Just curious who can hit the homer on the first pitch!

sidemarker

 

If I sleep with a girl on the first date, she more than likely isn't getting a call back.
(and there have been a large number of no call backs in my college carrer)

it all depends on my interest in the girl and if I am in the mood to play games with her.

I love knowing a girl wants to hook up and not hooking up with her...let her feel how guys feel sometimes.

Most the time if it is a first date with a girl I like or want to continue seeing, I don't really want to do anymore than your basic "hook up" lay down make out watch a movie kinda cute romantic bullshit.

 

Call me prude, I often give my first dates a hug. If I really like the guy, a chaste (*ehem*) kiss.

 

The furthest I've gone on a first date (I had a total of 3 gf) is a hug.
Interestingly however, I've been with each girl friend for more than 3 months and up to 3 years.

Other socializing dates however, I did go all the way, twice. But I believe alcohol was the reason for such behavior.

iamhomin, who's young but doesn't live young

 

totally depends on who it is... usually no more than makin out.

...although one time when i was like 20 i ran away to Ocean City for 3 days with a guy the same day i met him... (he was my friend's cousin, so it wasn't just like a random guy i picked up.) :P ahhh that was funnn...

 

Rim job, always. Especially when I pay.

 

depends on who it is. If I've known him a while and am already into him before the first date almost anything can go...but if its one of those blind date things he usually can't expect much.

 

I can usually get some tongue on the first date if I'm feeling good vibes from her. The key to getting some action is to not ask how she feels about you because if you can't tell, you don't deserve any ass anyway.

 

I would never let a hooker eat my ass....you are a nasty fuck :wtf:

 

 

Stop paying for sex, chris.

 

Hey, we all pay one way or another.

If you buy dinner & a movie ~ you paid.

 

Don't knock it til you try it Goatsee.

 

shit if you wanna look at it from the angle...I have dated some expensive hookers.

It's my own fault however.

 

What did you think I meant?

 

We need a goatse smiley...

 

I get sex on the first date maybe 2%-3% of the time
-Making out maybe 5%
-Nice passionate goodbye kiss maybe 7%
-Akward goodbye kiss 10%
-Some variation of hug, kiss on the cheek, handshake 70%
-God why am I even here! 5%

 

As usual, listen to this man.

Also don't get down on yourself if you feel the vibe, move in for the kiss and get the Micheal Jackson "Hee-Hee" head swerve. Some girls are like Sasha where even if they are feeling you they will make you wait one date. I went out with a girl once that did that to me but then she gave one of those tight hugs like "I wanted to but I just can't". On the second date I was sucking on her surgically enhanced chesticles in a parking garage, by the fourth date we were keeping my neighbors awake with wild Tiger sex.

 

 

I always get make outs. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

Lights, camera, ________?
































BANG, BANG, BANG, BANG!!!!
Ahhhh....What a relief!

 

@ chesticles

 

Holy lord all mighty!!! ...who makes such perverted smiley's?

My butt hurts just looking at that.

 

4 times for me. Although they would get the call backs just for the BC

 

I normally end up getting is blue-balls. Teasers!



Don't tease if you can't please.

 

so why wouldn't she get a call back if you slept together on the first date? i don't get that...

 

because that means she is a slut...

I should add, she might get a call back depending on if I'm not currently getting some, or I am drunk and need a booty call.

 

why would that make her a slut? maybe she was just in the mood.

if you had sex on the first date, YOU could end up being the slut, not her

think about that.

 

Good point. I have always wondered why some guys assume that girl don't think like them.

 

you make it sound like I haven't realize this...I already know I am a slut though...I just don't want to be dating one.

Usually if i'm dating a girl, I take her to the country club, nicest resturants, vacations...etc etc

So If i'm going to be doing all this, I want to make sure she's not the type to sleep around.

 

An endorsement from Waddy is always a good thing. I will never steer you wrong when it comes to girl advice.

 

a hug...and that's all I really expect on the first date...

 

see, that's where you're gonna screw yourself over. b/c you lose the opportunity with sexually exploratory girls that like high society events.

much like myself.

ever heard the phrase "lady in the streets, freak in the bed" ?

a girl who has sex on the first date is not a slut. just because she does it with you, doesn't mean she does it with everyone (although that doesn't mean it's not possible, for sake of the argument). if she does, consider yourself priviledged. but don't can her based on that, b/c once you are dating, she's not gonna fuck around with other guys if you keep her happy.

 

i see the point you're tryin to make, but i think the majority of the population is pretty much always gonna disagree with ya there...

with very few exceptions, truly classy girls don't fuck on the first date. even if they're "in the mood" they have enough sense to realize how they're gonna be viewed by the guy if they sleep with him right away -- he's gonna think they're a slut. ya know?

 

i think its more fun to play it out. if u get it right away there goes half the game. its like getting a happy meal and u play with the toy first and then by the time u go to eat it. your fries are cold. guys will tend to be turned off after hitting it right away.

 

^^i dont know about you, but i dont get turned off by hitting a girl on the first night......that tells me im in from here on out.

 

oh no not you too please!

junkster is driving me up a wall with his posts..

 

Well, I'm definitely a long-term relationship guy myself. Can't stand cheap relationships, doesn't seem right.

First date might end in a tasteful kiss but usually doesn't. Sounds probably to most of you, but I go for quality dates that start off with just two friends hanging out together, just goes from there.

If I wanted cheap sex, it could be done. But I want so much more.



I'll now get my flameshield out..

 

exactly. all the girls I have actually dated for a period of time, I don't think I did more than kiss any of them on the first date, or first time we hung out alone.

 

yea but then u get a new girl to shoot for.