What to do about this?
11-03-2006, 07:08 PM
#121
Originally Posted by ShavedH22CL
I think this is going to be the relationship. We wont be having sex with anyone other then eachother and we are bestfriends so its a good situation. I am coming to terms with this now and i am starting to like it. The more time we spend together the closer we get. She says i am always the first person on her mind. All of my friend and her friend keep asking us why we are not offically Boyfriend and girlfriend and we reply witht he samething. "this is how we want it" I am very happy and so is she so i guess it has worked it self out.
11-03-2006, 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted by leedogg
Well this resolution lasted all of 3 days. lol
and now she tried to kill herself? 
11-04-2006, 10:41 AM
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A great sign of maturity. I am proud of you 
11-06-2006, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted by ShavedH22CL
I dont want to get away from her, i want to help her. She is seriously a good persona nd she has just had a messed up life.
Do you really want to be dragged into her problems? I understand the feeling of wanting to help her, but sometimes it can hurt you in the long run.
11-06-2006, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted by MikeCLS6
Do you really want to be dragged into her problems? I understand the feeling of wanting to help her, but sometimes it can hurt you in the long run.
I really care about her and i will help her no matter what.
11-06-2006, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by ShavedH22CL
I dont want to get away from her, i want to help her.
IMO, be there for her as a friend, MAYBE. But distance yourself from her ASAP. It is not healthy for you.
I'm telling you this from experience. You cannot help everyone.
11-06-2006, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
Trying to help people sucks, usually they just get mad at you or vice versa and it ends poorly.
11-06-2006, 03:38 PM
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Man, i just read this whole thread from the beginning, its like a soap opera. But seriously, i hope everything works out for you guys. Seems as though you really like her, and perhaps you could help her, but i would agree w/the other members, distance yourself enough to where you won't be effected greatly.
11-15-2006, 10:22 AM
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So after thanksgiving dinner Nicole and myself and our very good friend are going up to see her father and stay with him for 4 days. This is kinda a big thing caues she really wants me to meet her dad, she thinks caues of my personallity and that i have done well for my self at such a young age he will really like me. So i am hoping for the best. Wish me luck!
11-15-2006, 02:23 PM
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^^^I'm sure it will be. I was up there in August and all I could think of is how it would look after the leaves turn. It didn't look like there was much to do but ski and drink 
11-15-2006, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
^^^I'm sure it will be. I was up there in August and all I could think of is how it would look after the leaves turn. It didn't look like there was much to do but ski and drink
two of my fav. things Boarding and drinking lol