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Old 12-20-2004, 10:57 PM
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Why the hell do spermicidal condoms dry out?

So I got some normal trojan spermicidal condoms, and after about 10 min going at it, the damn condom when switching positions is dried out completely, where the condom is skin tight on me where if i was to go something would prob fuck up, and i know that my girl isnt dry, so i dont know wtf the problem is, any ideas?

Im tired of taking off the dried one to put on a new one to keep going
Old 12-20-2004, 11:08 PM
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IBTM to Dating & Relationships.

I don't know the answer to your question, but it would be a great idea to get your girl on the pill. Less hassle (as long as she remembers to take it) and it feels 100X better than with a condom.
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Old 12-20-2004, 11:11 PM
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throw that patch on her mang
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Any advice on how to broach the subject of getting her on da pill?

Last time I tried she was like, I'll do it when I lose some weight... she didn't want to go to the doctor while she's "overweight"... She's lost da weight now...
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^^Another new name jatt?
Old 12-20-2004, 11:20 PM
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i didn't ask for this change... astro did it...
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It shouldn't be too hard getting her on the pill...most girls appreciate it because they will know when their period is coming, and not be freaking out about it. Plus your boobs get bigger, and sex feels so much better. One of the downsides is possible weight gain, which wasn't a big deal for me because I am pretty skinny to begin with.
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cant get in her on the pill because her mother would know, and it just wont work out, im looking to find an answer to my question to see if im not the only one witnessing it.
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im just wondering if its typical for spermicidal condoms to end up drying out, because ive used about 20 in the pack and it happens every time.

it looks like the damn thing is gonna break and the resevoir tip is no longer there, its pushed in.
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How are you tearing the condom container? Maybe you're accidentally ripping them as you tear the packet apart.
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some people are allergic to the spermacide stuff. I have never had a problem like that. She might just not take to well to the spermacide stuff. I suggest finding non spermacidal kind, and just some pre lubed ones.

all these people who say "well just put her on b/c" are the lucky ones. I thought that worked too... till I got a girl pregnant while she was on depo provera, adn that's a shot, not a pill, so she couldn't have forgotten it.
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Originally Posted by Renegade
im just wondering if its typical for spermicidal condoms to end up drying out, because ive used about 20 in the pack and it happens every time.

it looks like the damn thing is gonna break and the resevoir tip is no longer there, its pushed in.
"spermicidal" doesn't mean its gonna kill ALL the sperm anyways. Just be careful, and pray it doesn't break.
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those are the worst. i've had them dry out too, and the spermicide gets a nasty funky smell too. just use the regulars, they work just fine.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
those are the worst. i've had them dry out too, and the spermicide gets a nasty funky smell too. just use the regulars, they work just fine.
okay good so im not crazy
Old 12-21-2004, 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Renegade
okay good so im not crazy

That's why they sell teh KY.......
Old 12-21-2004, 12:43 AM
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so anyone wanna suggest a good condom that doesnt dry out and is safe?
Old 12-21-2004, 01:15 AM
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any kind of trojan really is what i use...try ultra ribbed for her...warm sensations suck they dont get hot at all...shared sensation ( i think the green pack) is good...doesn't really feel different...or you could just get the normal lubricated ones or the ultra thin ones..
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the trojan twister things. those are cool. or ultrathin. or ribbed.

but make sure your girl is ok with ribbed, they hurt some girls.
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Here's a tip, don't use condoms you bought when you were 12 just hoping for the day you'd get laid. After about awhile condoms go bad, especially if you keep them in places like your car; Gets Uber hot, wallet/back pocket ; friction causes condom to break, package to open and dry out and contaminates and pretty sure girls don't like lint in their downstairs.
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thanks for the hint, but i didnt have condoms when I was 12, they are less than 2 months old
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Trojan ® Magnum® XL Extra Large Condoms
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This will help
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dude if its ur girl, dont even bother w/ the condom... just use the pull out method
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Originally Posted by CLean B
dude if its ur girl, dont even bother w/ the condom... just use the pull out method
i hope that was a joke.
Old 12-30-2004, 01:08 AM
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appreciated.
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hmmm, I use spermicidally lubricated ones and remember it used to dry out (trying to think of why and can't really attribute it to anything)... however in the last couple months there has been no dry out problems . I guess you could try K-Y or some other lubricant, but hell that's just annoying... so is switching condoms because one dries out. I tried the regular ones and it felt decent. Tried ribbed ones and got so didn't go back to that. Now it's "Her Pleasure" Trojans and they seem to be doing the trick, feeling was increased on my end too. I feel you on the doesn't want do birth control dilemma... yet I can't seem to forget how dam good condom-less sex feels AHHH lol
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Originally Posted by Renegade
so anyone wanna suggest a good condom that doesnt dry out and is safe?
my girl loves the Trojan pleasure mesh ... they are in the variety pack ... that is what i normally get .. it comes with pleasure mesh, for her, and something like ulta ... but have like 20 of the for her and the ultras ... cuz i like usin the pleasure mesh ... so just try them all and see which your girl likes better ... cuz it basically all feels the same for me
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No prob. sometimes they give a boxes
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hey, kinda random question, but since were on the condom thing. after sex when I take off the condome there is always an imprint at the base of my dick from the top of the condome being too tight. is this normal, or should I size up from the condoms 'm using now? Do they make anything bigger than trojan magnums?
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Originally Posted by CLean B
dude if its ur girl, dont even bother w/ the condom... just use the pull out method
you are kidding right ?

btw i use the spermicidal condoom as well, but never had that issue of it drying out
Not enough foreplay i guess ??
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Originally Posted by ghost_masterCL
hey, kinda random question, but since were on the condom thing. after sex when I take off the condome there is always an imprint at the base of my dick from the top of the condome being too tight. is this normal, or should I size up from the condoms 'm using now? Do they make anything bigger than trojan magnums?

iirc there's Magnum XL... the imprint does get annoying
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