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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 12:25 PM
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im a lil angry right now because the only thing i ever tell my gf not to talk about his her old bf....cause...i just dont wanna hear it, and she knows that

so we were at lunch and she was talking about him and like i was really pissed and she musta known it cause i barely said anything after that

i wonder if she even knows wtf she did

its just my pet peeve, and it pisses the fuck outa me

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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:04 PM
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wtf thats rude. (what she did) what does she keep saying about him?
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:07 PM
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that sucks...

Avoid talking about other guys ladies... also avoid talking about your period and also avoid talking about anything that makes us look at you different like forgetting to shave your legs or armpits or moustache...

you get my point
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:13 PM
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im smart enough not to do that. besides its been 3 and a half years and my last bf before him lasted 2 weeks. nothing to talk about.



oh and shit. ive said so many off the wall things that i get weird looks for its not funny. but i dont care. i think its fun
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:13 PM
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Eh...I must be the minority on this topic...

I really don't care if my woman talks about one of her exes.

I guess the real issue is that she is not considerate to something that does bother you, and that's a problem.

Prolly not a good thing on your part to just fume silently about it either though.
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:19 PM
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Originally posted by Pull_T
Eh...I must be the minority on this topic...

I really don't care if my woman talks about one of her exes.

I guess the real issue is that she is not considerate to something that does bother you, and that's a problem.

Prolly not a good thing on your part to just fume silently about it either though.


so Don't talk about hygiene heffier
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:34 PM
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wtf thats rude. (what she did) what does she keep saying about him?
nothing really bad just in general about 1. she was talking about how he used to get her drunk and stuff and i was like "uhh ok"

and it just pisses me off that i specifically asked her not to talk about it

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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:43 PM
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sounds like shes trying to make you jealous..
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:45 PM
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[17:47] Tori: what did u want me to say?
[17:48] Tori: im sorry but he is bound to come up in comversation once in awhile and if ur gona get pissed ab ity every time then we r gona have a problem
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:46 PM
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u cant just keep it inside next time she does it pinch her until she cries maybe she will get the point.




GET OVER IT AND KNOW YOU ARE HER MAN NOW....dont act like a bitch about it...or else yer gunna be single again...
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:48 PM
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grr that pissed me off but i got it kind of sorta sorted out and i feel better
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:48 PM
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With that attitude she'll soon be telling her man things like:

"Python and I used to come here to eat every now and again"

"My last bf, Python, was a jealous freak. I am glad I broke up with him"

"Python never made me come so hard"

etc.
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:48 PM
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I just stopped dating a girl for the same thing: I wasn't pissed, but c'mmon - its respect and just a common courtesy...
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 01:48 PM
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and i love your icon sloo
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 02:17 PM
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tell her that is bullshit. making coment about how he used to get her drunk is not necessary to a conversation
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 02:22 PM
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tell her that is bullshit. making coment about how he used to get her drunk is not necessary to a conversation
yeah i know i talked w/ her ab it and its amazing how much better letting it out makes you feel, but i was really pissed and she told me she knew....so why wouldn't she say something like "why are you pissed?"

w/e i feel better cause she, besides that one comment, was somewhat understanding

i feel like when i bring stuff like this up w/ anyone ppl get so damn defensive
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 02:33 PM
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no i understand, its not like she was saying anything important, especially since she knew it would piss you off. she didnt ask you what was wrong, because she knew she deliberately pissed you off
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 02:52 PM
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no i understand, its not like she was saying anything important, especially since she knew it would piss you off. she didnt ask you what was wrong, because she knew she deliberately pissed you off
ill take some advise from a girl. why would she do that?

she doesn't seem like the type to do it and she knows i know she hates her old bf b/c he threatened all of her friends and stuff

but im pretty sure your right, the thing that killed me is that she didn't even ask whats wrong when she KNEW i was pissed and even said she knew
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121
[17:47] Tori: what did u want me to say?
[17:48] Tori: im sorry but he is bound to come up in comversation once in awhile and if ur gona get pissed ab ity every time then we r gona have a problem
What a bitch!!!!
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 03:48 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121
[17:47] Tori: what did u want me to say?
[17:48] Tori: im sorry but he is bound to come up in comversation once in awhile and if ur gona get pissed ab ity every time then we r gona have a problem
"Now who are you dating, him or me?"
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 03:52 PM
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ill take some advise from a girl. why would she do that?

