Why do women think a key is an invitation for them to move in ?
07-12-2005 | 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
I'm not a proponent of either view. I'm just stating the research. I think we can both agree that it always depends on the 2 people, but it's interesting to see what studies are out there to understand what affects other people. I do think that the most important factor is the reason why you decided to live together. Convenience, delay tactics, and financial reasons are obviously bad ones.
yea, i just sent an email to my professors, gonna see if any of their research is online so I can post it up as well
also, the first study you posted is rather amusing. So basically the only marriages that "last" are those that are virgins who share w/ each other their dreams but don't get into any real relationship situations (I.E. money talks, each others duties; which are the two biggest causes of divorce).
07-12-2005 | 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
Hey, it seems like we're two peas in a pod. We don't really want to womanize, we want to meet a girl who can be our equals and beat us at our own games. Call it immaturity, call it whatever you want but it's true. A lot of guys who play the game is looking for a girl who can put a stop to it. I just hope for all guys everywhere that your girl was able to slow you down and FORCE you to grow up and man up. I'm still looking for that sort of woman.
07-12-2005 | 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted by SDCGTSX
Hey, it seems like we're two peas in a pod. We don't really want to womanize, we want to meet a girl who can be our equals and beat us at our own games. Call it immaturity, call it whatever you want but it's true. A lot of guys who play the game is looking for a girl who can put a stop to it. I just hope for all guys everywhere that your girl was able to slow you down and FORCE you to grow up and man up. .
But I can atleast say if the guys I've dealt with didn't grow up, they are atleast screwed up in the head for awhile
07-12-2005 | 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
Yeah I've tried to do that.. and people wonder why I'm psycho now...
But I can atleast say if the guys I've dealt with didn't grow up, they are atleast screwed up in the head for awhile
But I can atleast say if the guys I've dealt with didn't grow up, they are atleast screwed up in the head for awhile
07-12-2005 | 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
really? ive been living together with joe for about 3 years now and were great.
Why aren't you married yet? 3 years and no ring? I'm sure you are a great woman...but at the same time it seems he doesn't appreciate you and is unwilling to commit. Unsure of himself and what he really wants - do you really want a wishy-washy man lik that? Is this really what you wnat out of life??? A man who can't commit to you? What about your desires for a family and somebody to settle down with...he's just keeping the cow for free. Dump his ass.
You deserve somebody who is willing to commit to you and give you the life you deserve.
When you decide give me a call because I will take care of you like he never will.
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07-13-2005 | 07:00 AM
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Originally Posted by spidey07
Really?
Why aren't you married yet? 3 years and no ring? I'm sure you are a great woman...but at the same time it seems he doesn't appreciate you and is unwilling to commit. Unsure of himself and what he really wants - do you really want a wishy-washy man lik that? Is this really what you wnat out of life??? A man who can't commit to you? What about your desires for a family and somebody to settle down with...he's just keeping the cow for free. Dump his ass.
You deserve somebody who is willing to commit to you and give you the life you deserve.
When you decide give me a call because I will take care of you like he never will.
Why aren't you married yet? 3 years and no ring? I'm sure you are a great woman...but at the same time it seems he doesn't appreciate you and is unwilling to commit. Unsure of himself and what he really wants - do you really want a wishy-washy man lik that? Is this really what you wnat out of life??? A man who can't commit to you? What about your desires for a family and somebody to settle down with...he's just keeping the cow for free. Dump his ass.
You deserve somebody who is willing to commit to you and give you the life you deserve.
When you decide give me a call because I will take care of you like he never will.
i'm sorry, but that's just plane fucking retarded. there can be many many reasons he hasn't proposed yet and i'm sure none of them are he's unwilling to commit. Hell he's basically already committed he's living w/ her!!!!
Take it from someone who was accused by many of doing that and who has friends who aer in the situation. It most likely has NOTHING to do w/ that.
Now sure, there are probably some statistics out there that will support your comment, but there also are statistics that says cocaine will kill you, yet the chances of you going out and doing it and dieing are slim
07-13-2005 | 08:48 PM
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I have a good friend 26 now, lived with his Gf from 23-25, and I think he lost it. He moved back home with his rents for a while. I would rather live at home also. His house had so many nicknacks and BS i would have killed myself. I couldn't even tell he lived there.
I'm moving into NYC soon. I pray to god I don't meet some whore that thinks she can camp out at my place. I'm scared to even tell some of these crazy bitches where I live.
I'm moving into NYC soon. I pray to god I don't meet some whore that thinks she can camp out at my place. I'm scared to even tell some of these crazy bitches where I live.
07-13-2005 | 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
So...We all know what happened with me, and right now I'm pretty much 
but why is it that because I gave her a key, is it necessary for her to move her shit in my place. I feel like shes softening the blow, for when shes wants to have the "I think we should move in" conversation. Relationships where partners live together do not work out. Anyways...I think Im just a little mad because she moved my speakers. 
but why is it that because I gave her a key, is it necessary for her to move her shit in my place. I feel like shes softening the blow, for when shes wants to have the "I think we should move in" conversation. Relationships where partners live together do not work out. Anyways...I think Im just a little mad because she moved my speakers.
07-13-2005 | 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Don't you think she is leaving some stuff in your place out of convenience? If she sleeps at your place about 3x week, it's only practical to have toiletries and fresh clothes at hand.
07-13-2005 | 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Chopper
Quit giving out your keys dipshit, and you won;t have this problem.
07-13-2005 | 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Well...You need to give me back the key I gave you damn it. Im getting tired of bitches coming to my place looking for you.
07-14-2005 | 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
the fucked up thing is she is trying to out me and she actually has me saving the lint for her 
Xeno - the instant you gave her the key, you gave her free reign to take over your place. Little by little, it will turn into the collective "your" place. Then it will be her place where she allows you to keep a few of your possessions
Good luck.
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