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Old Aug 9, 2009 | 10:15 PM
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What is wrong with women these days?

So i dated this girl for about a year.. 4 years ago and has been recently calling me off the hook writing me etc. She is in a year long marriage currently and is bluntly asking me if she gets a hotel if i will come over and ya....

Ok i miss her, she is talking like she wants me back, I am not the type to be a part of hooking up with a married girl, wtf am i supposed to do in this situation? shes married, what is wrong with girls these days?
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Old Aug 9, 2009 | 10:23 PM
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do it and take pics or it didnt happen
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Old Aug 9, 2009 | 10:23 PM
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forward the email to her husband and post it on teh zine.













stay away
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 01:03 AM
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It's a trap.
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 01:53 AM
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what general akbar said^
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by burtonblue75
So i dated this girl for about a year.. 4 years ago and has been recently calling me off the hook writing me etc. She is in a year long marriage currently and is bluntly asking me if she gets a hotel if i will come over and ya....

Ok i miss her, she is talking like she wants me back, I am not the type to be a part of hooking up with a married girl, wtf am i supposed to do in this situation? shes married, what is wrong with girls these days?
It's only been a year since she got married and she wants to hook up with someone else already?! She had 4 years to get back with you, but she didn't. So what does she mean when she said she wants you back, she's already thinking of divorce? Or she just wants to have fun on the side?

You should ask yourself first if you believe in the sanctity of marriage. If you truly respect it, you should ignore her advances. Besides, why would you want to possibly complicate your life? Do you love her or do you just miss her?
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 09:01 AM
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u sure it's nto a trap? sounds too fishy
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 09:23 AM
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i wouldn't
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 09:25 AM
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Stay away. You do not want to turn into a homewrecker.
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 01:31 PM
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 02:35 PM
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Husband sucks in the sack. She thought she could put up with it for whatever reason, but realized that while sex isn't everything, it does rank up there kinda high.
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 05:44 PM
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You: Ay girl. When you gonna let me tap that ass?
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 05:49 PM
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Ignore her, move on.

+1 for your ego
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Ignore her, move on.

+1 for your ego


Chances are this girl's looking for validation, and she needs you to fulfill that. Or, her husband's probably not doing something she wants, and she could be looking to branch-swing with a sure thing (an ex who's easy to manipulate). We really don't know enough to know what's motivating her. Trust me though, it's not just sex.
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 07:19 PM
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you suck at secrecy..
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Old Aug 10, 2009 | 07:23 PM
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i was just recently on the same boat..girl begged me to come fuck her..she got married less then a year ago..needless to say....





















i didnt go..
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Old Aug 11, 2009 | 09:37 AM
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Leave it alone. If you really wanted to hit it you would've and not posted here. Obviously not wife material.
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Old Aug 11, 2009 | 04:48 PM
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aw come on why are we telling him to move on. he is 24 yrs old. bro look if she is attractive why not. if you have a girlfriend right now invite her too. lol no no am joking. but if you have a gf then i say no.
but if you are single bro go head. don't worry about it. you wont' be a homewrecker. its not like she is leaving her husband for you. the husband might suck in the sack. or he might not know what he is doing. and she likes how you do it. fuck it

i say go...
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Old Aug 11, 2009 | 04:53 PM
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aw come on why are we telling him to move on. he is 24 yrs old. bro look if she is attractive why not. if you have a girlfriend right now invite her too. lol no no am joking. but if you have a gf then i say no.
but if you are single bro go head. don't worry about it. you wont' be a homewrecker. its not like she is leaving her husband for you. the husband might suck in the sack. or he might not know what he is doing. and she likes how you do it. fuck it

i say go...
Yeah.. All fine and dandy until guilt takes over her and she tells her husband. Said husband shows up at your door.....
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Old Aug 11, 2009 | 05:05 PM
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Originally Posted by RL Chi-town
aw come on why are we telling him to move on. he is 24 yrs old. bro look if she is attractive why not. if you have a girlfriend right now invite her too. lol no no am joking. but if you have a gf then i say no.
but if you are single bro go head. don't worry about it. you wont' be a homewrecker. its not like she is leaving her husband for you. the husband might suck in the sack. or he might not know what he is doing. and she likes how you do it. fuck it

