Why I am single: A guide for all your daters out there.
03-21-2007, 12:37 PM
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Living in south FL I can say I'm single for 1 reason. Most woman are whores down here.
I've gone out numerous times with friends & the woman have been all over different guys, all over each other, or hung up on $ & looks. It's damn hard to find a nice woman for a serious relationship that isn't so willing to "hook up" I'm not interested in that these days.
And these woman are woman, late 20's & still acting this way. I know woman in their mid 30's that act like this still.
It might be great & fun to see woman kissing & all into each other, but when you think they are into you, then they go off & do that, or worse go do it to some other guy, that's tough to think "yeah I can see myself in a long relationship with this woman"
I've been to all types of clubs & bars in all areas & it's all the same.
I don't drink so maybe that has a role since I see clearer.
I've gone out numerous times with friends & the woman have been all over different guys, all over each other, or hung up on $ & looks. It's damn hard to find a nice woman for a serious relationship that isn't so willing to "hook up" I'm not interested in that these days.
And these woman are woman, late 20's & still acting this way. I know woman in their mid 30's that act like this still.
It might be great & fun to see woman kissing & all into each other, but when you think they are into you, then they go off & do that, or worse go do it to some other guy, that's tough to think "yeah I can see myself in a long relationship with this woman"
I've been to all types of clubs & bars in all areas & it's all the same.
I don't drink so maybe that has a role since I see clearer.
03-21-2007, 12:55 PM
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women today especially in the 20's and early 30's are the new bachelors. they just want to hook up, play men, and have fun.
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
03-21-2007, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by michimonster
women today especially in the 20's and early 30's are the new bachelors. they just want to hook up, play men, and have fun.
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
03-21-2007, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by michimonster
women today especially in the 20's and early 30's are the new bachelors. they just want to hook up, play men, and have fun.
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
03-21-2007, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted by michimonster
women today especially in the 20's and early 30's are the new bachelors. they just want to hook up, play men, and have fun.
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
well not me, but plenty of my cum dumpster friends
at cum dumpster comment.
03-21-2007, 11:13 PM
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I'm single because
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
03-23-2007, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted by kwelity
That is the biggest crock of crap I have ever read in my entire life. Individuals will choose their own path and their parents are not a direct reflection of what they will become or who they are. That is one of the dumbest statements I have read in quite some time..... 
I am NOTHING like my parents (well, my Dad died when I was very young) but my mother was very self-destructive and I am pretty much the opposite of that. So you are wrong and right. Some do and some don't.
03-23-2007, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted by ChrisQ1980
I'm single because
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
03-23-2007, 05:06 PM
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From experience and observation I agree with Eclipse here. I'm not trying to get into a war with people who don't agree with him, I just wanted to go on record as saying he's right.
03-24-2007, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted by ChrisQ1980
I'm single because
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
1) All women are whores except your mother and sister.
(Trust me, being 26 and flirting with a happily married women in her 40's then makes her want to have a secret fling because she's getting attention after 20 years of the same shit)
2) Nobody tells me what to do, when I can do it, who I can do it with.
3) There are too many out there to settle for just one. (Imagine driving the same car the rest of your life)
4) I'm an asshole that lies to get what I want. They don't deserve to be with someone like me if it's a relationship they want.
5) I had a great girl once, I blew it and she's moved on. She's the only one I'd date/marry and the chances of that are slim.
03-24-2007, 11:35 AM
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first off why is it a crime to be single? everyone thinks oh crap I'm such and such age I need to get serious. Who cares what everyone else is doing? what's the right time for someone could be the wrong time for you.
I laugh when I see people getting married mainly because their friends are doing it. They end up miserable and wish they were single again. It's the most important desicision of your life there's no rush. Date if you want to find someone, but don't be like settling for whatever. Being a little picky is sometimes a good thing.
I laugh when I see people getting married mainly because their friends are doing it. They end up miserable and wish they were single again. It's the most important desicision of your life there's no rush. Date if you want to find someone, but don't be like settling for whatever. Being a little picky is sometimes a good thing.
03-24-2007, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by CLsuperhero
first off why is it a crime to be single? everyone thinks oh crap I'm such and such age I need to get serious. Who cares what everyone else is doing? what's the right time for someone could be the wrong time for you.
I laugh when I see people getting married mainly because their friends are doing it. They end up miserable and wish they were single again. It's the most important desicision of your life there's no rush. Date if you want to find someone, but don't be like settling for whatever. Being a little picky is sometimes a good thing.
I laugh when I see people getting married mainly because their friends are doing it. They end up miserable and wish they were single again. It's the most important desicision of your life there's no rush. Date if you want to find someone, but don't be like settling for whatever. Being a little picky is sometimes a good thing.
03-24-2007, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted by eclipse23
You really hit the nail on the head with that post. Breaking up after nine years is like watching a nuclear blast from 5 miles away. You see the explosion and are dazzled by the lights but then the shockwave hits. 
Truth is we were in two different places emotionally and relationship wise. I honestly don't think I could put up with the situation for years to come I simply pictured myself an angry man who at one point would be regretting his decisions.
Truth is we were in two different places emotionally and relationship wise. I honestly don't think I could put up with the situation for years to come I simply pictured myself an angry man who at one point would be regretting his decisions.
Human needs to learn and grow, 9 years ago she might have been a girl who had potentials but now she's just a girl who's out of reach and isn't compatible with you. I say it's better it happened now than another 9 years down the road...
