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Old 11-09-2003, 05:42 PM
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Uh-oh.....Minch made a topic......again.

Sigh.......I'm about to just fucking give up you guys. I made a mistake that made a girl I've cared about and been friends with for 10 years angry at me. I don't know what to do, I'm in tears because this girl just means that much to me, and I went and threw it all away because of a little joke.

I'll break it down for you guys. Friday afternoon I was helping in the school's cafe where they serve drinks and baked goods for cheap prices. A somewhat friend of mine threw a napkin at me, and it went in my mouth since I was talking to him at the time. After a really bad day, this set me off. I went over to him, and grabbed his hair (he wears it in a huge spiked afro), and kept it there. He tried to pull away, then kicked me in the balls so I would release. He says 'Man, what the fuck?' and I reply "Don't throw shit at me dude....". He gets up and storms off, I hear him talking to someone else about it just before he leaves.

I instantly feel horrible, not just because my nuts were throbbing, but because I knew I overreacted and went a little crazy. So I get in my car, and just start driving and thinking about it. I have a horrible pit in my stomach, and I decide to call a friend to relay an apology message since I didn't have the guy's phone number. The friend agrees and I feel better almost instantly.

I continue with my weekend until tonight. Suddenly almost out of the blue this girl IM's me, which she hasn't done in about 2-3 months.

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This is what transpired:

CrZyQtee143 (9:03:57 PM): what did you do to jordan on friday!?
Minch00 (9:04:14 PM): jeez, long time no talk and it has to be about this
Minch00 (9:04:34 PM): he threw something at me, and after a really bad day I just sort of snapped and grabbed his hair
CrZyQtee143 (9:05:07 PM): you need to stay out of renaissance if youre gonna act like that
CrZyQtee143 (9:05:12 PM): thats bullcrap
Minch00 (9:05:20 PM): i already apologized to him
Minch00 (9:05:29 PM): and i felt really bad about doing it
CrZyQtee143 (9:05:44 PM): why the hell would you do something like that?

Minch00 (9:05:54 PM): I DON'T KNOW OK
Minch00 (9:06:04 PM): I'm sorry, it's probably one of the worst things I've ever done
Minch00 (9:06:09 PM): but I can't take it back now
CrZyQtee143 (9:06:26 PM): but i mean seriously he just threw a napkin...big deal
Minch00 (9:06:33 PM): I know
Minch00 (9:06:38 PM): I'm totally in the wrong
Minch00 (9:06:57 PM): you know how bad i can make myself feel
Minch00 (9:07:01 PM): and you're not helping me right now

CrZyQtee143 (9:07:44 PM): im sorry if im makin it worse...i just didnt expect you to react like an elementary school boy
Minch00 (9:08:03 PM): I realize it was immature and stupid
Minch00 (9:08:10 PM): and I feel so horrible about it
Minch00 (9:08:51 PM): all I can do is apologize, and I did
CrZyQtee143 (9:09:00 PM): was sara in there when you did that?
Minch00 (9:09:09 PM): umm.....I don't know

CrZyQtee143 (9:09:56 PM): was there a girl in there
Minch00 (9:10:12 PM): I honestly do not remember
CrZyQtee143 (9:11:22 PM): oh well i think she was still in there when me and nikki left and that was like a min before the whole thing so if she was you should really apologize to her cuz i mean its one thing to do that in front of guys...but in front of a girl
Minch00 (9:11:53 PM): I know, I'm like literally almost in tears right now thinking about everything
Minch00 (9:12:02 PM): I just hate that you're angry at me
CrZyQtee143 (9:12:26 PM): well please dont cry...but i mean come on...jordan is my friend...do you not expect me to be mad

Minch00 (9:12:54 PM): No, I understand
Minch00 (9:13:47 PM): but I just thought you were my friend too.......but when you started this whole convo, like the first one we've had in i don't know how long, it's like you just speak to me with such utter discontempt and hatred.....I'm sorry Emilee, that's all I can do or say
CrZyQtee143 (9:14:42 PM): i know...it just really pisses me off because i expected you to act more mature than that
CrZyQtee143 (9:14:54 PM): im over it though
Minch00 (9:15:29 PM): I was surprised at myself too
Minch00 (9:15:45 PM): I drove all the way to clearmont thinking about it.....
Minch00 (9:15:50 PM): just to drive and clear my head

CrZyQtee143 (9:16:01 PM): clermont?
Minch00 (9:16:06 PM): yeah
Minch00 (9:16:12 PM): i had no reason to go there
Minch00 (9:16:15 PM): i just started driving
CrZyQtee143 (9:17:06 PM): thats far
Minch00 (9:17:13 PM): i know
Minch00 (9:17:25 PM): the whole time i had this horrible pit in my stomach

