What does this mean???
What does this mean???
Just a week or so ago I decided it was finally time to stop dealin with my X and kick her ass to the curb and start chasin some new tail. Long story short, the few times we talked on the phone she'd be like "call me in a few days, we're gonna have to hang out when youre home for break, etc." But normally she would never answer when I called.
Then one nite she called me while i was in the movies so i called her the next day and she actually answered and said some bs like "im not home yet so call in a half hour or so." So I did, like 3 times over an hour...no answer obviously. So I finally said fuck it, never communicating w/ this girl again. (Props to me). Shes OK to hang out with, but I'll admit i was pretty much only trying to hit it again.
Maybe i can get a female POV...what are her motives with this two-faced behavior? I'm guessing she's an attention whore and just wants to see how many guys she can get to call her, even if she has no intention of hangin out or even answering. I think I just answered my own question, but i still wonder why she can't be direct.
Then one nite she called me while i was in the movies so i called her the next day and she actually answered and said some bs like "im not home yet so call in a half hour or so." So I did, like 3 times over an hour...no answer obviously. So I finally said fuck it, never communicating w/ this girl again. (Props to me). Shes OK to hang out with, but I'll admit i was pretty much only trying to hit it again.
Maybe i can get a female POV...what are her motives with this two-faced behavior? I'm guessing she's an attention whore and just wants to see how many guys she can get to call her, even if she has no intention of hangin out or even answering. I think I just answered my own question, but i still wonder why she can't be direct.
im not a girl but here are the 2 reasons shes doing this
1) just to see if she can (girls are more evil even if you dont think shes capable of doing this, SHE IS). She wants to know if she still has control over you. this is more of a subconcious thing, i doubt shes sitting there asking herself it, but its whats shes thinking
2) she wants to keep you around as insurance, or as chris rock says "in case shit"
1) just to see if she can (girls are more evil even if you dont think shes capable of doing this, SHE IS). She wants to know if she still has control over you. this is more of a subconcious thing, i doubt shes sitting there asking herself it, but its whats shes thinking
2) she wants to keep you around as insurance, or as chris rock says "in case shit"
Update: She calls me around 3:30 in the morning a few nights ago and was wondering why i didnt answer (she left a nice warm vm msg). I dunno guess she didnt think that i'd be asleep?? Geez what a crazy psycho whore.

