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Old 04-18-2005, 09:26 AM
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Would you ever have a "casual encounter"?

So since I don't have much to do during the day at work, I spend a lot of time browsing craigslist. I finally got up the nerve this morning to open the "casual encounters" section* and now I wonder, who actually answers these ads? Would you? It seems very imprudent to hook up with someone you don't know, and have only contacted for 5 mins via the internet, in order to have sex or get a BJ.

*BTW one of the ads that I read had a picture of the dude's cack in it... will my IT guys see that and crack down on me for reading porn? I truly wasn't expecting it or intending to see such a picture.
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Scott not keeping you happy

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No, actually, he's not.
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As far as your IT staff, they probably won't see it come up as pr0n since it was not on a register pr0n site.

As far as casual encounters go, never done it. I can't get myself in a grocery store, let alone meet people.
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what's a craigslist?
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Reading those posts can be great for one's fantasy life, but the risks of acting out on it are pretty daunting. My days of one-night stands and casual encounters are behind me, and I'm not exactly sorry for the "loss". Casual encounters are just that.
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You are now on the IT's cack watch list
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Yeah you have to watch out that you don't end up getting chopped up and put in a freezer.

I'm sure you have many male friends that you know that wouldn't mind a casual encounter

It's so easy for a woman. Take guy out for drink. Tell him to go back to your place. Casual Encounter happens.

A guy tries that and end up getting fired from work. So unfair.
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Most of the ads I've seen like that are call girls or gays. Both shouldnt be surprising.
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BTW I just want to note that I wasn't reading the ads in order to find myself a CE. I was just looking to see what they say. Curiosity, etc.

I may be pissed at scott, but I'm not going to cheat on him. Yet. :evil:
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Hmm, since we know all about this relationship is there a running thread on this fight I'm missing?
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Am I the only one that is surprised Caliadria isnt banned yet
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Why would I be banned?
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Originally Posted by fdl
Am I the only one that is surprised Caliadria isnt banned yet
Are you referring to banning her?
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What's going on? Why would Scott ban her?
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
Why would I be banned?
If I was fighting with my GF and she was posting about it on here I would ban her ass. But thats just me
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eh, it's my fault. I've got no problems with it. I'm an idiot most of the time
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I'm not saying she should be banned, I'm just saying if I was in Scotts shoes I would ban her. But I'm a prick.
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Originally Posted by fdl
I'm not saying she should be banned, I'm just saying if I was in Scotts shoes I would ban her. But I'm a prick.

being a prick is what got me in this situation
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What did I say? All I said was that he's not doing it for me these days, but I'm not going to cheat on him. I have given no true indication that there even IS a fight. I, for one, am not fighting. I have given up on fighting, because it does no good. That is all I will say.

If you would ban me for saying I wouldn't cheat on you, then you really are a prick, fdl.

Uh oh, does this mean you're going to ban me now?
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Fight?
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I've had semi-casual encounters where I met the person and only knew them for a few hours beforehand, but at least we talked. I would only do non-penetrative sex though. But those days are behind me. I never want to do it again. I felt dirty.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria

Uh oh, does this mean you're going to ban me now?


Unless there is a casual encounter in it for me.
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Ewww... no way.
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i would depending on if i knew for sure its a she and not some gay dude or im not gonna get mugged etc.. and shes clean
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I once replied to an ad on Craigslist and went so far as to go to the meeting place. After sitting there in the motel parking lot for 2 hours I realized I had replied to my own ad and had arranged to meet myself, with myself. It was a little confusing at first, but the place had one of those beds that you put quarters in and skanky pay per view movies so it all worked out in the end and we had a blast.
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I have casual encounter 2-3 times a week. But meeting people on the net is a no no for me.
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
i would depending on if i knew for sure its a she and not some gay dude or im not gonna get mugged etc.. and shes clean
95% of gay dudes don't dress like women. And the ones that do are probably trannies . I met a straight tranny once. She said that she was a lesbian because she liked women
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Originally Posted by youngTL
95% of gay dudes don't dress like women. And the ones that do are probably trannies . I met a straight tranny once. She said that she was a lesbian because she liked women

the majority of cross dressers are straight
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Originally Posted by CLpower
the majority of cross dressers are straight
Does that explain your pink shirt post
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
I have casual encounter 2-3 times a week. But meeting people on the net is a no no for me.
2 0r 3 new encounters a week, damn mang!
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Originally Posted by agui
2 0r 3 new encounters a week, damn mang!

you believe him?
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Originally Posted by youngTL
95% of gay dudes don't dress like women. And the ones that do are probably trannies . I met a straight tranny once. She said that she was a lesbian because she liked women

What a confused person... that's REALLY wanting to be controversial. lol
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Originally Posted by agui
2 0r 3 new encounters a week, damn mang!
Its actually 3 if Im lucky....but Friday and Saturday nights are my casual encounter days
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Originally Posted by CLpower
you believe him?
Hey....Im not getting married, and I though 2-3 was kinda low considering that Im in med school. Plus this is the net, believe what you want it makes no difference to me....So I should also add that I drive a Bentley GT on the weekend in the Hamptons, and currently in the process of hooking up with Jennifer Aniston in LA this weekend.
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
So I should also add that I drive a Bentley GT on the weekend in the Hamptons, and currently in the process of hooking up with Jennifer Aniston in LA this weekend.
That bitch said she was going to her mother's house this weekend!!


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