Minch00 (9:17:40 PM): my phone like destroyed itself so i didn't have his number anymore
Minch00 (9:17:48 PM): so i called john barnette and told him to apologize for me
Minch00 (9:18:02 PM): and i'm gonna talk to him on monday
CrZyQtee143 (9:18:26 PM): thats good
CrZyQtee143 (9:18:38 PM): well...i gotta go
CrZyQtee143 (9:18:40 PM): see ya
Minch00 (9:18:42 PM): ok
Minch00 (9:18:43 PM): bye

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So I'm just fucking emotionally dstraught about this whole thing. I've basically liked/loved this girl for going on 10 years, and she does this. I just don't get it. I don't even know if she is worth the hassle. She knows how easily upset I get, especially when it involves her, and she KNOWs that I like her (fuck, the WHOLE SCHOOL KNOWS), but she's never let that bother her....

I don't know. Tonight's been a bad night. And I have a feeling tomorrow is not going to be any better.
Old 11-09-2003, 05:49 PM
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Old 11-09-2003, 05:54 PM
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:00 PM
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CrZyQtee143 (9:14:54 PM): im over it though
did you miss that?? she said she's over it, so calm down and get over it yourself
Old 11-09-2003, 06:04 PM
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Old 11-09-2003, 06:06 PM
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um alright
1. how could she be such good friends with you if she hasn't talked to you in months

2. your going to college soon what do you care about what this girl thinks

3. she'll get over it

4. shes being a total little stupid bitch, if she thinks shit about you she doesn't need to tell you. damn minch, why the fuck are you takign taht bull fucking crap from this chick. i dont care how long youve known her, that just makes it worse. if shes not happy with something youve done then she can go and fuck herself, not give you shit. shes going way overboard. if she says something about it again just be like "well if your gonna talk shit to my face then dont talk to me", damn, make HER feel bad that shes saying this shit to you, remember YOUVE had the hard week, not this girl

and dont cry over something this stupid, and dont cry over this girl
Old 11-09-2003, 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121

3. she'll get over it
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girls are never over it, they never forget shit, they just put in the back of their mind that they pull out next time they are pissed at you
which is it?
Old 11-09-2003, 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by danny25
which is it?
ok good point,

my bad

i just broke up with girl and im in a very "girls are evil" mood heh, so excuse my harshness
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haha, you're still probably right about "they never forget shit, they just put in the back of their mind that they pull out next time they are pissed at you"
Old 11-09-2003, 06:18 PM
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1. that convo is to long to read...
2. WHo gives a fuck what some broad thinks man u had to do what u had to do and you only did it cause your heart was into it..otherwise you wouldnt have punked that kid out..
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Originally posted by mikeymobiles
1. that convo is to long to read...
2. WHo gives a fuck what some broad thinks man u had to do what u had to do and you only did it cause your heart was into it..otherwise you wouldnt have punked that kid out..
you did something for a reason its not her buisness why you did it
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hey, he threw shit at you, if he didnt wanna get his hair grabbed he shouldnt have fucked with you. and the girl, i woulda told her, "yea, i grabbed his hair, bastard threw a napkin in my mouth, he's lucky thats all he got". then hang the phone up.
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Minch,
Im not usually an advocate of prescription drugs but...

get on some fucking anxiety meds

Then when you graduate, go to college at least 1000 miles away, and become the cool silent mysterious dude that never talks. But dont fuck it up and become the weirdo who never says a word.

then youll be all good, its high school and high school doesnt mean shit, youll figure that one out soon enough.
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Originally posted by Python2121
um alright
1. how could she be such good friends with you if she hasn't talked to you in months

2. your going to college soon what do you care about what this girl thinks

3. she'll get over it

4. shes being a total little stupid bitch, if she thinks shit about you she doesn't need to tell you. damn minch, why the fuck are you takign taht bull fucking crap from this chick. i dont care how long youve known her, that just makes it worse. if shes not happy with something youve done then she can go and fuck herself, not give you shit. shes going way overboard. if she says something about it again just be like "well if your gonna talk shit to my face then dont talk to me", damn, make HER feel bad that shes saying this shit to you, remember YOUVE had the hard week, not this girl

and dont cry over something this stupid, and dont cry over this girl
Good Job Python...!!! You and Minchy are the same age...so there's still hope that Minchy will figure it out...
Old 11-09-2003, 07:19 PM
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ok seriously how old are you? this is a kiddy bullshit problem
Old 11-09-2003, 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by strawberryclock
ok seriously how old are you? this is a kiddy bullshit problem
I'm 17.......my life is FULL of kiddie bullshit problems.
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Originally posted by strawberryclock
ok seriously how old are you? this is a kiddy bullshit problem
dude i think your missed out on something to be asking that questions
Old 11-09-2003, 07:49 PM
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This is the type of thread I was refering too when i made this thread.

http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showt...hreadid=118270
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im 17 too and crying over some shit like this is rediculous...you really need to lighten up dude..

