Who is cheating?
03-17-2005, 04:01 PM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
in mexico right now, and proud to say im being a good boy.
you have to have a girlfriend to be a good boy
03-17-2005, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
When I did have one night stands....I didn't even wanna know their names...so yes, I have had a few (my favorite is the BJ in a public place....like in a fire escape stairwell!).
I don't cheat cause I don't want that to happen to me.....
PS...If my girl did or does...she and her mate better go into witness protection!
I don't cheat cause I don't want that to happen to me.....
PS...If my girl did or does...she and her mate better go into witness protection!
I don't remember that girls name, I remember she had a great body though...ahh memories.
03-17-2005, 04:59 PM
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03-17-2005, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
hahah public sex is awesome. I was fucking the girl in the stairwell of her dorm room one night during a party. Some of my buddies were drunk and running up and down the stairs being morons, and they saw us. that was awesome. ahh daddy's little girl taken it up the puss in a dirty college dorm stairwell.
I don't remember that girls name, I remember she had a great body though...ahh memories.
I don't remember that girls name, I remember she had a great body though...ahh memories.
I wonder if your poor internet-accessing grandmother ever reads this..
03-17-2005, 05:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
I wonder if your poor internet-accessing grandmother ever reads this..
03-17-2005, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
she doesn't have to, I tell these stories at the dinner table all the time.
Figures
03-17-2005, 06:02 PM
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Never cheated on anyone I was dating, but can't say I didn't contribute to other's cheating
The allure of one night stands was quickly killed for me when my first near-encounter ended with the girl having a loaded .357 lying around in her house and peeing on the carpet at the front door (granted she had a bit to drink and possibly some other illegal substances). I quickly came to the conclusion that a few minutes of pleasure is not worth getting killed or pissed on!
The allure of one night stands was quickly killed for me when my first near-encounter ended with the girl having a loaded .357 lying around in her house and peeing on the carpet at the front door (granted she had a bit to drink and possibly some other illegal substances). I quickly came to the conclusion that a few minutes of pleasure is not worth getting killed or pissed on!
03-17-2005, 07:09 PM
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I've cheated...unfortunately while married. If I had it to do over, I wouldn't, though the sex was fabulous. It affected not only my home life but work as well (she was a co-worker..she left the company.) She was a bit off-balance, but man how good puss affected MY judgement, too. Wifey didn't leave, though I even moved in with the chick for 4 months!
I do wonder about the once-a-cheater-always-a-cheater label. May be accurate 'cause you've learned how to do it.
Never had a one-night stand. Wish I had, before I was married.
I do wonder about the once-a-cheater-always-a-cheater label. May be accurate 'cause you've learned how to do it.
Never had a one-night stand. Wish I had, before I was married.
03-17-2005, 09:23 PM
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Damn did my girlfriend start this post?
I live in miami and some of the girls here are freaking dirty (but fine as hell) so no 1 night stands.
But with a girl i "semi know" yeah
I live in miami and some of the girls here are freaking dirty (but fine as hell) so no 1 night stands.
But with a girl i "semi know" yeah
03-17-2005, 11:40 PM
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It's only cheating if you get caught. Haha! I was a serial dater (I never told them that I was monogamous). One nighter, yeah (back in the day).
Which brings up a good question: When you first start dating someone (like 1 week to 1 month or 3), do you think that you have to be monogamous with that person, dating only that person? My opinion in this matter is that you date a few people and choose the best one out of the group before things start to get serious, especially before the exclusivity talk creeps in. I am sure women feel differently about this issue. Let's get some responses. Sorry about the hijack.
"What is the shortest sentence? Ans: I can."
"What is the longest sentence? Ans: I do."
"How do you turn a fox into an elephant? Ans: Marry her."
Which brings up a good question: When you first start dating someone (like 1 week to 1 month or 3), do you think that you have to be monogamous with that person, dating only that person? My opinion in this matter is that you date a few people and choose the best one out of the group before things start to get serious, especially before the exclusivity talk creeps in. I am sure women feel differently about this issue. Let's get some responses. Sorry about the hijack.
"What is the shortest sentence? Ans: I can."
"What is the longest sentence? Ans: I do."
"How do you turn a fox into an elephant? Ans: Marry her."
03-18-2005, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted by txathlete
It's only cheating if you get caught. Haha! I was a serial dater (I never told them that I was monogamous). One nighter, yeah (back in the day).
Which brings up a good question: When you first start dating someone (like 1 week to 1 month or 3), do you think that you have to be monogamous with that person, dating only that person? My opinion in this matter is that you date a few people and choose the best one out of the group before things start to get serious, especially before the exclusivity talk creeps in. I am sure women feel differently about this issue. Let's get some responses. Sorry about the hijack.
"What is the shortest sentence? Ans: I can."
"What is the longest sentence? Ans: I do."
