Ok I made a post a while back about a new chick I met who was a virgin and I thought bad things about her, well basically those bad things were overblown and I was trying to find stuff wrong with her.

Well we have been hanging out almost everyday and I have a dillema in my hands. She is a good girl, nice, morally good, doesn't have a bunch of guy friends, stays to herself, no drama. I usually go for more outwardly open girls who have guy friends, go out and get on my nerves. So heres the problem, I still like girls like that but I am thinking I should settle down with a good girl even if she is kind of boring.

So what do you think about that kind of dating?
Pros: nice body, C cup, pretty smile, good morals, more attractive then my ex
Cons: Kind of boring, not really talkative, won't give head

I know some will say "Wait around for a chick that fits all of that" But is that being unrealistic? I mean my standards are she has to be Black, nice, same kind of humor meaning she laughs at smart things like daily show and arrested development, attractive, sexually experimental (to a degree, no crazy shit or including other people). I am starting to feel its going to be damn near impossible to find that and I don't want to end up like a friend of mine who is 33 and still looking around for a girl.

How do you guys who are in relationships, not the pimps go about things like this? Stay single till you find a perfect person, Settle with a good girl because you can't ever find your perfect girl.

 

I'd say give it a shot, I mean you can find cons about EVERYONE if you try hard enough. Plus, maybe you'll be able to corrupt her a bit

But as desireable as all that stuff sounds, if she just ends up being boring to you, at least you know you have it a shot.

 

You should never have to settle. When you find the right woman (and you will), you will know it, and you won't have to come to an Internet forum to justify being with her (not trying to be an ass with that comment). You're 22. You have plenty of time to find the perfect (for you) woman.

If you have to justify being with her, she's probably not the one for you.

 

I can understand the logic in that but the thing was I did the same thing with my last girl and it turned out ok, till she fucked up, but she kinda grew on me. I was going to do the same with her as well. I just like to see what strangers think, I could talk to my friend but usually friends will side with you or have biased views plus most of my friends aren't married or older so you guys are my only older married or longer relationship friends to talk to

 

Well, you're 22. Most men don't know exactly what they're looking for when they're 22. So, perhaps, you should give it a go. At that age, it's all about gaining experience and finding out what type of woman you want and what you want out of a relationship.

 

Dude...These chicks are some of the best broads to bang because they're challenging...thats just me though...I always got a thrill from turning good girls into bad ones...We all know deep down that those type of girls have some sort of pent up aggression and shit that they gotta let out...you just gotta push their buttons. Get her to give you a hand job and progress from letting her suck your fingers while giving you a handjob to full on blowjob. Be proactive...but I cant deal with boring...so I would hit it and leave.

 

Thats a deal breaker for me. Unless she just needs to warm up to it, but even then shes going to be real bad at for a while at least.

 

That's actually funny because I have never gotten good head. Every girl I have messed with has either been a virgin or not that good.

 

in what day and age do women not give head. They still make those?

 

chris rock, I started calling her Beta Max...She didn't get it.

 

holler at a white girl for a change. they are pretty good at it

 

Virgin?!? Power is taking that which no other can ever do. Stay, mojo, and conquer.

 

And then having her obsess over you.

You're 22. You'll have plenty of time to find "The right one." Spend some time with this girl and see how it goes, she's probably just really shy.

 

Of course you can't expect to find all the qualities you are looking for in a person, but the important ones should all be there. If being outgoing and more sexually aggressive are at the top of your list and there are no signs that the girl is going to be more open, then don't settle.

You're still young and you might find someone who will fit you better.

 

And why the hell won't she give head?

 

Uh-oh.

:ibKMart:

 

I thought the black girls were known for being Hoovers with the c*ck. Hmm.

 

Those big lips look like they are made for it

 

l ain't no expert or no shit, but, fellas,
if you're gonna talk dirty to your woman...

you got to talk with authority.

You can get a woman to do
any nasty little thing you want.

You say that shit like a man,
make a little eye contact...

put a little bass in your voice,
she will do that shit.

She wants to do that shit.
She's dying to do that shit.

Your woman is nastier
than you ever imagined.

But you gotta come correct...

because anything you mumble
ain't getting done.

You can't be in bed all unsure, like,
''Excuse me....

''Excuse me, l was wondering....

''Ma'am, l have a request.
Could you lick my balls?''

''l ain't licking nothing.
Lick your own balls!''

See, if you just said it right,
you'd been in there.

Now you got dry balls.

That's right, confidence always wins.

Do you realize, it is
some women still don't give head?

Ninety-fucking-nine.

Whenever l meet a girl
that doesn't give head...

l look at them like a damn Betamax,
''They still make you?''

And when it comes to head,
there's three types of women:

A: Women that don't give head.
Bye, leave, see you.

B: Women that give you just enough head
to shut you up.

You ever meet them women?
They're like, ''You okay?''

l hate them women!

And number three, my favorite woman:

the woman that likes nothing better
than to suck a dick.

That's right, God bless all of you!

That's right, you make the world
a better place to live in.

l want you to suck my dick
like you think the antidote's in it!

Like you trying to get some Robitussin
out of that motherfucker!

 

^^^

 

Equipment yes
Willingness no


how do white people kiss each other with those really thin lips

 

We have better aim. I don't need a helipad to put my lips on.

 

 

I like that you are 22 and still buying the "I'm a virgin line"

 

I usually don't but all signs point to yes
I know her friends and friends of mine have been roomates with her and all vouch for her to the point a few thought she was gay because there werent guys around. She doesn't have guys signing her wall on myspace or facebook. She is tighter then a muthafucker. I really don't care and she knows that so I don't see her lying, even if she isn't big deal.

 

IMO, dating IS all about finding out if she's "the one" for you, and a way of learning more about what you do and don't want. But if you already know that she's not what you're looking for, I wouldn't waste your time OR hers. As long as your 'perfect someone' is within reason, don't settle on the important stuff --- there WILL be a good match for you.....you just never know when you'll find her (could be now or five years from now).

 

Ok it's most likely over
Tried to hit cause we were in the mood, couldn't fit.
Was going to go get some lube and a new condom, decided it wasn't right.
Left and went home and called her and told her we shouldn't do it because I don't love her and it should be with someone you love. She gets upset and has to go. Said she would call me today...Hmmm.

 

:theghey:

 

LOL I couldnt do it man. She is in the same club as me in college and we would see each other all the time. Last thing I need is for every girl to think I am a dog.

 

I saw you edit that! But honestly, how many girls actually lose it to someone they love?

 

She seriously has to be black?

 

I did.

 

^^Probably doesn't happen too much any more.

 

Me too. That did it for me.

 

Sounds like you were trying to stick it in the wrong hole JJ. If she is horny enough there is no need for lube.

 

you obviously aren't black.

 

to fuck: No
to date: Yes

 

Even with black girls the wrong hole is the one in the butt. Either you don't know that or you have trouble getting her aroused.

 

Well the fact she is a virgin and her opening is about the size of a quarter might have had something to do with it. While I agree she probably wasn't as aroused as a normal chick it was the first time I am sure she wasn't relaxed like "give me the dick"

 

were you limp?