03-24-2007, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted by michimonster
key word here :girl
Yes, not all girls grow up to be women just like not all boys grow up to be men.
03-26-2007, 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted by driver centric
You assume everyone who wants to be in a serious relationship or get married only wants to do so because everyone else is doing it. What about people who want to settle down and have a committed relationship because it's what feels right to them?
CLsuperhero, the group of people that marry because their friends are doing it is what percentage of all marriages?
03-26-2007, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Python2121
Why I am single:
1) Too afraid of rejection
2) Surrounded by stuck up girls who only date frat-boys
1) Too afraid of rejection
2) Surrounded by stuck up girls who only date frat-boys
Ever thought about joining a frat?
03-26-2007, 01:32 PM
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The single reason why I'm single.
All the girls in this state are taken. And if they're not taken, they're hung up on an ex. Never-ending cycle.
Everybody here cheats on everyone anyway. No way in hell I'm getting mixed up in that again.
All the girls in this state are taken. And if they're not taken, they're hung up on an ex. Never-ending cycle.
Everybody here cheats on everyone anyway. No way in hell I'm getting mixed up in that again.
03-26-2007, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted by soopa
Ernie, I think your relationship was over at least 5 years ago. Or, the 17th time you two broke up.
Glad to hear youre finally moving on.
Glad to hear youre finally moving on.
Thanks man, I've burned the bridges behind me and haven't been this happy in a very long time.
03-26-2007, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
The single reason why I'm single.
All the girls in this state are taken. And if they're not taken, they're hung up on an ex. Never-ending cycle.
Everybody here cheats on everyone anyway. No way in hell I'm getting mixed up in that again.
All the girls in this state are taken. And if they're not taken, they're hung up on an ex. Never-ending cycle.
Everybody here cheats on everyone anyway. No way in hell I'm getting mixed up in that again.
03-26-2007, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted by '03TL-S
and how do you expect to find a good one there, or are you just looking for one-night stands and prostitutes?
And I know the topic of this thread, but who said I was going to Vegas for the girls?
03-26-2007, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
I sure hope you get over your bitterness soon. You are young. Trust me, they are not all whores...
I'm no whore!What a bitter soul.
03-28-2007, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by eclipse23
Guys,
Look at your girlfriend’s mother and you’ll see what you are getting in 40 years.
Oh boy, where to start on this one… My ex’s mother retired at 63 and decided that sitting in her room all day, every day doing the minimum she had to do to get through a day was going to be her career till the day she died. The times that I did come up to say hi her mother would be in pajamas shuffling around the house playing with the cats. I swear to god I’d wake up at 3am some nights and just think how I’d be soo miserable if my g/f followed the same path. I noticed that every time my g/f was having bad day or if I was not around she’d go to bed and sleep for a hour. Hmmm, too much sleep….she’s turning into her mother…..
Lesson learned: Daughters and sons will most likely turn into some manifestation of their mother or father. If the parents are dysfunctional, lazy, or raised their kids with shitty values watch out!
Look at your girlfriend’s mother and you’ll see what you are getting in 40 years.
Oh boy, where to start on this one… My ex’s mother retired at 63 and decided that sitting in her room all day, every day doing the minimum she had to do to get through a day was going to be her career till the day she died. The times that I did come up to say hi her mother would be in pajamas shuffling around the house playing with the cats. I swear to god I’d wake up at 3am some nights and just think how I’d be soo miserable if my g/f followed the same path. I noticed that every time my g/f was having bad day or if I was not around she’d go to bed and sleep for a hour. Hmmm, too much sleep….she’s turning into her mother…..
Lesson learned: Daughters and sons will most likely turn into some manifestation of their mother or father. If the parents are dysfunctional, lazy, or raised their kids with shitty values watch out!
My GF is adopted....I'll never know!!!!
03-29-2007, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted by nsxiballer
everyday, i wonder why i'm still single...... All the good girls are taken.
03-29-2007, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted by saiko_cl_duck
hey, you're only 21, you have plenty of time to find a woman, as in the rest of your life. I don't believe in having to find love at a young age. It comes to you when it comes to you, the worst thing you can do is rush it or force it.
If I could go back in time....the first thing I would change is that I wish i was single from 21-25....what a waste, it wasn't worth it!
03-29-2007, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
LISTEN TO THIS MAN!!!
If I could go back in time....the first thing I would change is that I wish i was single from 21-25....what a waste, it wasn't worth it!
If I could go back in time....the first thing I would change is that I wish i was single from 21-25....what a waste, it wasn't worth it!
03-30-2007, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by nsxiballer
What would you have done when you were single from 21-25? Having a gf has pros and cons. Why do you regret it?
04-06-2007, 03:55 PM
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Interesting read. Gf broke up w/ me recently. All these words about marriage and kids are on my mind every once in awhile. She was my 1st gf, we were together for 3 yrs....i will wait till June 07 when she graduate and see if her decision is still the same. If it's still the same.....I guess there will be light @ the end of the tunnel. Family do impact how you are as a person. Now I just chill w/ old friends that I lost touch with since I had a gf. Play games and enjoy visiting the forum. 
Those dark nights do come every so often though.....But yea, 9 yrs....wow!!
Those dark nights do come every so often though.....But yea, 9 yrs....wow!!
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