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Old Jan 11, 2009 | 09:39 PM
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Is there something that your S/O likes to do that you don't?

Like the title says...Is there something your Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Husband/Wife likes to do that you don't like to do?

For me it's open mouth kissing, and just kissing too much on the lips. I don't know what it is about it, but i've never been a fan of swapping spit very often. I mean I don't HATE doing it, I just don't like doing it EVERY DAY. And it's not only recently, it's something i've felt even while playing the field waaaay before I was married. So for my wife, who yearns for it all the time and I don't give it up that often, the times that I do give in and open my mouth willingly, she gasps mid-kiss because it's so unexpected and surprising. Sorta keeps it special, which is partially why I only do it once in a while. Other than that, she always wants to kiss me passionately on the lips (without the tongue exchange, although she tries to open my mouth), and it almost always is at a time where I'm either distracted doing something else (I hate it when she tries to distract me when i'm focused on something and she wants attention), or dead tired and just want to go to sleep.

For me I just like to softly kiss her all over her cheek/neck/arms/body, and that's good enough for me. The tongue is the bonus. She likes that but always wants more.

How about you?
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Old Jan 11, 2009 | 10:08 PM
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Whoah, and here I thought you were going to mention watching tv while she prefers going for long walks.
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Old Jan 11, 2009 | 11:00 PM
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Old Jan 11, 2009 | 11:29 PM
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C'mon, stay on topic....
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 07:24 AM
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Back rubs. I have never liked them, or really liked giving them. The wife loves them.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:15 AM
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Back rubs. I have never liked them, or really liked giving them. The wife loves them.
same here
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:19 AM
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:29 AM
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Foot rubs. She likes 'em, I couldn't care less about them.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Back rubs. I have never liked them, or really liked giving them. The wife loves them.
yea, my ex freakin loved them and I hated giving or receiving them. She mentioned that as one of the reasons we broke up
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:45 AM
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not a thing yet
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 10:28 AM
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yea, my ex freakin loved them and I hated giving or receiving them. She mentioned that as one of the reasons we broke up
Harsh.

I actually dated a PT major once and she was pissed because I hated to get back rubs and she needed to practice.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 10:35 AM
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my gf likes to talk on the phone. i hate it
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Back rubs. I have never liked them, or really liked giving them. The wife loves them.
:werd on the receiving but I like giving them. Usually gets the wife all worked up
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by NSXNEXT
:werd on the receiving but I like giving them. Usually gets the wife all worked up
+1, wife love's 'em
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted by NSXNEXT
:werd on the receiving but I like giving them. Usually gets the wife all worked up
Giving them is better when there is oil involved.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:21 AM
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Trance music and any kind of dance music, I love it she hates it.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:40 AM
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Originally Posted by NSXNEXT
:werd on the receiving but I like giving them. Usually gets the wife all worked up
Same here. I never said I didn't do it. Just not my favorite thing. The outcome is usually favorable.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:51 AM
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Taking it in the butt....I never like receiving so needless to say my s/o does the receiving.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
Taking it in the butt....I never like receiving so needless to say my s/o does the receiving.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
Taking it in the butt....I never like receiving so needless to say my s/o does the receiving.
:theghey:
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 12:40 PM
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I am talking about my ex-girlfriend you nasty fucks........ewwwwwwwwwwwww I read that back to myself too and it didn't sound right either.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 12:46 PM
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^ it still sounds weird... what's up with you man
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 01:21 PM
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^ it still sounds weird... what's up with you man
i still give that sentence a
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
I am talking about my ex-girlfriend you nasty fucks........ewwwwwwwwwwwww I read that back to myself too and it didn't sound right either.
you are!
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:14 PM
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WTF were your ex girl's sticking in your ass?

[EDIT] Forget it, I don't want to know.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:17 PM
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why would you like to stick something in YOUR ass??

gross man
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:46 PM
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AWESOME THREAD!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:56 PM
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^ you should explain... before this gets out of control... possibly later tonight...
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:57 PM
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ya, are you the pitcher or catcher?
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
Taking it in the butt....I never like receiving so needless to say my s/o does the receiving.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 03:09 PM
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I'd have to agree with the whole kissing and backrub thing, the kissing was good at leading to ther things, and the backrub were a good way to get your hands on them initially without coming off as perv. That stuff was always fun when used with someone new, trying to get them to go further until you hit it. Once I was with them for a while that always got boring to do. Then when I'd move on to the next it was fun to start it all over again.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 05:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
Whoah, and here I thought you were going to mention watching tv while she prefers going for long walks.
So, What do YOU like or dislike?
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 06:00 PM
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by anarchy[sear]
I am talking about my ex-girlfriend you nasty fucks........ewwwwwwwwwwwww I read that back to myself too and it didn't sound right either.
OK...we're nasty....but you still sound gay if you read what you wrote.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted by SG81
ya, are you the pitcher or catcher?
Hahaha...the bender or the sender...
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 09:40 PM
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my gf likes to talk on the phone. i hate it

+1 we have many arguments about it.
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:04 PM
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The girl I'm seeing currently bites, and scratches. I can't decide if the trade-off of getting some is worth having bite marks and scratch marks all over my body...
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:24 PM
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^ does she do that when she's having orgasm? or just whenever?
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Old Jan 12, 2009 | 11:33 PM
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The girl I'm seeing currently bites, and scratches. I can't decide if the trade-off of getting some is worth having bite marks and scratch marks all over my body...
youll learn to like it. just choke her out a bit
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Old Jan 13, 2009 | 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by sho_nuff1997
+1 we have many arguments about it.
we fight about it too. she seems to think that if i don't want to talk on the phone w/ her, then i don't care as much
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