Would you forgive your wife or girlfriend if she insulted your mother????
08-25-2011, 12:34 PM
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09-01-2011, 01:39 PM
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09-01-2011, 08:00 PM
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This is the way I see it....
- You were having an argument. Stuff gets said in an argument and while some of it may be true it is good if you can try not to hold it against each other.
- She apologized to your mom. Has she apologized to you?
- You stated that she has anger issues. You need to decide if this is someone you want to share your life with. Anger and passion does not always have to go hand in hand.
09-01-2011, 09:30 PM
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09-02-2011, 05:42 AM
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Trust me I wanted to.
I'm still with her for 3 years.
I usually don't tolerate it and she knows she was wrong. She was "annoyed" because I tend to 'talk to much' about it.
I ended it actually right there and then, but she apologized over and over. I just looked at the situation and told myself I didn't need anymore stress. So far we've been doing good minus the part I'm short 10 grand or so because of her, but she's paying that back to me slowly.
Bad thing is, I'm starting to like Blonde girls, but she is a brunette.
I'm still with her for 3 years.
I usually don't tolerate it and she knows she was wrong. She was "annoyed" because I tend to 'talk to much' about it.
I ended it actually right there and then, but she apologized over and over. I just looked at the situation and told myself I didn't need anymore stress. So far we've been doing good minus the part I'm short 10 grand or so because of her, but she's paying that back to me slowly.
Bad thing is, I'm starting to like Blonde girls, but she is a brunette.
09-02-2011, 10:20 AM
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nudez bro? 
09-06-2011, 04:50 AM
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^^^concur wholeheartedly.
In reference to OP question, would depend on circumstance. My Mom isn't absolved just because she's my Mom...she does stuff and says things she shouldn't...as does everyone. That said, I'd have a hard time dating a girl that was hot headed enough to just snap at her and skip the whole respect for my mother thing.
In reference to OP question, would depend on circumstance. My Mom isn't absolved just because she's my Mom...she does stuff and says things she shouldn't...as does everyone. That said, I'd have a hard time dating a girl that was hot headed enough to just snap at her and skip the whole respect for my mother thing.
When my wife's Mom gets mad me, I just listen and take her advice and change my behavior accordingly. Funny thing happened, Mom in law no longer gets mad because she knows I respect her. She lives with me and my wife
09-14-2011, 09:00 AM
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No way my wife would ever disrespect her like that as it means she is disrespecting me. Best thing for OP g/f to do is just be quiet and discuss it later with him. That demonstrates love for OP and a maturity level that indicates she is a keeper.
When my wife's Mom gets mad me, I just listen and take her advice and change my behavior accordingly. Funny thing happened, Mom in law no longer gets mad because she knows I respect her. She lives with me and my wife
When my wife's Mom gets mad me, I just listen and take her advice and change my behavior accordingly. Funny thing happened, Mom in law no longer gets mad because she knows I respect her. She lives with me and my wife
Never in a million years. The only way I could do it is with MIL quarters on another part of the property with daily visits by a house keeper and/or nurse.Since I'm not made of money, looks like that idea is out the window.
If my wife insulted my mother, but apologized; I could forgive her.
09-14-2011, 12:50 PM
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My wife and my mother don't speak much, mostly as a result of my mother sticking her nose in where it doesn't belong, sending unwanted e-mails after being politely asked multiple times not to, and other such transgressions.
Her relationship with my mother is not her relationship with me, though. I figure they're grown women and if they really wanted to get along well they would both put the effort into it.
Her relationship with my mother is not her relationship with me, though. I figure they're grown women and if they really wanted to get along well they would both put the effort into it.
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