"How do you turn a fox into an elephant? Ans: Marry her."
Which brings up a good question: When you first start dating someone (like 1 week to 1 month or 3), do you think that you have to be monogamous with that person, dating only that person? My opinion in this matter is that you date a few people and choose the best one out of the group before things start to get serious, especially before the exclusivity talk creeps in. I am sure women feel differently about this issue. Let's get some responses. Sorry about the hijack.
"What is the shortest sentence? Ans: I can."
"What is the longest sentence? Ans: I do."
"How do you turn a fox into an elephant? Ans: Marry her."
I have cheated on my ex husband and I did leave him for the man I was with, which turned into a 3 year relationship that only ended recently. BTW, my ex had a girlfriend when we met that he neglected to tell me about. I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater theory. I NEVER cheated on my last boyfriend. I truely loved him and the thought of someone else touching something that belonged only to him was repulsive to me. That's the one thing I am having a problem with now. We have been broken up for about 2 months now and I still think that way.
Yeah there has been a few
03-18-2005, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by fast-tl
I've cheated...unfortunately while married. If I had it to do over, I wouldn't, though the sex was fabulous. It affected not only my home life but work as well (she was a co-worker..she left the company.) She was a bit off-balance, but man how good puss affected MY judgement, too. Wifey didn't leave, though I even moved in with the chick for 4 months!
I do wonder about the once-a-cheater-always-a-cheater label. May be accurate 'cause you've learned how to do it.
Never had a one-night stand. Wish I had, before I was married.
I do wonder about the once-a-cheater-always-a-cheater label. May be accurate 'cause you've learned how to do it.
Never had a one-night stand. Wish I had, before I was married.
03-18-2005, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by samkws
let's all be honest here...
have u ever have an affair with another girl/boy while u are already in a relationship??
or have any One night stand?
for me...so far not yet....
have u ever have an affair with another girl/boy while u are already in a relationship??
or have any One night stand?
for me...so far not yet....
My
03-18-2005, 04:28 PM
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not cheated, have had one-night stands. Was a time in my life when a one night stand would have been an enduring relationship. Turns out sexual gymnastics and intimacy are not remotely the same thing. Got tired of it, risky, socially tiresome, proved nothing and left me feeling more lonely than when I wasn't messing around. When I got married, that was it. Will confess to having enjoyed the view, entertained fantasies, but never acted on them. Just not worth the tradeoff of teporary excitement for permanent guilt.
03-18-2005, 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
no and no.
Would like to fix the second one...but most of the time, I just need more of a 'connection' to get in the mood...
Cheating is fucked up and I believe in karma...so I don't and wouldn't cheat...I don't need that in my life. Plus, enough of the world's female population already hates me so...
Would like to fix the second one...but most of the time, I just need more of a 'connection' to get in the mood...
Cheating is fucked up and I believe in karma...so I don't and wouldn't cheat...I don't need that in my life. Plus, enough of the world's female population already hates me so...
cheating = bad karma.1 night stands, have had when single.
Cheating, never
03-18-2005, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted by samkws
wow
i really want to try one night stand
but i am not a hot guy...so...=(
i really want to try one night stand
but i am not a hot guy...so...=(
03-19-2005, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by samkws
your wife must be gd, you better treasure her~
03-20-2005, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by flexte
then pay 185 and get an escort. and no not the car.
i prefer to have an ONS that will i have sthelse that will attract a girl and make them want to have sex with me~
03-20-2005, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by txathlete
You don't have to be a hot guy. You just need to have confidence. Why do you think hot girls date ugly guys. Ugly guys have nothing to lose so they just go for it. Try it. You might get your O.N.S. wish.
03-20-2005, 06:38 PM
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I love cars!
My uncle told me to always cheat with a married woman, because at the end of the day SHE has to go home also. If you cheat with a single chick (as I did), she'll have nothing better to do than make your life difficult (which mine did!) Wish he'd have told me that before I started that whole mess...
03-20-2005, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted by fast-tl
My uncle told me to always cheat with a married woman, because at the end of the day SHE has to go home also. If you cheat with a single chick (as I did), she'll have nothing better to do than make your life difficult (which mine did!) Wish he'd have told me that before I started that whole mess...
03-20-2005, 10:54 PM
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I love cars!
That's why I don't cheat anymore. I'm just saying I would've made it easier on myself had I thought of that earlier. Fabolous says the entree ain't as good without somethin' on the side.
That girl was addictive till she got looney. Then the negatives started outweighing the positives. Ah...memories.
That girl was addictive till she got looney. Then the negatives started outweighing the positives. Ah...memories.
03-23-2005, 10:34 AM
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After this last thing in my relationship happened to me, I could NEVER cheat, or be with someone who I know is married or has a boyfriend. It's just wrong. I wouldn't have done it before, but that just sealed the deal for me. Cheating, or being with someone who's committed is just not right.
