Originally Posted by Beth for RPGAH

It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt. You have to really fucking cross those fingers cos if you do something that hurts your current g/f's feelings...It will never be forgotten. You are treading in the dangerous waters of a woman.

Well, if the deed WILL BE done...make sure your g/f is secure in her own skin and secure in your relationship....never engage in this just before the female cycle (we are emotional). Just remember...all will NEVER be forgotten...the good, bad and ugly. If you remain a couple you may hear phrases like "remember when you....?" or "do you wish I could.....like her"? or some other insecure comments that might passively affect her.

I hate to be so serious but sounds like OP is truly looking for some quality feedback.