i say go...
I have a strange feeling.. that this guy is the reincarnate of Darksom or Darksom1 or someone or another who was banned....
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 12:17 AM
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She sounds like a drama queen. If she know you're in the dough, keep her away from your door. Does Mike Tyson ring a bell? Booty call turned into rape and several years in a cell box.
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 07:26 AM
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Stay away, you don't need that drama in your life. Not to mention, put yourself in her husband's place, imagine how he would feel.
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 12:08 PM
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yeah stay away, you don't want to be pulled into the drama once her husband finds out.
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by burtonblue75
So i dated this girl for about a year.. 4 years ago and has been recently calling me off the hook writing me etc. She is in a year long marriage currently and is bluntly asking me if she gets a hotel if i will come over and ya....

Ok i miss her, she is talking like she wants me back, I am not the type to be a part of hooking up with a married girl, wtf am i supposed to do in this situation? shes married, what is wrong with girls these days?
Would u ever want to be with a women who cheated on her husband? Whats going to happen when u two are together?
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 06:54 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2009 | 04:12 AM
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Hey bro, is her husband in the military or something? Usually girls that don't have the man around all the time tend to want someone else to make up for it. This is why I tell all my female friends to stay away from military guys that are gone all the time.

Like others have said do what you want, becareful, think it through on both sides and what can come from this.

I would hang with her friends, no flirting or sexual touching though and go from there. Maybe she is lonely or something who knows. Keep us posted.
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Old Aug 13, 2009 | 02:15 PM
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100% agree with everyone who said stay away. The only upside is you get to have the kind of fun you can have dozens of other ways without the downside, which is getting involved in her marriage drama, pissing off a husband of unknown mental stability, and just generally creating a void in your life where you might miss out on someone worth dating.
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Old Aug 14, 2009 | 12:41 AM
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Old Aug 15, 2009 | 01:11 PM
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I guess the guys she dated 3 years and 2 years ago are all done and you get to have sloppy 4ths.

If you are considering this, then just think that she may have done the same thing with other guys. Sounds like she is good slut material.

Enjoy.
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Old Aug 15, 2009 | 04:45 PM
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I would fuck her and keep it on the DL. haha
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Old Aug 16, 2009 | 06:27 AM
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It's hearing about women like this that makes me think marriage is never the way to go, someone always needs a quick fuck...
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Old Aug 16, 2009 | 12:39 PM
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dont do it. hooking up with ex's is never smart.
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by jaredbhouston
dont do it. hooking up with ex's is never smart.
I don't completely agree with that. I would say that hooking up with your married ex is never smart, but if you both are single and there are no strings if no one wants it, then what's the problem.
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 08:13 AM
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Don't do it. Put urself in the husbands shoes. Would you want ur wife or girlfriend slipping out on you. That stuff come back to haunt you later on in life.
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 09:33 AM
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^^ agreed
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 10:35 AM
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So... did ya do it?
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by silkk8482
Don't do it. Put urself in the husbands shoes. Would you want ur wife or girlfriend slipping out on you. That stuff come back to haunt you later on in life.


But I would still be MORE concerned that maybe you were not the only person she called. These are the type of things that lead to a burning sensation when you go to the bathroom. BEWARE.
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Old Aug 17, 2009 | 10:55 AM
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don't do it...cheaters will always get caught!
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Old Aug 19, 2009 | 05:49 AM
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ok so ... I started off by saying we can't do this an I am not that guy etc! Then I agreed to just being "friends" and then she kept trying to come over um "hang out as friends " and kept telling her uh buisy, lol and anways ended it all by saying leave me the f Alone!!! and she sent two texts and no calls .... she was at 5-10 texts and 3-10 missed calls a day to nothing so far... anyways for all you this is her in the middle... mother in law on left and hubby on right, and hubby is the hand me down business man lots of money so that definitely isn't it, but whatever
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Old Aug 19, 2009 | 07:13 AM
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Man she's pretty hot. Shirts like that get me excited. tempting
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