One day go to school without worrying about what other people think of you or how the percieve you. Its highschool... you wont know 90% of these people the rest of your life.. who gives a shit what they think. If you like this girl and she knows it and doesnt feel the same then forget it.. just go to school and forget about everyone else. Say whats on your mind and be you. Dont apologize to that fucking prick, kick his ass again (next time dont resort to bitch tactics IE: grabbing his hair..) knock the shit out of him. You have to remember.. its HIGH SCHOOL, seriously minch, i have read all your topics since you started making them awhile ago and you REALLY need to stop caring so much about everyone because obviously it isnt mutual. Forget them and move on..have some fun and dont be such a pussy in the future.

Sorry to sound so harsh but you really need to get a clue.. what your doing now isnt working. Stop being such a nice guy...learn to be an asshole, chicks dig assholes.
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she sounds like a nerd or somethin, who gives a fuck if there was a girl around when u did it

tell her to go fuck her self
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its true, chicks do dig assholes
Old 11-09-2003, 08:26 PM
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Originally posted by darrinb
she sounds like a nerd or somethin,
She's Cheerleading captain
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i think there should be like a 8 line limit for posting im conversations.
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She's Cheerleading captain
at my highschool that would make her a dumb slut. youre not helping her out.
Old 11-09-2003, 08:34 PM
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a girl would never yell at me for hittin a guy in front of a girl, wtf is the big deal man
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oh tell the girl to fuck off. shes acting like it wasnt gentleman of you to do that in front of a lady, but a lady wouldnt go around bitching to men.

fuck women, girls are the most hypocritical fake people you will ever meet.
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arent u a girl
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yeah. the only reason im glad im a girl, is i dont have to figure women out to date them.

As I said to Joe, men are easy to keep happy.

full tummies, plenty of sleep, some guy time/computer game time, and sex, and for the most part that keeps them happy
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will you marry me
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
yeah. the only reason im glad im a girl, is i dont have to figure women out to date them.

As I said to Joe, men are easy to keep happy.

full tummies, plenty of sleep, some guy time/computer game time, and sex, and for the most part that keeps them happy
not every girl is like that, most of em i know, want to spend your money, go shopping all day, etc etc shit like that, i hate girls like that

u seem like a chick i would go for though, i dont like those snobby girls that are just gold diggers
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a spiked afro?????
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minch while i would appologize to the guy, i would not go arround appologizing to people arround the place...thats fuking week shit man...the girl sounds controling...i said some stupid shit to a few girls, and yea they get pissed, but i would never break down and cry about it...if they want to overreact...they should fucking go ahead.

'sides the guy kicked you in the balls...thats more than even...did he appologize for that shit?

man you need to be arround girls that dont treat you like shit
Old 11-10-2003, 04:53 AM
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damn bro... who gives a fawk what some broad says.. you did what you did.. what are you all a bunch of lil bitches.. you throw a temper tantrum and you boy throws one back!?!?!?!? WTF!?!!?!?

you all need to grow up!!! and whos thsi bitch saying to apologize to a girl who witnessed it?! this broad wasn't involved so FAWK THAT!!! has nothing to do with her!!! and whats this almost in tears shit?! those balls you got kicked in.. GROW THEM!!!

sorry Minch... I dont mean to jump down your throat but this has got to be the stupidest shit you ever whined about!!!!
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I dont mean to jump down your throat but this has got to be the stupidest shit you ever whined about!!!!
word... I havent seen the other shit he's whined about but man, this one is bad.
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minch, dude what's wrong with you, your boy kicked u in the balls. Friend or not, someone kicks you in the balls u knock his ass out, then u tell him not to ever do that shit again. As far as ur little friend, tell her to fuck off, and and stop meddling in other people's lives, that girl sounded like a total bitch for giving you so much attituede. And please get some testerone replacement therapy cause ur obviously lacking the balls to produce some if u were crying over this shit. Sorry for being a dick but man u need to grow up and stop worrying about this type of stupid shit.
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i know. he was just starting to grow some balls and someone goes along and kicks them back in. its a shame
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
yeah. the only reason im glad im a girl, is i dont have to figure women out to date them.

As I said to Joe, men are easy to keep happy.

full tummies, plenty of sleep, some guy time/computer game time, and sex, and for the most part that keeps them happy
Can you come preach the word here in Utah for a little while?
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Silvia's got it right.

I like the girl's name, though...Emilee.

Minch's issues are gonna have issues soon. :shakehd:
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where's RobG at!!!!

grrrr....brandon...you know what i think about the situation, i was at Beths last night when you guys were talking...i agree w/ everything she said.

HOLLA!.....:P


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