she doesn't seem like the type to do it and she knows i know she hates her old bf b/c he threatened all of her friends and stuff

but im pretty sure your right, the thing that killed me is that she didn't even ask whats wrong when she KNEW i was pissed and even said she knew
i honestly dont know why. i would never do such a thing.
but then again chicks like guys who are mean to them.. you know the typical relationship where the guy cheats and lies to her but, "i love him so much. and he loves me too" sort of thing.

maybe shes still hung up on him
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 04:05 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
maybe shes still hung up on him
Bingo
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Old Oct 21, 2003 | 09:08 PM
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[17:47] Tori: what did u want me to say?
[17:48] Tori: im sorry but he is bound to come up in comversation once in awhile and if ur gona get pissed ab ity every time then we r gona have a problem

Whoa...there is a lotta something in that. I say and get outta dodge...
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 05:08 AM
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you know the more i think about it, that is really disrespectful to you and your feelings.

you need to start talking about an ex gf and how she used to love the cock.

and when she complains be like well damn its bound to come up in conversation. if youre gonna get pissed were gonna have a problem
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 06:00 AM
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you know the more i think about it, that is really disrespectful to you and your feelings.

you need to start talking about an ex gf and how she used to love the cock.

and when she complains be like well damn its bound to come up in conversation. if youre gonna get pissed were gonna have a problem
and focking

(hey, I want a focking werd smilie hehe)
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 12:46 PM
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Eh...I must be the minority on this topic...

I really don't care if my woman talks about one of her exes.

I guess the real issue is that she is not considerate to something that does bother you, and that's a problem.

Prolly not a good thing on your part to just fume silently about it either though.
Me either, if anything u can try to make her forget about him the old fashioned way.
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 12:48 PM
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you know the more i think about it, that is really disrespectful to you and your feelings.

you need to start talking about an ex gf and how she used to love the cock.

and when she complains be like well damn its bound to come up in conversation. if youre gonna get pissed were gonna have a problem
LOL, i love to see the video of that reaction from her.
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 12:50 PM
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LOL, i love to see the video of that reaction from her.
yea cause you know if a guy said something like that it wouldn't be taken the same way
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 01:07 PM
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or..

"now i know what i need to do"

"whats that?"

"im gonna fuck your mom"
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 01:25 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
or..

"now i know what i need to do"

"whats that?"

"im gonna fuck your mom"
HAH! best video evAr!
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 01:29 PM
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next time she starts talking about her ex, just :piitb2:
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Old Oct 22, 2003 | 02:10 PM
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HAH! best video evAr!
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 12:37 PM
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yo, who is her ex... he might have to get got nah mean... westchester pride my nizzle
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 12:38 PM
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oh and btw.... girls do that to make you feel jealous becaus ethey want more attention... at least thats what it was with me before... all about attention... so you know what i gave them??? THE MANDINGO
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 01:01 PM
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her old boyfriend must of
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 01:01 PM
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or mayb even
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 01:02 PM
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yo, who is her ex... he might have to get got nah mean... westchester pride my nizzle
get got & westchester should never go together
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 07:24 PM
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ive basically become a real asshole lately, and i dunno i was insanely depressed and just taking it out on everyone

i was pissed at her and the thing is i dont even care that much about any of this i was just looking for an outlet for all my anger and stress and sadness and its just been one of those weeks....

if anyone knows what im talking about
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Old Oct 23, 2003 | 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121
ive basically become a real asshole lately, and i dunno i was insanely depressed and just taking it out on everyone

i was pissed at her and the thing is i dont even care that much about any of this i was just looking for an outlet for all my anger and stress and sadness and its just been one of those weeks....

if anyone knows what im talking about
Dood, I feel ya. My best friend of 12 yrs has been pissin me off lately. I'll prob start a thread about that sometime to get everyone's opinion.
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Old Oct 24, 2003 | 12:09 AM
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get got & westchester should never go together
whachu know bout peekskill soop
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