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Old 06-16-2005 | 03:48 PM
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Why can't women just be honest

It is so funny that women can not be honest about what they do. I can not stand the games....


Old 06-16-2005 | 03:52 PM
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*sigh* what happened now.

Why can't people stop blaming the irrationality of one chick on the entire female gender? That's what I'd like to know.
Old 06-16-2005 | 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Caliadria

Why can't people stop blaming the irrationality of one chick on the entire female gender? That's what I'd like to know.

Same reason every female thinks every male is an asshole(even if its true, who are they to judge?)
Old 06-16-2005 | 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
*sigh* what happened now.

Why can't people stop blaming the irrationality of one chick on the entire female gender? That's what I'd like to know.
It sure would be a lot easier if they were all the same But at the same time, not as fun.
Old 06-16-2005 | 04:07 PM
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Let's get one thing straight: For the most part, PEOPLE can't be honest about what they want.
Old 06-16-2005 | 04:10 PM
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Maybe it isn't that people can't be honest about they want, it is the fact they truly don't know what they want.
Old 06-16-2005 | 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by anothercls
Maybe it isn't that people can't be honest about they want, it is the fact they truly don't know what they want.
Or that some people just want and that's it.
Old 06-16-2005 | 05:25 PM
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your 31 and still have not figured out that this is a game?

if your questioning trust with a woman you are dating, then the answer should be very clear to you...

Trust is very important... without it.. you have NOTHING...

Do NOT lie to yourself and look past the small issues that you do NOT like about her... the issues all build up in your mind and will cause you to be a fruit basket...

move on..
Old 06-16-2005 | 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Tireguy
Same reason every female thinks every male is an asshole(even if its true, who are they to judge?)

x99339593590

This girl name Nina I liked back in highschool started to talk to me again. After breaking up with her bf now she says she can't trust guys.
Old 06-16-2005 | 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
Let's get one thing straight: For the most part, PEOPLE can't be honest about what they want.
Preach on...
Old 06-16-2005 | 10:19 PM
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Blame it on Eve. That biotch!
Old 06-17-2005 | 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted by anothercls
Maybe it isn't that people can't be honest about they want, it is the fact they truly don't know what they want.

PRECISELY. most folks never really understand what they want out of life or relationships...because they don't know themselves enough to know what will make them happy?
Old 06-17-2005 | 08:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
*sigh* what happened now.

Why can't people stop blaming the irrationality of one chick on the entire female gender? That's what I'd like to know.
problem is it isn't just one chick. Its every single one of them. Sure there are a few out there that aren't insane and if I find her I'll marry her. But in my 34 years I've only met one that wasn't a freakin' drama queen psycho.
Old 06-17-2005 | 08:48 AM
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Yeh. But, honestly, women ain't the only gender that lies.
Old 06-17-2005 | 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
PRECISELY. most folks never really understand what they want out of life or relationships...because they don't know themselves enough to know what will make them happy?

Absolutely, I have spent countless hours trying to figure out what I like and don't like, but then I meet someone with a combination of things I hate and like and they have something I never thought about. I don't think it is something anyone will ever know, so just have fun and get to know as many people as possible. Somewhere we might find what we want...
Old 06-17-2005 | 08:56 AM
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Or that some people just want and that's it.

Honesty might just work, sometimes it's appreciated by both people.
Old 06-17-2005 | 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by txathlete
Blame it on Eve. That biotch!
Hey hey hey, easy there...
Old 06-17-2005 | 09:44 AM
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^^ I was waiting for her response

Old 06-17-2005 | 06:10 PM
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^^^ hahaha. I didn't realize we had an Eve on here. But I was meaning Eve in the Biblical sense.
Old 06-17-2005 | 06:35 PM
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Old 06-17-2005 | 07:02 PM
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bah women are lying bitches. end of story.
Old 06-18-2005 | 01:32 AM
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I think everyone lies here and there... its YOU who has to get good at catching them
Old 06-18-2005 | 04:28 AM
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^^ that is the truest statement of all. i beleive that 100%
Old 06-19-2005 | 04:31 AM
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my whole point was lying for no reason at all. when you are given the chance to be honest and you still lie. but you know the saying " WHAT IS DONE IN THE DARK WILL ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT" !!!

Kepping it real!!!!!
Old 06-20-2005 | 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by HoldOn
my whole point was lying for no reason at all. when you are given the chance to be honest and you still lie. but you know the saying " WHAT IS DONE IN THE DARK WILL ALWAYS COME TO THE LIGHT" !!!

Kepping it real!!!!!
I think that there might be something deeper here going on...like she doesn't have the same feelings anymore...that ever occur to you? And I'm sure you aren't PRESSURING! her or anything like that???
Old 06-20-2005 | 09:50 PM
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Maybe it doesn't have anything to do with anyone else...and maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings after seeing you try so hard. Even if she were telling you the truth..maybe you just can't except and you expect her to lie to you? whether she is or not? Some people only hear what they want and not what's really there!
Old 06-20-2005 | 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
Some people only hear what they want and not what's really there!
Thats what my Mom tells me
Old 06-21-2005 | 11:18 AM
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Because all women are whores except our mothers?
Old 06-21-2005 | 01:22 PM
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Because all women are whores except our mothers?
what the hell ever! that's like saying all men are lying cheating dogs??
Old 06-21-2005 | 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Waddy
Because all women are whores except our mothers?
its friggin beautiful!
Old 06-21-2005 | 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
what the hell ever! that's like saying all men are lying cheating dogs??
But we are.
Old 06-21-2005 | 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by TLover
But we are.
Maybe YOU are...but I tell the truth
Old 06-21-2005 | 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Maybe YOU are...but I tell the truth
Whatever, manwhore.
Old 06-21-2005 | 02:12 PM
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Whatever, manwhore.
RETIRED.....I havent had sex in like 15 days...I should get a medal for this shit.
Old 06-21-2005 | 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
what the hell ever! that's like saying all men are lying cheating dogs??

You know guys who aren't?

Interesting.
Old 06-21-2005 | 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
RETIRED.....I havent had sex in like 15 days...I should get a medal for this shit.
me neither. but i want a trophy.


but do you actually have a specific example of this lying? or are you just being stupid and generalizing. because sometimes people lie about things in relationships not becuase they are liars or truly want to decieve someone, but because they are embarassed about what they may have done in the past.

i don't know if you got cheated on or what, but if you really can't deal with it, just break up with her.
Old 06-21-2005 | 05:26 PM
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Hey Hey! come on now guys, she has an excellent point

We should all be mind readers and further more have the ability to read between the lines which are between the lines which are between the lines.
Old 06-21-2005 | 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Thats what my Mom tells me
What's your mom say about the scary-as-all-hell girl in your avatar?
I'm having nightmares.
Old 06-21-2005 | 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted by M TYPE X
What's your mom say about the scary-as-all-hell girl in your avatar?
I'm having nightmares.
Old 06-21-2005 | 09:52 PM
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You know guys who aren't?

Interesting.
yeah, actually I do!


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