Ok I am just trying to find out if I am corrent in feelling this is FUCKED UP...

Well this all starts off with myspace. My ex who is on my friends list gets a message from an old high school friend of mine. he was someone in alot of my classes and we used to work out together alot.. Not the best of friends but enough to have some respect now since high school I still see him ever year or so and we have quite a few friends in common. He talkes to my ex that he knows I dated for 2 years not very long ago and is trying to hook up with her.. Now for me I wont date any guys ex that I know I just wouldnt even want the thought of being with a friends used goods .. Me and her have remained good friends talk every day on the phone and get together on a bi weekly basis..

Now do you feel its wrong to use your friends buddy list to hook up with girls he knows even after finding out that its his ex?

 

Move on dude.... Seriously, you're 25.....

Also, this needs to be moved to the correct forum.

 

myspace is gay. just think this wouldnt have happened if you didnt have myspace.

 

myspace = meeting random cute chicks and getting laid. At least thats how its been for me in the past couple months...

 

Sounds like someone hasn't moved on yet...

you said it right, your ex... meaning no longer together. You would probably be pissed if anyone hooked up with her.

MUST RESIST PURSE COMMENT....

 

Let it go and let her date who she wants. You are just going to have to deal with it. If you can't stand to see him with her then don't see him.

 

Yeah for the most part I agree but I am still Hittin that.......... I guess the thing that bugs me is that a guy I was friends with would go after my ex... We have been broken up for a few months now. I dont care if she dates but I guess that Idea of her dating someone I know bugs me.

 

Well, if she accepts his offer you're not doing a very good job then and you should move on

 

Let it go for your own good. Actually, being friends with an ex that you still have feelings for is asking for trouble. One sided relations don't work. Unless it's your own hand....

 

1) Everyone is looking for
2) ALL’S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR
3) Get off myspace, you aint in jr high no more.

 

Capital !

I couldn't have said it better myself. It's too bad for you. She can date whomever she pleases. Stop being obsessive and possessive and grow up.

 

Its been said before, ill say it again. Move on. Its her life and she can date who she pleases. If it was your best friend you MIGHT have an arguement but this guy is an acquantance at best.

Besides, It is likely that you will know anyone she dates so long as she dates within that circle of high school friends. So the next guy will be an issue, and the next, and the next. Let her be....

 

 

What is this HS...? He is not even that good a friend...Why should it matter ? From what you describe in your "friendship" with this chick...Seems like you might think shes still your "g\f" and you're worried about this "friend" who is probably better than you stealing her away and the time she spends with you. The worst thing you can do is be insecure...go out and find some other bitch.

 

You're limiting yourself if you think this way. This world is smaller than you think. 6 degrees of separation. It was like 7 or 8 years ago right? And you don't even know the dude anymore. You're telling me if one of his ex's was hot you wouldn't try to hook up with her.?.?

 

Well I dont think I really explained it very well at all so I am going to try agian.. Thats what I get for being in a rush..... Me and him were pretty good friends in highschool and there was a small group of lets say 8 - 10 people that I am still good friends with from highschool. he is also part of this group and while for the last year or so I have not really hung out with him much. I got an email from him on myspace just kind of saying whats up seeing how I was doing all the basic catching up conversation. I replied to his email told him what was going on with life.. normall boring stuff. .......... then after about 3-4 emails he didnt respond I really didnt think anything of it I am really bad at getting back to people a week later I emailed him back saying I was going to take him up on the offer to work out together and that we should set up a time to meet at the gym ... no response...... ohh well ..... Then I am talking to my ex and she is telling me about some guy she meet online and that they had went out a few times which is cool. Then when she said his name I was like that interesting I know him. After a little thought and checking some dates I realized that he stop responding to me as soon as he started to try to hook up with my ex. I dont care if she dates I want her to be happy. I dont even think I care if they date the only thing that bothered me is the way he went about it. I guess I go with the bros before hoes mentaility...

 

you say you went to High School? And it was there that you knew the guy who is now "digging" your admittedly-ex-girlfriend? And that you scope out myspace to look up chicks to hook up with? And you are still "hitting it" with her but she is also on myspace and is soon to be "hitting it" with your buddy from school?

1. you a ho, dude.
2. your bro is a ho.
3. your ho is a ho.

like christmas in here, man, Ho- Ho- fuckin Ho.

seems like you cannot get past the high school era, and it is shocking that you have mentally been in high school for 11 years, and your grammar is still atrocious (that means "bad"). Let her go and find a new love. I hear there is a new Freshman class at the school this year.

 

:troutslap

 

Am I the only one have problems de-coding these posts???

 

I couldn't have said it better myself!

 

I started lookin around myspace the other day, and all the cute girls around me are like 17, and all the ones my age are either WT, weigh more than me or are just plain fugly.

 

Ok. Just start targeting 18 yo.

 

Might try adult behavior, if you value your friend and the friendship with your ex.....

I'd suggest letting your ex know that you think her dating an old friend of yours is really neat, that he's a great guy, and you hope they're having a great time together. And, if you value your friendship with your old running buddy, let him know that you think your ex is a great woman, a great companion (stay away from discussing your sex life) and that you hope they're having a great time. Mean it.

Try to rise above your sense of territoriality. She ain't your "turf" any more, and if you are truly friends with both these folks, you should get a kick out of the fact that they found each other.........

If you're pissed that she's dating a friend, might want to look inward to find any unresolved feelings attached to your relationship with your ex and take very careful inventory of those dangling threads.

 

time to resolve and move on with life.

She's just been hooking up with you just for a but she's trying to move on. So let her.

BTW, find someone that 's so well you don't think about her.

 

ric is very wise, listen to him.