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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 01:49 AM
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Would this be a stalker move?

Alright .. there's this girl I wanted to hook up with, but it's been quite a long while since we've talked. Say about a year and a half. It's rather hard to reach her because she never comes online and her place is pretty much in the mountains where phone reception is near impossible. I haven't seen her in over a year, but I do know where she lives. She doesn't know that I know, however. What do you guys think, would it creep her out if I just all of a sudden showed up at her door? I'm thinking yes it would, but it doesn't really look like I have any other choice of re-establishing communication.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 02:22 AM
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that is weird.

Email her or send a letter, better yet just move on.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 05:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
that is weird.

Email her or send a letter, better yet just move on.

It's like the blind leading the blind in here... Need I remind you of how you pursued your girl on this board??? I guess it worked though...

Back on topic, yes, very weird. BTW, how do you know her address, but she doesn't know you know?
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 06:54 AM
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If your asking yourself if its stalkerish, then it probably is. Then again maybe she wants to be chased through the mountains... you could fake being a pizza delivery guy or something.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted by te3point5
It's like the blind leading the blind in here... Need I remind you of how you pursued your girl on this board??? I guess it worked though...




Oh you mean cuz i always made comments towards her on the forum? I was never serious with those... and thats not how we started talking.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 07:59 AM
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Don't just show up. Send her a Christmas card and write a "Hi, How are you, Would love to see ya" kind of message inside. Although I am not sure how you know where she lives but she doesn't know that you know.....
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Loopa
Don't just show up. Send her a Christmas card and write a "Hi, How are you, Would love to see ya" kind of message inside. Although I am not sure how you know where she lives but she doesn't know that you know.....
That's a good idea


As to the second part of your reply, I think it comes from being a stalker
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 09:36 AM
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Of course don't just show up. An email or card would be a good start. Put your number in and go from there...don't worry about her not knowing you are aware of her location just be subtle and if you don't get a reply, move on...
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 09:57 AM
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I agree. In this situation e-mail or US Mail is better than showing up unannounced.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by jlukja
I agree. In this situation e-mail or US Mail is better than showing up unannounced.

all I can picture is the movie "Oldschool" I'm here for the gangbang
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 12:17 PM
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^^

I sent her an email, I guess I should be expecting a response in about 2 weeks. Might be better to move on, but ya never know.

Oh yeah .. I have access to an Alaskan database. That and Google Maps.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 12:21 PM
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hmmm she lives in the woods , in Alaska eh ?

sound dangerous, they migt mistake you as an animal and shoot you
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by huckleberry
hmmm she lives in the woods , in Alaska eh ?

sound dangerous, they migt mistake you as an animal and shoot you
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Tireguy
If your asking yourself if its stalkerish, then it probably is.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 01:54 PM
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Stopping by = stalker

A year and a half since you've talked to her and you're just now looking her up? My is just to "move on" man.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 02:26 PM
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^^ Your probably right, but its worth sending a card or something just to see, you never know.
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 02:30 PM
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Man pickings must be real slim up in AK to be holding on to a year and a half memory of a chick.

Go for it, probably the only chance you will have
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Old Nov 28, 2005 | 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by 95gt
Man pickings must be real slim up in AK to be holding on to a year and a half memory of a chick.


It seems that way huh? No worries, there's another chick .. although she's taken by some deadbeat college dropout. No idea why she's interested in him. Sucks to see a good girl with someone like him.
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