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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 11:04 AM
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What should I do?

Hi Guys and girl,

I come to this forum alot. I never would ask for any one opinion until now. I really need yall opinion Please?

I've been dating this girl for 2 yrs and 5 months. We have been great until we start to argue. Toward the end of the 5th month, we have been arguing alot. One Sunday I got mad and I said "lets break up" The following Monday we talk and I realize that I said it in anger and I want to take her back. She said it will take time but she don't want to go back to how it was "arguing" if she take me back. I persist that I will try my hardest to change that.

3 week have pass and i can see that she started to hang around with this new guy that we met not too long ago @ a motorcycle meet. I can tell she have a crush and wanted to move on. But she is stuck in between me (being with her for 2 + yrs and the new guy. My friend was saying that there also that possibility that if we went back together, one day she get piss, she can just turn to this new guy. Since they have been hang out alot lately, I am afraid that her feelings toward me is fading away..

What do I do? Wait for her to make up her mind or just move on?
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 11:10 AM
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Why would you want a girl that clearly has feelings for someone else?

Let her go. And how do you know they are 'just' hanging out?
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 11:20 AM
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set her free, if she truly loves you, she'll come back.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 11:25 AM
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Move on man. You guys are in the comfortable stage and are afraid to separate. Just leave. If it was meant to be, you'll both be back with each other.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 11:32 AM
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Is kinda hard to move on consider that she been with me for quite some time and she is also hanging out with my friends now aday. Are yall suggesting cut connection with her? Don't call her and don't bug her?
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 01:47 PM
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She's a cum guzzling whore, move on.

If you find another girl to empty your load on a regular basis,I bet you will forget all about that broad in a second.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Tls-22
Is kinda hard to move on consider that she been with me for quite some time and she is also hanging out with my friends now aday. Are yall suggesting cut connection with her? Don't call her and don't bug her?
Hence, you are in the comfortable stage. Get your balls back from her and move on.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:05 PM
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break it off. Don't severe all ties, but give it some room, and lay off the touch-feely bs for a while. If she wants to get back together later, then great
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:05 PM
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fuck her best friend and then move on. Dont ever talk to her again. She actually has the audacity to start hanging out with another guy while you two are trying to work shit out? Fuck her.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:24 PM
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pics required before proper AZ advice can be given.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:31 PM
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Let the ho go.. she wants to play both sides of the fence. kick her to the curb before it gets any worse...trust me on this one..

P.S. she probably already f*cked the other guy.

Last edited by WdnUlik2no; Jun 23, 2006 at 02:34 PM.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 02:54 PM
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I have only two words for that chick... money shot.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by WdnUlik2no
Let the ho go.. she wants to play both sides of the fence. kick her to the curb before it gets any worse...trust me on this one..

P.S. she probably already f*cked the other guy.
Say
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 03:40 PM
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I'm always amazed by just how horrible girls can be. What a piece of shit.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by oneilc
I'm always amazed by just how horrible girls can be. What a piece of shit.
i'm not.
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Old Jun 23, 2006 | 04:56 PM
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Let just say not "all" girl are like this. I have met some that are very sweet! This one is hard to deal with fm time to time.

Thank you guys. Yall make me much happier now.
I guess this is a good place to share since we don't know each other and see what other opinions are.
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