So I met this chick who is a Virgin...now I know you are going to say she is lying but by the way she acts I can tell. For instance she punches me instead of like hugging me like a kid wouldand she is 21. Anyways she is shy and has only had one boyfriend and that was when she was 16. Well I have gotten to 2nd base with her and there's somethin odd, she has Lil Nips opposite of these NWS because it is a close up of a nip from an encyclopedia...not porn just an example. So anywho its kind of weird because I am not used to lil nips. PLUS she has a weird personality so far. I thought she would open up but not really.

So now she is diggin me and I want to run only problem is we go to the same school and hang around the same circle. So what should I do? Duck and run and not care if she gets hurt or stickaround and see if it gets better? Or something else.

 

If you're not into her, just tell her the truth. Better for things to be awkward for a short period of time rather than have her hate you forever for leading her on.

 

What the fuck are you talking about? What is your question?

 

what the fuck is going on with you?

 

Shy girls are typically also smart girls. This post makes you sound like a dumb piece of shit. Do her a favor and end it now.

 

This coming from a dude with a piece of metal in his dick?

 

Didn't mean to sound harsh. Are you asking if you should bust the cherry of a weird girl with strange nipples?

 

So small nips is stopping you from persuing this anymore?

 

I would have taken the Blowjob angle, but ok......

 

So whats so hard about the question?

Here it is shortened:

She has a physical feature I am not too happy about and she is a bit quiet for my taste. SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Do I give her a chance to open up or just cut her loose? I have never dealt with a shy person so this is kind of new...if someone has whats the usual procedure...do they stay introverted or normally totally change?

 

Be prepared to put in a shit ton of time. I'd pass.

 

This post only confirms my suspicions.

This is a much better post than your first.

As she gets more comfortable around you she'll open up more. If you want to speed up the process you should open up to her. You being relaxed and open helps everyone around you feel more relaxed and open. It's basic human nature.

Shy people are insecure people. She thinks you're "above" her, she feels like she has to prove her worth to you. Let her know that you aren't perfect, and you accept her faults. With a little thought you can usually let this happen naturally in conversation. If not, one of my favorite tactics is as follows:

- We'll be driving somewhere in my car.
- I have her pick out a song on my iPod.
- I ask her if she likes to sing in the car.
- I try to get her to sing the song with me. She'll almost always say no.
- I start singing yourself.

Sometimes she'll join in, usually she won't. That doesn't matter. What does matter is that you've shown her you aren't afraid to make an idiot of yourself in front of her. You get points for confidence, and she's going to feel more relaxed and willing to open up around you.

Edit: also, if you pop this girl's cherry, be prepared for a stage 3 clinger. If her weird nipples are enough to make you think twice, i advise you to not do it.

 

get a 2nd job/loan and buy her a implant..

 

Need pics to make a proper assessment

 

Gonna agree with fdl on that...

 

Are we talkin Halle Barry small Nips here, or smaller. Cause Halle Barry small Nips freak me out too.

 

You're just used to them big black pancake nipples. See, if you started bangin white chicks and light skinned honies long ago like I told you, you'd be used to it by now.

Worked for me

 

Popping her cherry will turn her into an ultra clingy boat anchor. So you better plan on her staying around for awhile.

 

u like those salami nipples?

 

She reminds me of a white girl

Actually the funny part is the light skinned girl I used to date had small nipples too...yuck!

 

Nope halles are bigger

it's not te areola I am worredabout its the actual nip itself it feels like a bump not like a small eraser tip that I am used to

 

Are they innies?

 

that is disgusting...there would be no post if theywere that would have clenched it.

 

I really recommend you don't pop this girl's cherry.

 

I dont either

 

Suck on them hard and maybe they will pop out.

 

 

AKA 'boy nipples' . That's what she has. No wonder why it bothers you.

 

 

still no pics

 

I had a female friend for a couple of years before the opportunity presented itself to sleep with her. She had innies and the deal was off. I just couldn't get past it. I let her suck my dick instead and that was that.

 

it never ceases to amaze me what one can find on this forum....

 

Ok well I broke it off last night and we were talking about things. Appearantly all the shit I said didn't bother her. I tried to just say random raunchy shit like "You know if we date I am going to want to cum in your mouth" she thought I was being truthful

But I was wrong her nipples werent small I think I was just trying to find things wrong with her.

 

 

WOW, A has his dick pierced? I kind of want to get it pierced also, but have not worked up the courage yet. JJ, sorry for :threadhijack:

 

 

Indeed I do.

 

Where the fuck have you been?

 

huh? It had been discussed b4? linky? I still have some questions about it, hopefully I can find the answers there,

 

NIPPLE POWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!1