it. You have a right to keep an eye on her, what she is up to is your business.
The views expressed in this post do not reflect my actual views, I just want the OP to think someone is on his side so he can come back and say some more stupid shit.
The views expressed in this post do not reflect my actual views, I just want the OP to think someone is on his side so he can come back and say some more stupid shit.
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now lets move our lounge chairs from the K&N thread to here...lol j/k. Trust issues is no way to have a relationship, hope it backfires if that really is your reason...but if its for good purpose then good idea!
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Just got this PM:
Dear Jack,
This is your "gf" writing. Please note I am using this term loosely, because at the end of this letter, this will no longer be the case.
First of all, why are you putting our business on the internet? I have asked you and told you repeatedly that what happens to us is BETWEEN us. Clearly, your little plan to gain support backfired. Most of the people who commented on this thread AGREED WITH ME. The funny thing, is that they haven't even heard my side of the story.
So, since you insist on tracking me, I must insist on defending myself. Let's get a few things clear. When you are good, you are the greatest man I know. But ever since our child has been born, you have been nothing but a selfish idiot.
You are not the father of the year, so stop giving people the impression that you take care of her because I do all the work. She is 8 months old and I have been taking care of her ever since she was born. True, there was a month that you helped out because I called you a deadbeat dad, and you did take care of her after she was born because I had a C Section, but beyond that, the only time you take care of her is when you absolutely have to. Otherwise, you would rather pay for a sitter to do the job so you can spend your day online or working on your stupid car.
Which, incidentally, is under my name. Don't forget that.
Furthermore, the problem we have is not about the car. It is about your order of importance. Every time you have to take the car in for maintenance, I don't object. When you need to buy things that the car NEEDS, I don't object. But when you want to waste your money on frivolous items when you know we need to spend money on other things, LIKE YOUR CITIZENSHIP SO YOU CAN GET A DAMN JOB! then I have a problem. I think your peers would agree with me.
I love you more than any person I have ever loved in my life, but you are impossible to live with. I am working over 50 hours a week, I am taking 18 credits in school, and I am raising our daughter when I am not doing one or the other. All you do is work as a bouncer 3 nights a week. Dude, get real.
Why is it wrong that I want to do things on my own, without being followed? When did I become a bitch because I want a night off every once in awhile? Being in a relationship means sacrifice. Contrary to what you wrote, I am proficient with my cell phone, and did figure out what you did.
And, FYI, you are obligated to tell me what you are doing with your time and your money. I have a right to know where you are in case of emergency. Your "movements" as you call them are not what matters. What matters is that I know that you are safe and plan on coming home, because believe it or not I care about what happens to you. At least, I did.
In the end, I am sorry it came to this. I am sorry you felt that you had to talk to complete strangers about our problems instead of me. I am also sorry that this isn't going to work anymore, because I really do love you.
Perhaps next time you shouldn't leave AcuraZine on for me to view it.
Hopefully with the next girl, you will have learned your lesson because I am tired of trying to raising you into being a man.
"And I'm on to the next one...."
Good Luck,
Rachel
P.S. Thank you to all that offered support. These last few months have been very challenging to me and it very endearing to see that I have the support of strangers. For those of you that have met us, I apologize that you had to see this. This kind of behavior is not appropriate. We are not legally married, and he has been given the option many times to leave if he is so unhappy.
I look forward to seeing the replys on this!!! FYI, if you do catch me on AcuraZine in the future (as I prefer to spend my free time with my daughter and not the internet), you will find me under exjak. Have to upgrade to a more trusting man who doesn't mess with my phone!
And don't worry about me. I will be fine. It isn't the first time the man I relied on showed me that he was jealous.
Dear Jack,
This is your "gf" writing. Please note I am using this term loosely, because at the end of this letter, this will no longer be the case.
First of all, why are you putting our business on the internet? I have asked you and told you repeatedly that what happens to us is BETWEEN us. Clearly, your little plan to gain support backfired. Most of the people who commented on this thread AGREED WITH ME. The funny thing, is that they haven't even heard my side of the story.
So, since you insist on tracking me, I must insist on defending myself. Let's get a few things clear. When you are good, you are the greatest man I know. But ever since our child has been born, you have been nothing but a selfish idiot.
You are not the father of the year, so stop giving people the impression that you take care of her because I do all the work. She is 8 months old and I have been taking care of her ever since she was born. True, there was a month that you helped out because I called you a deadbeat dad, and you did take care of her after she was born because I had a C Section, but beyond that, the only time you take care of her is when you absolutely have to. Otherwise, you would rather pay for a sitter to do the job so you can spend your day online or working on your stupid car.
Which, incidentally, is under my name. Don't forget that.
Furthermore, the problem we have is not about the car. It is about your order of importance. Every time you have to take the car in for maintenance, I don't object. When you need to buy things that the car NEEDS, I don't object. But when you want to waste your money on frivolous items when you know we need to spend money on other things, LIKE YOUR CITIZENSHIP SO YOU CAN GET A DAMN JOB! then I have a problem. I think your peers would agree with me.
I love you more than any person I have ever loved in my life, but you are impossible to live with. I am working over 50 hours a week, I am taking 18 credits in school, and I am raising our daughter when I am not doing one or the other. All you do is work as a bouncer 3 nights a week. Dude, get real.
Why is it wrong that I want to do things on my own, without being followed? When did I become a bitch because I want a night off every once in awhile? Being in a relationship means sacrifice. Contrary to what you wrote, I am proficient with my cell phone, and did figure out what you did.
And, FYI, you are obligated to tell me what you are doing with your time and your money. I have a right to know where you are in case of emergency. Your "movements" as you call them are not what matters. What matters is that I know that you are safe and plan on coming home, because believe it or not I care about what happens to you. At least, I did.
In the end, I am sorry it came to this. I am sorry you felt that you had to talk to complete strangers about our problems instead of me. I am also sorry that this isn't going to work anymore, because I really do love you.
Perhaps next time you shouldn't leave AcuraZine on for me to view it.
Hopefully with the next girl, you will have learned your lesson because I am tired of trying to raising you into being a man.
"And I'm on to the next one...."
Good Luck,
Rachel
P.S. Thank you to all that offered support. These last few months have been very challenging to me and it very endearing to see that I have the support of strangers. For those of you that have met us, I apologize that you had to see this. This kind of behavior is not appropriate. We are not legally married, and he has been given the option many times to leave if he is so unhappy.
I look forward to seeing the replys on this!!! FYI, if you do catch me on AcuraZine in the future (as I prefer to spend my free time with my daughter and not the internet), you will find me under exjak. Have to upgrade to a more trusting man who doesn't mess with my phone!
And don't worry about me. I will be fine. It isn't the first time the man I relied on showed me that he was jealous.
