massr1

I recently found out that my once "good" friend went behind my back. Here's the story:

Me and my friend have been working together for the last couple of years at a golf course in the clubhouse restaurant. This past spring, a new cute girl starts working and of course we both have our eyes on her. He recently broke up with his girlfriend over the winter and still can't over her, so he tells me I can go for it. I end up talking to this girl right away, and we've been together ever since. Needless to say, we are very happy and everything is going great.

So me and my girlfriend go out one night to DQ one night and we start talking about when we first started talking. She then go on to say "oh ya, one night Matt picked me up after school and he took me for ice cream here" She then told me that he told her to never tell me about it because it would make me very angry and just cause problems. He ends up calling her after saying they should do it again, blah blah blah.

I am not angry at the fact that my girlfriend went out with him, because we were just talking at the time. And I'm not angry that he took her out. What pisses me off is that he did this all behind my back without telling me.

I should also add that when he starting seeing his ex in high school, he completely shoved me and my other friend in the gutter, and barely talked to us. Then he breaks up with her and guess who he comes crawling back to. We took him back but I think this is the final straw.

Am I overreacting? Or should I put this chump in his place?

amisconception

Do you have access to weapons?

synthetic

Are you 19?

oh shit! you actuall are!

RaviNJCLs

iTrader: (4)

Exactly what I would have said.

Massr1 - It happens. Deal with. It's just ice cream. It's not like the foot ball team lined up for a gang bang.

I really don't see that he did something that wrong. And your gf was honest enough to tell you.

massr1

Ok, I just wanted to see an outsider's pov. It is very childish now that I think about it.

mystikk

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? FUCK THAT NIGGA UP!

k but no seriously. You're outta high school, leave the high school drama where it belongs, and you're golden.

Dr. Colorado

Pull_T

Well, she obviously fucked the guy...seeing as how it was such a secret...but don't sweat it. The lucky thing is you still don't know about the guys on the football team she fucked...hopefully she'll keep that secret to spare your feelings.

Wisc Badger

^^^^ dont listen to him... he's got your girl mixed up with his BF.


leave the drama in the past... everyone has shady friends who did this shit when they were your age.


shes with you, thats all that matters. Now if she breaks up with you and ends up with him thats a different story to be discussed later.

Pull_T

I don't have a BF...I've told you several times that it was just a one time thing and I had just way too much rum. I don't want anything exclusive. Please stop sending me PMs begging.

Wisc Badger

rum or not, you promised you wouldn't break my heart. i get it though, you're involved with whiskers aren't you? fair enough... its probably his charming accent.

massr1

Good point to leave the high school crap behind.

Ahh, nothing beats a nice night of backseat sex on the side of a deserted road...

Pull_T

Make sure you wear a rubber, dude.

RaviNJCLs

iTrader: (4)

I can think of a few things that will beat that.

RaviNJCLs

iTrader: (4)

"Lumbergh fucked her."

jerzpwr

he made the "O" face.

doopstr

Meh, at 19 don't even worry about it. Chances are you will be with someone else in 6 months anyway. Enjoy your youth!

r3mix3r

I have tons of friends like that...They get girlfriends, and they forget my name and phone number. Months later, they are calling me asking to hang out (after they aren't with there gf anymore) I honestly lose alot of respect for anyone who does this, and usually stop being friends with them. Happened a crapload in high school, not so much right now, cause most of my friends are single now.

JediMindTricks

just make sure you're not in florence. (re: monster in florence thread if you have no idea what i'm talking about.)

but i wouldn't sweat it. if it upsets you that much, just tell your friend that you know. as long as he's not calling your girl now and trying to get ice cream with her.

and as for your friend that disappears when he has his own gf, it's just a part of life, i think.

my friends and i all have girlfriends or fiancee's, and i've noticed it's more and more rare these days that we all hang out. especially with s.o.'s, work, school, etc. but it doesn't bother me, really.

fdl

Why would she bring it up now , after all this time? She is probably feeling guilty about fucking him

wickedk24